Hi members, i have a problem budging me and it is making me restless. Sometimes i feel sad and depressed and this happens especially when i purchase something of recent. It has been happening for years now and i want to know if it's normal and anybody experiencing such... Advise pls

Maybe you're suffering from buyers remorse.
Look it up and decide.

Do you have a problem with spending? Or are you a compulsive shopper? You might have a particularly strong case of buyer's remorse. In the West, you just return the stuff you bought the next day or week or month! But I am sure you can't do that in Naija and that might explain the depression.

Start selling your properties. It will make you happy..
It is very easy to be wiwe, just think of a silly thing and do the opposite.

Op,how often do u buy gift for ur parents or grandparents? Is there anyone u av promised a gift and u are yet to fufill? Do u give alms to d needy and offering in church?do u give ur tithe regularly? If u are a married man,are u comfortable with ur kids skulls,is ur wife workin or doin a good bizness?

I guess u feel bad after purchasin items only to realise u ad more pending and very impotant tins to do with d money. Causion ur spendings and buy only tins dat are very impotant,dont buy tins on impulse cos u just myt never use dem. Ensure u send gift or cash to ur parents as often as u can, thier daily prayers are very important in our lives. And pray very well.

moremi2008: Do you have a problem with spending? Or are you a compulsive shopper? You might have a particularly strong case of buyer's remorse. In the West, you just return the stuff you bought the next day or week or month! But I am sure you can't do that in Naija and that might explain the depression.

Exactly. I bought a Bold 2 6days ago and it had some minor problem so i returned it. I was given a bold 3 and everytin seem okay but sometime i feel like returning it and collecting my money. A guy saw me today and saw the phone and was like this phone is not that good, bold 2 is better bla bla bla.... He convinced me to return it and have made up my mind to return or sell it tomorrow, do it worth the stress and how can i cure such a feeling, pls help.

Excelboi: Exactly. I bought a Bold 2 6days ago and it had some minor problem so i returned it. I was given a bold 3 and everytin seem okay but sometime i feel like returning it and collecting my money. A guy saw me today and saw the phone and was like this phone is not that good, bold 2 is better bla bla bla.... He convinced me to return it and have made up my mind to return or sell it tomorrow, do it worth the stress and how can i cure such a feeling, pls help.

You probably can't "cure" it. Some people's brain chemistry predisposes them to certain types of anxieties and moods. If you were based in the US, I would have recommended going to see a therapist. The best you can do in Nigeria is manage your feelings. Now that you have an idea of what triggers your feelings of depression, try to avoid those triggers. Never make big purchases without weeks of deliberation and without seeking 3rd party advice first. You can also try never leaving home with too much cash in your wallet so you don't buy expensive things compulsively.

Excelboi: Exactly. I bought a Bold 2 6days ago and it had some minor problem so i returned it. I was given a bold 3 and everytin seem okay but sometime i feel like returning it and collecting my money. A guy saw me today and saw the phone and was like this phone is not that good, bold 2 is better bla bla bla.... He convinced me to return it and have made up my mind to return or sell it tomorrow, do it worth the stress and how can i cure such a feeling, pls help.

Typical case of buyers remorse.
Actually, i could help to counsel you for a fee. . .

Now that Nigeria is going cashless, lot's of people are going to be in trouble.
The ATM card is a quick way of spending money and i can't tell you to leave it at home because of emergencies.

Bottom line, condition your mind.
Make up your mind that you ain't buying anything except it is extremely necessary.

Best of luck.

BlueDiva:

Typical case of buyers remorse.
Actually, i could help to counsel you for a fee. . .

Now that Nigeria is going cashless, lot's of people are going to be in trouble.
The ATM is a quick way of spending money and i can't tell you to leave it at home because of emergencies.

Bottom line, condition your mind.
Make up your mind that you ain't buying anything except it is extremely necessary.

Best of luck.

Nigeria is not going to go cashless anytime soon! This is just another one of Sanusi's many delusions.

Thanks Bluediva and moremi... May be i should just accept my fate... More advise still needed though... That is life sha

Hmmm

Sharp business man.
Rofl

moremi2008:

Nigeria is not going to go cashless anytime soon! This is just another one of Sanusi's many delusions.

LOL. . .Don't bet on it.