Princessdoja: Hi guys, I've been dating my guy for almost 2yrs now n we love each a lot. We r already making marriage plans bt I noticed recently dat he's unhappy and he told me his family went to pray n dey said we r not spiritually compactible. Pls wat do I do am broken!

You can come and see me. I'll lay hands on you and repair you with prayers and fasting.

honeric01: This is why i still have the thought about "sex before marriage being bad and not in favor of the ladies". @OP, has he entered the promised land? if not, then you should cry less, but if yes, then he got what he wanted and felt you have nothing else to offer.

UP your game, add value to your life and any guy lucky enough to get your attention won't screw you over again.

U're suppose to advise, not condemn.. All dis holier than thou pple sef..haba!

careytommy: People usually say 'I broke up...' When they end a relationship. Because 'third parties' put an end to your relationship, is that why you wrote 'I'm broken'?
You better sue your high school english language teacher for a refund!
BTW, I suspect your 'guy' is the one behind it?

nope, it is you, mother-tongue accented, english-allergic and english language sub-rookie that owes your teacher a triple refund!!!
guy, how could you be a total greenhorn to semantics and the proper use of english

Loskee:

nope, it is you, mother-tongue accented, english-allergic and english language sub-rookie that owes your teacher a triple refund!!!
guy, how could you be a total greenhorn to semantics and the proper use of english

o gurl! U no dey go church @ all @ all! Lwkm! In short, anywhere u go, I go dey follow follow u!

simply put , he is politely telling u it is over

Princessdoja: Hi guys, I've been dating my guy for almost 2yrs now n we love each a lot. We r already making marriage plans bt I noticed recently dat he's unhappy and he told me his family went to pray n dey said we r not spiritually compactible. Pls wat do I do am broken!

Please, for the Love of God! This is a miracle! He's a mama's boy. Worst case scenario, it's always better to be a single mom than to get married to a mama's boy.

I know I've not heard it all, but this is something I never would have thought existed.
What is spiritual compatibility?

careytommy: People usually say 'I broke up...' When they end a relationship. Because 'third parties' put an end to your relationship, is that why you wrote 'I'm broken'?
You better sue your high school english language teacher for a refund!
BTW, I suspect your 'guy' is the one behind it?

If she means being broken hearted then she is not wrong.

careytommy: People usually say 'I broke up...' When they end a relationship. Because 'third parties' put an end to your relationship, is that why you wrote 'I'm broken'?
You better sue your high school english language teacher for a refund!
BTW, I suspect your 'guy' is the one behind it?

when the poster said she was broken she meant emotionally broken. Like she has a broken heart. Think.

I think wat u shld do is check exactly what they mean by spiritual compatibility. Get d full info of wat they wia told, it will help. I had a friend and sister of mine dt had similar issue. The fiancé fell in luv wit another babe, he didn't wnt to tell her straight, he came and told M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ dt he was confused , dt d family went to check nd they wia nt compatible spiritually .he came as if he cme for advise. I advised him to pray himself and hear dt frm God himslf.
He broke up wit her. She was heart broken . She told M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ dt she won't date anyone again, dt next will be her marriage. Dt was exactly hw it happened. 3 months later her husband appeared. The guy had seen her 6months ago and was watching her, asking God to convince him. 4 months later, her bride price was paid. The ex fiancé started coming back asking M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ to beg her. This τ̅im̶̲̥̅̊ƨ it was her turn to retaliate. She didn't tell d guy her bride price has been paid. He ws wasting his τ̅im̶̲̥̅̊ƨ begging. A month later, her wedding card was ready. she just gave him d privilege of being d first person to be invited. She conceived and bore. D ex out of shame went and married one babe. he ws regretting his actions Bt it was late. I wish him well sha . Such will be your case. If he is tired of u, move on and don't be in a hurry to enter in2 a new relationship no myter how old u r. U hv d greater part of your life ahead.

honeric01: This is why i still have the thought about "sex before marriage being bad and not in favor of the ladies". @OP, has he entered the promised land? if not, then you should cry less, but if yes, then he got what he wanted and felt you have nothing else to offer.

UP your game, add value to your life and any guy lucky enough to get your attention won't screw you over again.

exactly how did this matter generate from spiritual incompatibility to sex games. Pls face d issue at hand and stop preaching wat u don't practice. Everyone knows premarital sex is bad, but hey, do not judge so that you may not be judged

Spiritual compatibility? Holy crap! What won't I hear or read about breaking up.

cloud7: My Sister dont worry!Just calculate how many times he banged you, multiply by how many rounds and finally multiply 5k per round...then sue him and his family,I tell you ..you will be a Billionaire

Are u high on something or what? Must u comment when u don't have a reasonable thing to say.

Yeah, i know someone who did that when his gf got pregs for him, said his folks & pastor said all kinda trash but the girls family insisted he marries her despite bn warned not to force a man who clearly doesnt lover her just cos shes pregnant. His parents denied being involved with the scam excuse & he had to marry the girl. Now as I write, the man has chased out of the house, now wasnt it better she just gave birth & became a single mum than have to suffer the shame of being a one time married woman?
My candid advise is just ask his parents first about the claims, if they deny or accept it at this point, please kindly pack ur things, leave the man alone & dont look back. Dnt call him, dnt pick and cancel all communication including fbk. Dust up ur pieces as i did a month ago and believe me, a good thing is definitely gonna happen. The earlier u let go, the quicker ur joy comes

Dont let us take this issue personal, let us look into it critically.
Majority posted here to side/favor dis girl and blamed or abuse d guy. If i am reporting somtin, there is a way i can put it that i wont be guilty or not too guilty. Can we sincerely ask this lady who she is, who guy really is, her church and other tins?
After this, i think we an continue from there.
If you are spiritually right standing, just keep praying and optimistic. God bless you and all the poster here.

Its alie. He doesn't luv u anymore. Happened to a neigbor. She dated d guy from ss1 till after he finished medical school and she read accounting. When it was time to marry , he said his mum tnks she is too old for him. Imagine! After choppin d whole thing for free! Ur guy has found a new model. Don't be deceived.

bisi16:
U're suppose to advise, not condemn.. All dis holier than thou pple sef..haba!

Don't mind them. Their wahala too much for NL

Loskee:

nope, it is you, mother-tongue accented, english-allergic and english language sub-rookie that owes your teacher a triple refund!!!
guy, how could you be a total greenhorn to semantics and the proper use of english

Don't mind him. Some people think English Language is their birthrights and hence they come here and try to show off senselessly.