naijasexy:
Probably because I am not on the prowl for men?

Men, maybe..

How about a 'man'?

female on female bashing. . . . #itsallgood. I mean we can't all be amazing like me *kanye shrug*

Michky: I do. As long as u're smarter dan average and collaboratively selfless. Questn is how do i find u?

Lol. I didn't say I was boring or lacked those skills. I would like to think I manage my introversion well enough to be able to hold a conversation with anyone. I was only pointing out that people [like me] tend to hide in a shell where no one would ever notice them.

@The emboldened, that's a rhetorical question right?

shymmex:

Men, maybe..

How about a 'man'?

Lol. smh

Wen u turn 'horror face' wn a man says 'hi' evn wn he jst askn 4 directn.

Yeah! gals ve dia own faults but sometimes its guyz d@ makes dem wiser nd smarter ova oda dudes..besyds men on d oda hand ve dia own part of d blame...so pls, stop puttin al d blame on d gals. somtyms wen a woman is to summisive u find out d@ d man in question quickly develops an habit of turnin ha into a punchin bag. So i disagree on som points here. In my own view both sex ve some similar attitute in d above list.. He wu is witout sin shld cast d 1st stone..shikena!

naijasexy:

Lol. smh

You just 'lol' your way to my heart, bless you.

Now that you've found me, what are you planning to do with me?

Rich4god: To add again... DRESSING. The way some girls dress is heart breaking. Some dress as if they are going for swimming with a very tight leggings that shows the outline of what they have... Am pretty sure that a man looking for a wife wont even look in their direction. IMHO.

I agree with 3ou totally. Though i'm a lady, the way some ladies dress usually piss me off. I'm always like are these girls gonna get married?

codeaddict: Mukina2, What is THIS doing on the front page?

hey, this is the most important thing because after making all the
money one must need settle down. please allow them to air their mind, people
are dying silently yet no body wants to talk about it.

webdezzi:

give in late, whats gonna be is gonna be

are you minding him. Sex, sex, sex as if ones life depends on it.

shymmex:

Who's StrangerFXYZ?

Are you having a laugh, or something?

I forgot 'patosibe'.
Lemme tell you a secret *I am beginning to find you entertaining*

Tgirl4real: You wear more make-up than clothes.

Your method of getting a man comes from Nollywood"

U fight with every guy u meet

You talk to so many the decent ones
can't be bothered sticking around and you lose out

No man is going to put up with an attitude that you can't even put up with yourself.

You can't find a man when you're too busy banging everyone

You dont cook. You dont clean. You dont take out the trash. You just DONT.

You compare too much or you act desperate/annoying.

You ignore the one who adores you and adore the one that ignores you.

Ur too busy holding onto the last one.

You Too Busy Searching For A Guy That's
Like Your Ex Instead Of Looking For Better.

So . . .

Add the following below to the reason some people get dump:
lying, secretive and keeping information

Nwa Teacher: 1. When you stop living a life of pretence and be real and natural for once. 2. When you stop seeing any r/ship as an avenue of making money. Eating guys mugu. 3. When you start dressing like a lady who will change 2 be a mother 2moro. 4. When you start bringing good ideas to ur man

Thank you, you said it all

naijasexy:

LOL @ emboldened! Nothing wrong with aiming for the best o.

@Post, so on point! May I add that some ladies who are overly introverted(like myself :p) don't take time to explore the world around them and therefore fail to meet and mix with many people, lack the appropriate social/communication skills that men find attractive and could just be downright boring? I don't think any man would want to have such for a wife.

You're dead wrong. Go back to point no. 4.

Odunnu:
I forgot 'patosibe'.
Lemme tell you a secret *I am beginning to find you entertaining*

WTF? I'm none of those people, trust me.

Those guys can write in Yoruba, and I can barely understand the language..

But does everyone keeps thinking I'm all these people?

I have been accused of being: ndu_chucks, alh_harem, bittyend, brixtonyute, queensmith, jason123, strangerXFXYZ, papatosibe etc. and the list keeps growing lol...

Shymmex is shymmex.

Nwa Teacher: 1. When you stop living a life of pretence and be real and natural for once. 2. When you stop seeing any r/ship as an avenue of making money. Eating guys mugu. 3. When you start dressing like a lady who will change 2 be a mother 2moro. 4. When you start bringing good ideas to ur man

In essence there is a transition between a girl and woman, Miss and Mrs which requires a great deal of preparation and most men will look to see just how much construction or reconstruction is going on before buying into the project. I remain myself doesn't attract anything but spiders and cobwebs.

Tgirl4real: You wear more make-up than clothes.

Your method of getting a man comes from Nollywood"

U fight with every guy u meet

You talk to so many the decent ones
can't be bothered sticking around and you lose out

No man is going to put up with an attitude that you can't even put up with yourself.

You can't find a man when you're too busy banging everyone

You dont cook. You dont clean. You dont take out the trash. You just DONT.

You compare too much or you act desperate/annoying.

You ignore the one who adores you and adore the one that ignores you.

Ur too busy holding onto the last one.

You Too Busy Searching For A Guy That's
Like Your Ex Instead Of Looking For Better.

So . . .

and this was written by a woman. Thank God 4 ur life.

I agree with naijasexy's post! A rose has to be in the sun/an open place to be be appreciated. Nobody sees it if it's hidden in some obscure room....

oluseg2: When you give in to sex early in a relationship.

Rubbish talk. I actually prefer it. My amazzing GFs...shaggd them first day.

naijasexy:

LOL @ emboldened! Nothing wrong with aiming for the best o.

@Post, so on point! May I add that some ladies who are overly introverted(like myself :p) don't take time to explore the world around them and therefore fail to meet and mix with many people, lack the appropriate social/communication skills that men find attractive and could just be downright boring? I don't think any man would want to have such for a wife.

My dear...knowing ur weaknesses already i bet ur percieved problem is half solved. The ball is just in ur court to solve it completely. I love ur frankness n sincerity !

Tgirl4real: You wear more make-up than clothes.

Your method of getting a man comes from Nollywood"

U fight with every guy u meet

You talk to so many the decent ones
can't be bothered sticking around and you lose out

No man is going to put up with an attitude that you can't even put up with yourself.

You can't find a man when you're too busy banging everyone

You dont cook. You dont clean. You dont take out the trash. You just DONT.

You compare too much or you act desperate/annoying.

You ignore the one who adores you and adore the one that ignores you.

Ur too busy holding onto the last one.

You Too Busy Searching For A Guy That's
Like Your Ex Instead Of Looking For Better.

So . . .

just be sincere in telling us you really have made those mistakes and trying to make up

alex406:
just be sincere in telling us you really have made those mistakes and trying to make up

Hehehehe

U wish. *hiss* lol

Nigerian Economy! The exodus of naija men 2 further their studies & career is responsible for d suitor shortage being experienced. Naija women are now @ d mercy of other Afro & Euro women (4 real).
Advice: be VERY serious wit ur man while @ d varsity.

Reference:

You're dead wrong. Go back to point no. 4.

How does point 4 relate to my post?

pauloman:

My dear...knowing ur weaknesses already i bet ur percieved problem is half solved. The ball is just in ur court to solve it completely. I love ur frankness n sincerity !

Haha! Yes o, I am doing a lot better in that department now.I make a conscious effort to socialize when I can (which is not a lot, but oh well), that's one of the surest ways to build strong and long lasting relationships.


Thank you.

Reference:

In essence there is a transition between a girl and woman, Miss and Mrs which requires a great deal of preparation and most men will look to see just how much construction or reconstruction is going on before buying into the project. I remain myself doesn't attract anything but spiders and cobwebs.

So on point bro ! The fact is most ladies dont know where to actually draw the line....and erroneously think its by the time they find a man and get married ,when they can not even see or know when to transit from a gal to a woman and worst off is that they dont know that the real good men are searching for and have a natural radar for the real woman who has successfully transitted from a gal to a woman to take as a wife.

well written dear
in the real sense women are not supposed to look for men, but women have so cheapen themselves till they have no decency left. then you see men who are not worth their standard treating them like trash

if you're searching, i'm here, pls find me but you must have purged yourself of Pride, demanding for recharge cards, be financially dependent ( i fit give u money, but i no go carry all ya load), greediness, dont take me for a "maga don pay" when I decide to spoil u a little. You must be working, or doing legitimate business. you must not bleach ya skin, resulting in your legs having rainbow colors and your skin burnt and roasted out.

SamAfrik: Nigerian Economy! The exodus of naija men 2 further their studies & career is responsible for d suitor shortage being experienced. Naija women are now @ d mercy of other Afro & Euro women (4 real).
Advice: be VERY serious wit ur man while @ d varsity.

I have heard this many times but a lady who doesn't have any relationship in the university, should she force herself on guys around her

naijasexy:

Haha! Yes o, I am doing a lot better in that department now.I make a conscious effort to socialize when I can (which is not a lot, but oh well), that's one of the surest ways to build strong and long lasting relationships.


Thank you.

Ur welcome !

naijasexy:

Haha! Yes o, I am doing a lot better in that department now.I make a conscious effort to socialize when I can (which is not a lot, but oh well), that's one of the surest ways to build strong and long lasting relationships.


Thank you.

Ur welcome !

Its quite unfortunate that ladies tend to maltreat the guys who really care abt them...because they've been in a faulty r/ship before,they then take dat as an excuse to not show their feelings towards a guy who cares...some are proud,selfish,while some have set a standard that even they dont meet.

Tgirl4real: You ignore the one who adores you and adore the one that ignores you

This says it all.