dont know how to take it forward from here

@dot2007,
hnmm omo keep it up
with the way you are going eh,
remember say na one oga de for nairaland o

banorable seun!

I thought you will suggest a way out.

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please call me. 08055951369. i'd b waiting.
cheers.

lmao----is dis datin zone

He asked you and you didnt give him.Now another smart girl who knows 'what men want' must have given it to him and you now professing your so called 'love' for him probably because he now has a job.Am not saying you didnt do the right thing but realistically did you do the right thing?

He asked you and you didnt give him.Now another smart girl who knows 'what men want' must have given it to him and you now professing your so called 'love' for him probably because he now has a job.Am not saying you didnt do the right thing but realistically did you do the right thing?

@ Poster- I guess you'll have to take things in good faith. After-all, he accepted the no sex policy. So, i guess you'll have to accept his, "the grass is greener on the other side mentality". What do i mean? well simply put, all fingers aren't equal, there will be chics willing to give it up, and who will probably be able to play in his new circles easily. So before u walk off, self righteously indignant, let him know that u do care for him and are willing to make an effort to balance things out. You'll know if he maintains a nonchalant attitude that he's not interested and just wants you to let go. But if he does show remorse and behaves better, i suggest you make an effort to compromise, assuming, you meant it when you said you loved him and you want it to go far ( Compromise doesn't mean you must have sex,but being a woman, you'll think of ways to keep him interested, for now, until you're ready and you're sure he's the one). Going through all this will help you evaluate yourself and your next relationships. You're less likely to end up blaming yourself or filling your head with misconceptions. Most people avoid closure because of fear, don't make that mistake - Good luck!

Waoh, how time flies, see me here typing five years after, thanks to ever reliable NL. Its always nice to return back and share testimonies especially when things took a turn for the best. few years ago I came on this forum and opened this post. It never took me more than three comment b4 i made my decision and today I thank God that a lifetime of disaster was averted.S/O to all who advised me then, i say a big Thank YOU 4 at least stopping by.
To understand this , you have to read the OP. I took my decision 2 move on from this guy that thinks he is a gift 2 women and ever since I never looked back. Rather than sympathising with myself, I dusted my myself, worked hard and gathered some cash 4 further studies in the UK, and b4 my graduation, I met my husband whom am married 2 today. Precisely a months to my wedding, my ex came begging and asking me 2 take him back. After thinking of what 2 do to him, i came up 2 play along like i was going to give him a chance only 2 display my wedding pix on my FB wall a few weeks later and ever since i never heard from him ever again. Today i can say i married the BEST HUSBAND any lady could ever dream of, THE BEST DAD any one can ever wish 4. My advise is 4 both guys and ladies. A broken relationship sometimes brings the best part of ur LIFE. Thank God mine brought me BLESSINGS, Cheers.

oyarose: Waoh, how time flies, see me here typing five years after, thanks to ever reliable NL. Its always nice to return back and share testimonies especially when things took a turn for the best. few years ago I came on this forum and opened this post. It never took me more than three comment b4 i made my decision and today I thank God that a lifetime of disaster was averted.S/O to all who advised me then, i say a big Thank YOU 4 at least stopping by.
To understand this , you have to read the OP. I took my decision 2 move on from this guy that thinks he is a gift 2 women and ever since I never looked back. Rather than sympathising with myself, I dusted my myself, worked hard and gathered some cash 4 further studies in the UK, and b4 my graduation, I met my husband whom am married 2 today. Precisely a months to my wedding, my ex came begging and asking me 2 take him back. After thinking of what 2 do to him, i came up 2 play along like i was going to give him a chance only 2 display my wedding pix on my FB wall a few weeks later and ever since i never heard from him ever again. Today i can say i married the BEST HUSBAND any lady could ever dream of, THE BEST DAD any one can ever wish 4. My advise is 4 both guys and ladies. A broken relationship sometimes brings the best part of ur LIFE. Thank God mine brought me BLESSINGS, Cheers.

oh really?

wow! amazing.5 yrs?
reason why i advice anyone to stop clinging to a dying relationship cz they may end up missing a great one.

kilasos:
@poster,ur boyfriend sounds quite immature,is he the same age as you?
or maybe he is just excited he got a new job.
If he talks to you with disrespect everytime,then maybe u have to reconsider?
No relationship is worth the stress.
If he loves u so much he would respect you.
cheers

They say you never know a person's true nature until they come into some sorta affluence.... The money just brought out his true color... Sorry you're in the cross fire.... That change in attitude you see my dear is what happens when a man child that has brown starved of sex finally gets it from another source....