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Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by Allyrose: 2:40pm On Nov 26, 2007 |
What's it with guys never knowing what they really. I've been so unfortunate to keep running into the same kind of 'commitmentphobic' guys most of by dating life. So i'm starting to wonder; is it that most of y'all out there aren't just ready to be committed or am i just unlucky in love. Everytime i meet a guy its the same story:he professes heaven and earth bout how much he loves me, can't do without me and then from nowhere BAM! he fades out! Now this isn't about sex cos that doesn't happen. But i want to hear fom the guys out there wat men really want from us girls. Believe me i've tried every trick in the book but nothings working. i'm getting really bothered now cos most of my friends are settling down. so, now its over to the gents wat's the matter with me?? |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by Coco29(f): 2:49pm On Nov 26, 2007 |
i have to be honest here sis, some brothers have to deal with to much BS from us sisters, some of them no longer gives a s h i t. and should you not be looking into yrself to find out what is wrong with you and your interactions while in a relationship? I did that over the past year and i was surprise at what i found out about myself. |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by zignor(m): 2:56pm On Nov 26, 2007 |
The fault is from you Ask me why |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by olanajim(m): 12:01am On Nov 27, 2007 |
Zignor, I think you have point. @poster, I am tempted to say you have either been the cause or you have been flocking with wrong guys. Please take a second look at the mirror. |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by olanajim(m): 12:02am On Nov 27, 2007 |
Zignor, I think you have point. @poster, I am tempted to say you have either been the cause or you have been flocking with wrong guys. Please take a second look at the mirror. |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by uspry1(f): 2:41am On Nov 27, 2007 |
@poster Please so kindly to read the following existing topics to refresh your new next steps---forget about the skin color, nationality, and major generalizations you heard at below: 7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html 10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by AOYEGBESANYAHOOCOM(m): 3:04am On Nov 27, 2007 |
@ coco, you re dead right baby. Personally to me, there is no difference between women and fish. Cant tell when they would slip out of your hands. Dont trust them at all. |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by amievivian(f): 4:18am On Nov 27, 2007 |
madick the addict! y am nt surprised to meet u hia women lyk fish u say saw ur age sumwia, so if u have a strong grip lyk yam wat r u doing still being single waiting for the rite person uh dah!! commitment phobia is more lyk it |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by AOYEGBESANYAHOOCOM(m): 6:18am On Nov 27, 2007 |
Nice knowing you Vivian. Honey, I may b madick but not addict. Why I am still single even though I am 70 because I couldnt find you so far. Now I know you, my dream to get double may cum true., |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by zignor(m): 8:50am On Nov 27, 2007 |
@OLANAJIM . . .thanks, However, I think you should lend her your mirror what do you think? |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by olanajim(m): 8:56am On Nov 27, 2007 |
Zignor, If she ask for it, I would be glad to do that. My fear is that she may use it to apply her make-ups. Hope you are enjoying your time? |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by zignor(m): 9:11am On Nov 27, 2007 |
yeah, am enjoying my time How about you? @poster, I think you should ask for a mirror |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by crazyp(f): 10:57am On Nov 27, 2007 |
zignor!!! someone is pouring her heart out & u're making jest of the whole thing y r u never serious |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by zignor(m): 12:06pm On Nov 27, 2007 |
@crazyp . . . how far now? hope you're cool? Well, am not making any jest of the whole thing we know what we meant by mirror infact, most people here knew what we meant . . . not a joke |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by olanajim(m): 1:13pm On Nov 27, 2007 |
Crazy p we are not making jest. Believe me. There is a mysterous mirror the lady can use to grasp the images that keep eluding her. If she request for it, I would get it for her. The mirror is a property of all nairaland users, and therefore cost nothing. Zignor, I am beginning to feel at odd. Is it really possible for a pretty lady with good moral to fail to tie down a man after being with many? Is it right to say that men of now aday are no more interested in good girls? @poster Verily, Verily, I tell you that if you had been endowed with pretty face, kind heart, and amiable personality. If you are indeed as good as you think you are and had never met a responsible guy among your numerous suitors, then, YOU ARE IN THE WRONG PLACE AND WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE. Please check out before time leave you behind. |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by zignor(m): 1:49pm On Nov 27, 2007 |
@olanajim . . .you're absolutely correct Besides, the poster knew that she has a personl problem, but doesn't know how to go about it Again, most ladies with this similar problem always has the same life style Therefore, they should re-examine their life sytle |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by olanajim(m): 2:37pm On Nov 27, 2007 |
Well, it is your idea zignor. Let face it. A patient don't just approach a doctor for cure of an unknown ailment without the doctor asking for clue. Many ladies claimed they could not find a man to marry, yet, they are constantly found in the midst of men. When you asked why they can't pick from among the men at their proposal, they most likely tell you they are still searching for MR RIGHT! Who is MR RIGHT? What make one man right and the rest wrong? In their directionless, voyage, they inadvertently pass by MR RIGHT without knowing. I have heard of broken homes, broken hearts. I know from my understanding that it hurts. Yet, these same people once thought of themselves as the best thing God made from dust. Soon dreams turn into nightmare and there eyes open when they discover that the beautiful dream they nurture is after all, a mirage. Let me add that no marriage had ever succeed without some trials along the way. Our ladies want a ready made man from heaven, who would be flawless and infallible. They would get them, but they need to sacrifice something. There is no more free lunch. |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by zignor(m): 2:58pm On Nov 27, 2007 |
Our ladies want a ready made man from heaven, who would be flawless and infallible. They would get them, but they need to sacrifice something. There is no more free lunch. lmao |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by iice(f): 8:02am On Nov 29, 2007 |
Ola true indeed BTW some women are like that - have commitmentphobia |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by scambater(m): 8:04am On Nov 29, 2007 |
What about you iice do you have commitmentphobia |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by iice(f): 8:21am On Nov 29, 2007 |
if it means committing to you. . .then yes |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by scambater(m): 8:28am On Nov 29, 2007 |
That was below the belt from now on you are sacked |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by earthrealm(m): 9:03am On Nov 29, 2007 |
@poster, how old are u?, let me guess late twenties?, or early 30s?, i guess it didnt bother u wen u were much younger, the fact is most guys that want to marry are in that age bracket, n its a known fact in naija that men prefer to marry a lady thats at least 2 or 3yrs younger than them, n u are not the only one in that club, many of my guys are still looking 4 mates, dem talk say wifey material are hard 2 find/ that makes me wonder, cos 4rm elementary economics, there is equilibruim when the demand n supply curves are bullish, but in naija dating circles. the reverse seems 2 be the case, the babes dey cry, NO HUSBY, the guys dey cry no WIFEY!, |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by iice(f): 9:07am On Nov 29, 2007 |
scambater: let me not touch the 'belt' comment I was employed? goodie, more time for my 'passions' |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by scambater(m): 9:39am On Nov 29, 2007 |
Don't think you have the last word, I'm going to bed now and I'll think of something to say to you tomorrow. I'm off to dreamland now |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by iice(f): 9:48am On Nov 29, 2007 |
LOL i neva do . . . |
Re: Worried About 'commitmentphobic' Guys by candylips(m): 3:00pm On Feb 04, 2008 |
hmmm, |
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