i want you all to help me. when ever i get into a lil arguement with some one, i feel guilty even if he is the one who offended me. i find this disturbing becos i see many people get into a fight with others and they are perfectly ok. they do this even when they are at fault. so i am asking, is it normal for people to feel the way i feel? is it a sign of weakness and fear on my own part? am i alone in this or there are other people in this with me? your help pls. ***kisses and hugs