Hey yall am not really good at explaining things so please bear with me.

A year back i met this dude on a site,he seemed really friendly at first,we had quite alot in common,we exchanged numbers & address.when it was his bday i called him we talked for like forever,when it was my birthday he didnt call me and still hasnt apologized about till today, so basically when he didnt call me for my bday we stop talking till one day he mailed me once again, i figured he was trying to say sorry.Now,the things that bugs me out now is that i use to call him most of the time he wouldnt call me.I've called him 3 times this year while his only called me once,which was a missed call.he keeps saying he will call me but never does.so i decicde to ask for his msn messenger he didnt reply, so then yesterday i told my friend all about it and she said i should mail him and tell him how i felt and ask if we could go back to start talking as normal, now do you guys think i did anything wrong?? is he in the wrong ?? or should i just let him loose n let him do wateva he wants?? please someone help me because am so confused,

Maybe he doesn't really believe in this friendship as much as you do. All this internet thing! It takes a lot to bring them out of the cyber and start building them up in our world!

Nope i dont think you did anything wrong.
I feel you should stop trying to contact you cause its clear to see that he doesnt wanna keep talking with ya.

So i say move on and find another thing to focus your mind on.

Really the guy is not interested in an online relationship create a new one! cidieschat the best online relationship ID.

@ Poster, My girl, leave that chap to go to hell, my frnd. Y im dey carry u play? Wetin? Leave the chap alone. His not the only dude around. Na wa oooo. I dey vex now. What is wrong with these guys anyway? My candid advice is , u dont need to ache ur ass for him, he isnt worth it, ok. If he were , he would have appreciated u. You've tried to call him to order, he's still obstinate, leave him alone and move on. You must be feeling really bad, i know, another will come, ok. Dont push things. You're worth smone better. Dont call or mail him again. No be by force, aaaahh

girl friend his not serious, just having fun
better be careful.
put ur love more in whom u can see and have met

I guess he has someone (gurl) around himself, maybe he has considered the distance and had given it a second thought. apparently both of u have not seen each. So i suggest U damn it and move on with u'r life, who knows maybe someone who will appreciate U more is waiting for U somewhere.

iice gawd bless you jare

Girls are so selfish, must the guy call you. What if he doesn't have money for credit? Abegi send him recharge card.

or he might b dead, call him

kpolli:

or he might b dead, call him

your suggestions are odd

@ poster, he probably can no longer put up with the distractions, he may have used you when he needed someone to talk to.

same thing almost happened to me but she was hospitalised cos of an accident, thank God she didnt die, but i have learnt keep in touch often, pride wouldnt take u far

@OP: He's probably one of those guys that catch their thrill from an endless chase, and when they get who they were chasing, they flip over and look for another one to chase. I used to know a guy like that when I was in college, one of my best friend's ex-boyfriend. . .

nigga doesn't have as much vested interest in the friendship as you do. if he does call you out of courtesy then that's fine, just don't see it as his duty.