ok pendo89banned.
Reason? no idea.

kandiikane: That's the baby that died? Aw, how horrible.

yep 'drug overdose by the mum.She followed a year later.Karma I guess.

happy98: ok pendo89banned.
Reason? no idea.


yep 'drug overdose by the mum.She followed a year later.Karma I guess.

You live in the U.S ?

happy98: ok pendo89banned.
Reason? no idea.


yep 'drug overdose by the mum.She followed a year later.Karma I guess.

Are these AAs or Nigerians?

Neither.
@ luck am from Land of hakuna matata

pendo89: Neither.
@ luck am from Land of hakuna matata

What?

You are not Nigerian? You are from East Africa?

pendo89: Neither.
@ luck am from Land of hakuna matata

Kenya

luckgames:

Kenya

correct.

Sagamite:

What?

You are not Nigerian? You are from East Africa?

I love that.It means I have have adapted to West.Isn't NL so good?

pendo89:

correct.



I love that.It means I have have adapted to West.Isn't NL so good?

Are you a Nigerian? or Dating a Nigerian?
Was your last BF a Nigerian?

pendo89:

correct.

I love that.It means I have have adapted to West.Isn't NL so good?

Wow!

Maybe hence the nice personality.

luckgames:
Are you a Nigerian? or Dating a Nigerian?
Was your last BF a Nigerian?

100% kenyan.
No.

It'x official, i'm the only one. Wondering if the non-coons are in naija village square or something.. . . . .need to check that.

anyways.

y me:

Its not a must na, haba
I don't see anything wrong in popping into your man's house to cook

PS I never said that would make a man love a woman

It depends, does he also popping around yours to cook and clean and wot not?

If not then i see everything wrong with it. . . . .but i appreciate that you know it won't make a man love you. It will however, make you his bych.

queensmith: It'x official, i'm the only one. Wondering if the non-coons are in naija village square or something.. . . . .need to check that.

anyways.



It depends, does he also popping around yours to cook and clean and wot not?

If not then i see everything wrong with it. . . . .but i appreciate that you know it won't make a man love you. It will however, make you his bych.

Damn you! I was sipping on my juice and read what you said and laughed so hard that I covered my whole shirt with juice!

Oooh lawd! You know you are going to be called a Nigerian hater right?

Ladies, never invest too much of yourself in a relationship where the man is giving you crumbs of love, attention or whatever you are investing. The average Nigerian Man believes that he should marry a woman that can take all the crap he dishes at her. Never sacrifice yourself at the altar of love in a bid to win anybody the prize is usually not worth it.

Yes there are situations where a lost man finds a good woman and she inspires him to become a better person but truth is we usually can sense the sincerity because actions always speak louder than words. Washing, cooking, sexing, acting like a lesser human being just to win a man, is tiring even for the object of your affections.

From the get go a good man knows he should treat you right, that's the kind of man any woman should seek to be with. Stop setting yourself up for failed rships by seeking to erode yourself and become whatever the man wants you to become hoping that one day he will be "touched" by your sacrifice. This experiment has been known to fail so desist from it. Women should learn to be themselves and be in a constant state of becoming a better person not because of a man but for their own character development.

andromida: Ladies, never invest too much of yourself in a relationship where the man is giving you crumbs of love, attention or whatever you are investing. The average Nigerian Man believes that he should marry a woman that can take all the crap he dishes at her. Never sacrifice yourself at the altar of love in a bid to win anybody the prize is usually not worth it.

Yes there are situations where a lost man finds a good woman and she inspires him to become a better person but truth is we usually can sense the sincerity because actions always speak louder than words. Washing, cooking, sexing, acting like a lesser human being just to win a man, is tiring even for the object of your affections.

From the get go a good man knows he should treat you right, that's the kind of man any woman should seek to be with. Stop setting yourself up for failed rships by seeking to erode yourself and become whatever the man wants you to become hoping that one day he will be "touched" by your sacrifice. This experiment has been known to fail so desist from it. Women should learn to be themselves and be in a constant state of becoming a better person not because of a man but for their own character development.

Why do you think a man has to treat you right before knowing you? And why do you think you deserve it?

Mrs.Chima:

Damn you! I was sipping on my juice and read what you said and laughed so hard that I covered my whole shirt with juice!

Oooh lawd! You know you are going to be called a Nigerian hater right?

LOl- yes, i'm meant to love and appreciate the fact most of them exhibit bad attitudes. I refuse to. They can call me what they like.

andromida: The average Nigerian Man believes that he should marry a woman that can take all the crap he dishes at her. Never sacrifice yourself at the altar of love in a bid to win anybody the prize is usually not worth it.

EOD! GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM GBAM!

#it has finished. finished. Losing yourself to save face or maintain this image that can only be a reflection of suffering and sadness (slaving off for a man).

Some will even make you believe they actually pursue relationships just to put their partners through trauma? What happened to the good old days when your partner actually made you happy instead of sad.
I missed alot of notes in Nigeria sha, so where is the light at the end of that tunnel? mshew

Sagamite:

Why do you think a man has to treat you right before knowing you? And why do you think you deserve it?

Because am worth it. So a man wants to know a woman and he can't be bothered to be nice? why should she give him my precious time?

queensmith:


#it has finished. finished. Losing yourself to save face or maintain this image that can only be a reflection of suffering and sadness (slaving off for a man).

Some will even make you believe they actually pursue relationships just to put their partners through trauma? What happened to the good old days when your partner actually made you happy instead of sad.
I missed alot of notes in Nigeria sha, so where is the light at the end of that tunnel? mshew

I tell you something. That is why many rships are so wrong some men confuse poor self esteem with humility and a confidence with pride in the process they have used quality women as girlfriends and ended up with confused ladies as partners. It just goes to show such men themselves have issues. Both partners in a rship must be humble and inspire each other to be better people in every way. It is wrong to expect the woman to sacrifice her self and become a pretender just to keep a relationship. Good girl to many Nigerian men is the girl that swallows all the crap and pretends the guy is a good guy.

Which is why you hear many men complaining their wives have changed. They asked for it. They wanted a crap eater, thought they were getting one but after the knots get tied they see the real person. Then they start complaining. So funny.
Make una overlook my errors not easy typing with this phone.

andromida:
Because am worth it. So a man wants to know a woman and he can't be bothered to be nice? why should she give him my precious time?

What do you think makes you worth it?

Laughing My Sexy Arse out so hard @ Luckgames that I had to go pooh!

Now tell me bro, why you acting all nice cos Pendo (Hi Pendo) is Kenyan?

Ps...Am still in the process of pooing!

Sagamite:
Why do you think a man has to treat you right before knowing you? And why do you think you deserve it?
What do you think makes you worth it?

Are those questions Sagamite? They are darn hilarious!
Forgive my curiosity bro, what's the idea behind your asking?

cowgurl:
Are those questions Sagamite? They are darn hilarious!
Forgive my curiosity bro, what's the idea behind your asking?

When they are answered, the logic and idea behind them would sprout out.

Sagamite:

When they are answered, the logic and idea behind them would sprout out.

Relax bro, it's not time to bite me yet but it will come if ur logic/idea behind ur questions to Andromida does not go down well with me...so be prepared!

# following#

@sagamite, because she said she's worth it. Simple as.


I love a woman who knows their worth and who is comfident enough to know they should be treated right by a great guy.

andromida:
I tell you something. That is why many rships are so wrong some men confuse poor self esteem with humility and a confidence with pride in the process they have used quality women as girlfriends and ended up with confused ladies as partners. It just goes to show such men themselves have issues. Both partners in a rship must be humble and inspire each other to be better people in every way. It is wrong to expect the woman to sacrifice her self and become a pretender just to keep a relationship. Good girl to many Nigerian men is the girl that swallows all the crap and pretends the guy is a good guy.

This is deep, #verydeep.

I just wonder

The men definitely have issues, no doubt about that.

Sagamite:

What do you think makes you worth it?

Not think. Know. Anyway if I am treating a man right why should I accept less from him?

cowgurl:

Relax bro, it's not time to bite me yet but it will come if ur logic/idea behind ur questions to Andromida does not go down well with me...so be prepared!

# following#

Amsorry?

What?

Really?

Is this the part I bring out my Oscar performance and start shaking in my boots?

kandiikane: @sagamite, because she said she's worth it. Simple as.


I love a woman who knows their worth and who is comfident enough to know they should be treated right by a great guy.

That is why I asked her to say what her worth is and why it is worth something.

andromida:

Not think. Know. Anyway if I am treating a man right why should I accept less from him?

You still haven't stated what about you makes you worth it?

Sagamite:





That is why I asked her to say what her worth is and why it is worth something.



You still haven't stated what about you makes you worth it?

Character,looks,personality,great sex,intelligence,kindness,ability to interact on a mental level and therefore offer companionship, great sense of humour, willingness to learn my partner and learn from my partner. A certain something that is undefinable and makes me Me. I think this should do for now. Further questions about why I am worth it should be specific in terms of...............

andromida:

Character,looks,personality,great sex,intelligence,kindness,ability to interact on a mental level and therefore offer companionship, great sense of humour, willingness to learn my partner and learn from my partner. A certain something that is undefinable and makes me Me. I think this should do for now. Further questions about why I am worth it should be specific in terms of...............

Good.

I was not specific because I did not want to tunnel you to the right answers. I wanted to see if you will come out with the right answers by going the direct way yourself. I have highlighted some of your answers that are going the right way.

Now tell me, in terms of your character, kindness and mental level, do you think your interaction with men is good? Let me know which of this you have never done:

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

Sagamite:

Good.

I was not specific because I did not want to tunnel you to the right answers. I wanted to see if you will come out with the right answers by going the direct way yourself. I have highlighted some of your answers that are going the right way.

Now tell me, in terms of your character, kindness and mental level, do you think your interaction with men is good? Let me know which of this you have never done:

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

1 6 9. Now 9 was a situation where we had technically broken up.

andromida:

1 6 9. Now 9 was a situation where we had technically broken up.

Considering the 3, so you are technically not a nice person, why then do you believe you deserve for others to be nice to you? Why do you think a man should treat you right when you are happy to treat others wrong?

LOL tecnically not a nice person is relative to circumstance,time and place and of course personal opinion and perspective of any observer. Was I happy to treat others wrong? No. Some things I have done before, will I do them now? No. This is the place of learning and becoming a better person. I am not the same person I used to be this time last year. My improvements may be unimportant to others but they are important to me.

andromida: LOL tecnically not a nice person is relative to circumstance,time and place and of course personal opinion and perspective of any observer. Was I happy to treat others wrong? No. Some things I have done before, will I do them now? No. This is the place of learning and becoming a better person. I am not the same person I used to be this time last year. My improvements may be unimportant to others but they are important to me.

Good answer.