Hi all,

A Nigeria boy fell in love with me, he said he saw my pic on Nairaland.com but i'm in a far country but i am Nigeria girl what do I do love he back.

Answer please

And i got  love mails too.
some one  has offered to be my? (me the sugar mummy) and someone in love with my daughter?
I dont love over the internet.
dont tell me you do

Hey sis, dnt mean 2 sound negative,but u ve gotta b careful. Nigerian men on d net r full of lies, Pardon me "TRUTH TELLING" nigerian men.

I am a truth-telling naija man to the core, I just met a naija babe, a very silent member of nairaland too. I think online dating works in some cases, i have a good feeling about this one so i'm giving it a try.

Girls, please be careful when you post your pictures on the internet, a mate of mine had a bad experience once with this psycho on line stalker, they see your pics and assume everthing under the sun

desiree:

Girls, please be careful when you post your pictures on the internet, a mate of mine had a bad experience once with this psycho on line stalker, they see your pics and assume everthing under the sun

desiree, I have no picture on Nairaland.com and I don't know what this boy is talking about he saw my picture on the internet and he want me to call he in Nigeria and also send my pictures to he.

Okay then, he is just bluffing . The extent some idle guys would go suprises me.
If he has seen your pictures already, why does he need more??

For starters he lied about seeing your picture when you have none uploaded.Thats one reason you can't trust.Besides just because he claims he loves you doesn't mean he really does.You shouldn't even consider loving him back.

Dont let us deceive ourselves. All these net stuffs wont lead anybody anywhere.

@Love11

I'll advice you to stall every contact with this mysterious swindler who is telling you love-lies. This doesn't mean that all Nigerian guyz are like that. There are many great guyz here who do no such things.

Be careful he might really like you or he might be usin u, go ,to visit him but don't make ani long term decisions.Be careful!god bless

just be careful for real and dont rush anything ! who knows, anything can happen at any point in time. i wish you best of luck in everything you do and success in all ur endeavours.
cheers

@jandgal,you really think she should go VISIT HIM?You'd do that if you were in her shoes?

Wotz it wit all this advice??
Isn't it clear that this is jst some scam. Have u been to a cybercafe in this country lately. u really should walk in2 one n c wt dem guys do. Most of them don't even have jobs. All they do is sit around and wait to meet girls online they can lie to and milk dry.
Pls sista, tell him 2 BUZZ D HELL OUT

Abi o!!Its crystal clear d guy is most likely a cheat,liar and am opportunist.

Abi o!!Its crystal clear d guy is most likely a cheat,liar and an opportunist.

jandgal:

Be careful he might really like you or he might be usin u, go ,to visit him but don't make ani long term decisions.Be careful!god bless

I read ur mail jandgal why the u talk like that i should and visit him in Nigeria, I live in a far country ok not in Nigeria girl. i don't know this so called boy. this boy make sick very time he write to me.

desiree:

Okay then, he is just bluffing . The extent some idle guys would go suprises me.
If he has seen your pictures already, why does he need more??

well he said he saw my picture already, i have no picture on the internet he still write to me beg me to call he today. but girl how can i stop he for mail me different kind of things like E-card and calling me different kind of sweet names like i'm he's lady.

Blackbuddy:

My dear sister,
if you are registered with yahoo mail, you can block his yahoo id from sending you mail by going to "preferences" in yahoomail and specifying his yahoo id. The same thing goes for yahoo messenger. Just click on "ignore" on the task bar and click on his name. Problem solved. The procedure is almost the same for most e-mail service providers. You can also do the same here on nairaland.com. Just go to "profile" on the top left hand corner of the home page when you're logged in, click and then got to "personal message options", enter his user name in the "ignore list" box and remove this nuisance from your life.

thank u so much Blackbuddy, I'll do just that, thanks again.

there would be lots of mails like that sweetie!, do what i do just ignore it, its lust.
hw can someone see u for the first time and say he loves u! abeg na ojoro jo!

Are you 13? 12? 14?

Im asking because, we all know that the first thing to think when a nigerian boy who hasn't seen ur picture sends u a message saying he saw ur picture on a site you didn't put ut picture in, tells u he loves you, You are spose to know it's fake.

I mean like hello, you don't have a picture here, and u are asking whether or not u should love a liar back. Please correct me if im wrong, but dayum?

Okay, let me tell u something, as long as ur email address is on this site, you'll get so many emails from people, saying they love you and wanna be ur friend. Choose ur friends, don't let ur friends choose you. Pick wisely. And uhmm, no u shouldn't love him back. Da hell?

hot-angel:

Are you 13? 12? 14?

I'm asking because, we all know that the first thing to think when a nigerian boy who hasn't seen your picture sends u a message saying he saw your picture on a site you didn't put ut picture in, tells u he loves you, You are spose to know it's fake.

I mean like hello, you don't have a picture here, and u are asking whether or not u should love a liar back. Please correct me if im wrong, but dayum?

Okay, let me tell u something, as long as your email address is on this site, you'll get so many emails from people, saying they love you and want to be your friend. Choose your friends, don't let your friends choose you. Pick wisely. And uhmm, no u shouldn't love him back. Da hell?

hot-angel, I read ur mail let me tell u funny thing, this so called boy send me his picture form Nigeria, funny right. I choose wisely if u want to know, I do not let my friends choose me, I choose my friends. I no his a liar for day one. I'm not 13, 12, 14 ok.

ok, thanks for clearing it up.

girl d choice is yours but online dating works for me, cld 4 u too just in case u wanna try

how old are u.
i dont think u are matured.

I've got nuffin much to say gurl --- I'd just say, follow your heart. Do what you know is best for you.

I was in an internet cafe at magodo (yes MAGODO where all d rish-rish peepuls live) the other day and gues what?

EVERYONE was commiting fraud. EVERYBODY was yahoo-yahoo-ing! Even a pair of totally fine (and Behind) babes  that walked in, scamming middle aged white men.

Before u ask me how I knew, these people were not even hiding it, one guy even laughed out loud and called others to 'see' that he had been banned from an online dating site for fraud! People were looking over each others shoulders and giving tips, etc.

Many of these scams were via yahoo messenger, and connecting via dating sites.

Summary: Online dating across the water with naija men you don't know is insane. If you must, be sure never to send any gifts or money or credit card details. if he threatens to go or throws a tantrum, get rid of him. For all u know his picture is fake and he looks like an orang-utang crossed with raw hamburger.

Such things u don't need to ask for advice as if u want someone to tell u to go ahead with d guy but since u've asked i'll say be very careful most of this nigeria guys re yahoo boys as many have said earlier u only need to go to a cafe and u'll see for urself. How possible is it to love someone u've never met physically abeg d guy dey find who him go srap head for. Block d thing ID bo.

A Nigeria boy fell in love with me, he said he saw my pic on Nairaland.com

No gal, he's not in love with you he's on love with your looks!

I don't think he's in love with you.