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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by greatp80(f): 11:01pm On Mar 29, 2018
rvpbae:


He has checked oo. Nothing wrong.

Nne take a deep breath.Motherhood is not easy.
Continue to put him on the breast or you can visit a pediatrician to rule out any negativity.
It is well.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 11:04pm On Mar 29, 2018
rvpbae:
Mamas why won't my baby latch? I'm sad and depressed cry cry cry cry it really hurts. I've tried and tried. I express to feed him but i want him to suck himself.

He is almost one week old. I supplement with nan1. Please everybody should help me. Abeg cry
my baby was like this o,she was used to been fed with syringe(easy life),when I put her to the breast she will cry and cry,it was so serious o and I was so unhappy my BP went up sef(i was been accused of not wanting to breastfeed sef) one day I made up my mind that she must latch,I hid the syringe and formular sef.when she is hungry I will force the breast in her mouth,she will remove mouth nd cry,I tried not to let the cry get me and continued o,when she saw I meant business she started latching small small,afer the 3rd day she became a pro.my dear don't let him get used to bottle or syringe o,continue trying when he is hungry put him to latch,do it throughout the day he will know you mean business.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by rvpbae: 12:08am On Mar 30, 2018
nnekaike:
my baby was like this o,she was used to been fed with syringe(easy life),when I put her to the breast she will cry and cry,it was so serious o and I was so unhappy my BP went up sef(i was been accused of not wanting to breastfeed sef) one day I made up my mind that she must latch,I hid the syringe and formular sef.when she is hungry I will force the breast in her mouth,she will remove mouth nd cry,I tried not to let the cry get me and continued o,when she saw I meant business she started latching small small,afer the 3rd day she became a pro.my dear don't let him get used to bottle or syringe o,continue trying when he is hungry put him to latch,do it throughout the day he will know you mean business.

I'll keep trying. When he is hungry, i put the breast in his mouth and squeeze, he will just close mouth nd suck the milk that's coming out but wont latch.

I do this battle every feeding time o, that's like 8-9 times a day oo. I'll try nd try nd try, i just leave him and feed him. Or should i not just give him food and let him go hungry?

Everybody will now be calling me and asking if he is sucking angry cry cry
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 6:25am On Mar 30, 2018
rvpbae:


I'll keep trying. When he is hungry, i put the breast in his mouth and squeeze, he will just close mouth nd suck the milk that's coming out but wont latch.

I do this battle every feeding time o, that's like 8-9 times a day oo. I'll try nd try nd try, i just leave him and feed him. Or should i not just give him food and let him go hungry?


Everybody will now be calling me and asking if he is sucking angry cry cry
he has to eat na,this is serious.just keep trying dear it's not easy at all.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 6:31am On Mar 30, 2018
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazzyjazz
Zaynie
queensnow
enque
soonest
elmaspeed
liftedhands
alphahandmadien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by zaynie(f): 7:50am On Mar 30, 2018
nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazzyjazz
Zaynie
queensnow
enque
soonest
elmaspeed
liftedhands
alphahandmadien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

Could be mastitis.. Try to see a doctor today before it gets bigger.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 8:32am On Mar 30, 2018
nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazzyjazz
Zaynie
queensnow
enque
soonest
elmaspeed
liftedhands
alphahandmadien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

No idea ma'am

Maybe you should see a doctor?
Sorry dear
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 8:36am On Mar 30, 2018
zaynie:


Could be mastitis.. Try to see a doctor today before it gets bigger.
chai,thank you ma.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 8:36am On Mar 30, 2018
jazzyjazz:

No idea ma'am
Maybe you should see a doctor? Sorry dear
thank you ma.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 8:58am On Mar 30, 2018
nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazz...yjazz
Za..ynie
que...ensnow
en...que
soo...nest
elm ...aspeed
lifted...hands
alphahand....madien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

R u still breastfeeding?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 30, 2018
imurboss:



Sorry dear, i can relate....please don't let inlaws insensitivity get to you at all. Infact, it would have been better they don't come at all than to come and be looking out for one fault or another.Try and ignore them,sleep and pretend you never heard their knock....you can't come & kill yourself for anyone o
Holysteph ,that's your answer. Everyone knows nursing mothers do not get enough sleep during the night. In the morning, switch off your phone or turn down the ring volume and sleep. Pretend not to hear any calls or knocks. If they come back later in the day, you can open door for them. If they ask, tell them you slept off as you didn't get enough sleep at night cos of baby. After doing this for some days, most people will get the message. They may have no idea that they are not helping your cause. You can help them understand indirectly or directly.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by fruitfulhome: 10:33am On Mar 30, 2018
Good day!

Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 11:16am On Mar 30, 2018
enque:

R u still breastfeeding?
yes
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nahzyla: 11:32am On Mar 30, 2018
Good day house, please who knows what type of antibiotic ointment i can use for babies of three months? A mild one to apply on skin.
Thanks in advance.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by soonest(f): 12:40pm On Mar 30, 2018
nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

Mastitis most probably. You may need antibiotics and analgesic. Sorry o!
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by curvilicious: 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2018
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by curvilicious: 12:45pm On Mar 30, 2018
nahzyla:
Good day house, please who knows what type of antibiotic ointment i can use for babies of three months? A mild one to apply on skin.
Thanks in advance.

I don't know what an antibiotic ointment is but if you mean some for skin irritation or rash I'll advise you use baby tribotan its mild on their but you have to be patient with it
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by curvilicious: 12:48pm On Mar 30, 2018
jazzyjazz:


No idea ma'am

Maybe you should see a doctor?
Sorry dear

Jazzyyyyyy, how is you? How is your borri? How is every every? #injenivasvoice
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 1:04pm On Mar 30, 2018
soonest:


Mastitis most probably. You may need antibiotics and analgesic. Sorry o!
thank you ma.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by nnekaike(f): 1:06pm On Mar 30, 2018
curvilicious:
Mamas, I try? @11weeks grin
over try,biko what is he eating.weldone mama.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 1:44pm On Mar 30, 2018
Happy Easter Mothers.

@ curvilicious you over try. The Lord is your strength.

Please Mamas am angry at a particular person, though outside here. I just need to ask if my anger is justified before I attack her next time.

I am going to be brief.

What is the best age to stop wearing your kids diaper? I am a work at home mother and don't have anyone helping, (I have twins of 22 months old), the only woman I employ to help is on part time basis. Basically to help take care of my kids in the morning and I drop them at school, I also pick them up. We pick them up together and feeds them when we get home, she take her leave after that. So most times I am alone with then with some task to deliver to clients so most times I am locked up in my room working while they are in the living room watching tv.

I wear them diaper when alone so they don't mess up the place and get wounded when they fall.

Now the issue - with the situation of things I described above, you will see I hardly have the time to go out, i talk to my friends on phone now, no visit from both sides. There is this mama in my Neigbour hood, I was going to pick my kids one day and she begged me to drop her at the junction, I never knew she was trying to get close to me. In the process we got talking and I asked if she was on leave and she said she had left her work. Bla bla bla.

Oh, madam sorry about it, and then I introduced her to working from home. She started coming to my house to receive training and it's being crazy having her around. She will complain about how my kids are too old to be wearing diaper to me keeping them indoor to this to that, and she will say it so provocatively.

She even said her son who is just 15 months doesn't wee on the bed at night, I asked how she manage it and she said she wakes up every hour to make him wee. I told her it's crazy and that would have had effects on his sleep and she herself. Hear the next thing she talk: do you mean you sleep so deep? You don't have too, you are a mother and this and that....

I don't really know how to talk bad back at people, but am really boiling inside and waiting for her next visit; I train you free and you come to talk me down in my house, I am planning of walking her out when next she comes to me house. As in, I want to embarrass her.

The thing is, her aproko is too much, she is a tenant but knows about the stories of all the landlords around. I am sure she will come speaking next time, so certain, how best do I answer her?

How much are your kids paying? That school I heard it's expensive, haa it's too much for their age, I beg I wan measure am for full cup and give her.

Please advise. Hubby doesn't want me to embarrass her though and want me to stylishly stop the training am giving her, but I think she deserves I lash her.

Am just so angry not that I like shouting or fighting.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by curvilicious: 1:49pm On Mar 30, 2018
nnekaike:
over try,biko what is he eating.weldone mama.

It was bwess but he now takes rest in another month's time it will be est cry cry cry dont allow my enemies(MummyAudrey) hear what I just told you o
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by SapphirePRINCEX(f): 1:49pm On Mar 30, 2018
curvilicious:
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks grin
U sef know...
So you don see d meat?

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by curvilicious: 1:54pm On Mar 30, 2018
SapphirePRINCEX:
U sef know...
So you don see d meat?

I wee change it for you o mama
How can you be showing that kind meat mai sleep com dey dream cry cry cry
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by SapphirePRINCEX(f): 1:56pm On Mar 30, 2018
olubankemi:
Happy Easter Mothers.

You get patience o.
I raise all mAh organs for you.

Ontop my free tutorial you carry wahala gum body when you never they craze?

Tell her that since she has all the sense in the world, she should go and handle her joblessness grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by SapphirePRINCEX(f): 1:59pm On Mar 30, 2018
curvilicious:


I wee change it for you o mama
How can you be showing that kind meat mai sleep com dey dream cry cry cry
tongue tongue tongue
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 2:10pm On Mar 30, 2018
SapphirePRINCEX:
You get patience o.
I raise all mAh organs for you.

Ontop my free tutorial you carry wahala gum body when you never they craze?

Tell her that since she has all the sense in the world, she should go and handle her joblessness grin

Aahahaha. Walahi, this woman is crazy. I will be racking my head and also opening applications to put her through she will be looking around for wetin she go talk. Am really going to throw away courtesy next time and lash her.

No be people dey post their children pictures to showcase their hard work? This woman can't put her kids pictures here; always having running nose and looking frail. I carry the son she is claiming not to be weeing on bed at 15 months and weighs like corn leaf. No weight at alllllll.

I don't just want to insult her with that.

I was able to respond to her when she said I cover my kids too much, I told her am better than her who open her kids up to cold and have running nose continuously which makes them look dirty.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by perfectcrown(f): 2:12pm On Mar 30, 2018
curvilicious:
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks grin

Over over try o!
God bless him

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by HolySteph(f): 2:27pm On Mar 30, 2018
Loisemm:

Holysteph ,that's your answer. Everyone knows nursing mothers do not get enough sleep during the night. In the morning, switch off your phone or turn down the ring volume and sleep. Pretend not to hear any calls or knocks. If they come back later in the day, you can open door for them. If they ask, tell them you slept off as you didn't get enough sleep at night cos of baby. After doing this for some days, most people will get the message. They may have no idea that they are not helping your cause. You can help them understand indirectly or directly.
Yeah i v thought about that before o lol.. but I saw it as coming rude...but its the best option. Now I no send anybody again. Dem no go help if I fall Ill, Na my pikin go suffer am.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by perfectcrown(f): 2:29pm On Mar 30, 2018
olubankemi:


Aahahaha. Walahi, this woman is crazy. I will be racking my head and also opening applications to put her through she will be looking around for wetin she go talk. Am really going to throw away courtesy next time and lash her.

No be people dey post their children pictures to showcase their hard work? This woman can't put her kids pictures here; always having running nose and looking frail. I carry the son she is claiming not to be weeing on bed at 15 months and weighs like corn leaf. No weight at alllllll.

I don't just want to insult her with that.

I was able to respond to her when she said I cover my kids too much, I told her am better than her who open her kids up to cold and have running nose continuously which makes them look dirty.

I just dey vex as i dey read your rant!

What nonsense? Kai mama u try o!

In the first place,children should nt be compared! Every child has his/her uniqueness!
Na she dey buy the diapers for you or na she dey pay der school fees?
My first ds will be 3years old in Sept and i still wear diaper for him to sleep @ night. I wanted to stop it but hubby said no(afterall naim money).

Wearing diaper for them while you do your work is good o if not they'll keep disturbing you with "i want to poo" "i want to wee". And it cant be easy for you when you are distracted.

When next she comes and spills rubbish,please ask her if theres a prize,millions of dollars or an award for a child at their age who doesnt wear diapers!

Shes just jealous of your standard and good lifestyle and trying to pull you down to her own level!

Please "hush" her away! Nonsense and jagbajantis!

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by HolySteph(f): 2:30pm On Mar 30, 2018
curvilicious:
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks grin
Chai what are you feeding him?.. Is it just breastmilk? I need to increase my breast milk feeding.

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