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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sugah: 1:38pm On Oct 22, 2016
mitchyy:


Yes i am. I'll have to ask my mum to buy yours and add to it when sending. What's the quantity you need?
The woman sells the small nestle bottle water size for 1500.
I was against my mum using it initially but now i'm very grateful.
The Nestlé bottle should be ok
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Zheemub(f): 2:40pm On Oct 22, 2016
Hello mums, how's your weekend going?
Want to know if watermelon can be given to a six month old baby?
Also what type of fruits can I and can't give to him?
Thanks for your time.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 3:26pm On Oct 22, 2016
Zheemub:
Hello mums, how's your weekend going?
Want to know if watermelon can be given to a six month old baby?
Also what type of fruits can I and can't give to him?
Thanks for your time.

Watermelon is perfect. But I heard that watermelons I used to get for N400 now sell for N800. Sigh. Pears, apples and most fruits are good. Just avoid acidic fruits (citrus, pineapples) because they could cause rashes. Use the Search to check because I recall I wrote one long post on it a while back. HTH.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by esteria(f): 3:29pm On Oct 22, 2016
Good evening blessed mothers. I want to say a BIG thank you to the morher who suggested dove cream bar in other to curb expenses. The soap is extremely good for my lo.

Pls which adult cream can I use for her? She will be 2yrs old tomorrow.

Tnx nd God u all.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by PresVA: 5:21pm On Oct 22, 2016
hey mamas, what medical tests do I need to conduct on my nanny asides hiv, hepatitis B and pregnancy ?

Also, how much is fair for agency fee?

cc onegai feddy27 , sugah , etcc.. any mama that has nanny ...

thank you ..
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by feddy27: 5:35pm On Oct 22, 2016
PresVA:
hey mamas, what medical tests do I need to conduct on my nanny asides hiv, hepatitis B and pregnancy ?

Also, how much is fair for agency fee?


thank you ..

I add tuberculosis and VDRL. I gave the agent that brought my nanny 5k.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 5:57pm On Oct 22, 2016
PresVA:
hey mamas, what medical tests do I need to conduct on my nanny asides hiv, hepatitis B and pregnancy ?

Also, how much is fair for agency fee?

cc onegai feddy27 , sugah , etcc.. any mama that has nanny ...

thank you ..

I did those. I didn't do agent fees but you can give N5,000. I do hear of arrangements where the agent takes a percentage of the Nanny's salary. Try and get a picture of her as well, clear as possible. Also, it may seem weird, but let her wear a uniform. It makes it easier to avoid things like "what are you wearing, don't expose your body, your clothes are too tight/faded/unclean, why did you fix nails" blah blah. 3 simple uniforms and it makes her look more professional and upgraded for future employment (Childcare can be serious business, I know someone's nanny whom when she was leaving them, got cash gifts amounting to N450,000 and an offer to return whenever she was available).

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by BritneyStacy: 5:59pm On Oct 22, 2016
mitchyy:


Yes, you mix it on your palm and then apply.

When i get home i'll modify this post and upload a pic. You have to look for the original palm kernel oil. My mum sends the original one for me every month. It's light brown, while the fake is black.

Not to use soap on baby? I've never heard that o. Baby soap was even part of my hospital list
Does that Palm kernel oil not stain clothes?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by BritneyStacy: 6:07pm On Oct 22, 2016
eolowu1:
gud moni mamas, pls help oooo d manual breast pump I bought no pump out milk oooo cud it be because of my big burst or because of my flat nipples
Manual pump didn't really do much for me too ooo. I couldn't get more than 30ml after much stress sef. ..the electronic is better for me ooo. You may need to get the electronic ooo if you can afford it
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by BritneyStacy: 6:09pm On Oct 22, 2016
Onegai:
For the mums exchanging tips about the electrix breastpumps, those prices are quite high (and will probably climb higher). If I may make a suggestion, in the U.S. you can actually loan the expensive breastpumps, all you need to do is buy the suction plastics and sterilise everything else. Perhaps some mothers may be willing to do this, I for one cannot see myself paying over N150,000 for an apparatus I won't be using for upto a year.
We are in Nigeria Mma. How do we do that?

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by soonest(f): 6:10pm On Oct 22, 2016
PresVA:
hey mamas, what medical tests do I need to conduct on my nanny asides hiv, hepatitis B and pregnancy ?

Also, how much is fair for agency fee?

cc onegai feddy27 , sugah , etcc.. any mama that has nanny ...

thank you ..
5k to 7k

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 6:24pm On Oct 22, 2016
BritneyStacy:

We are in Nigeria Mma. How do we do that?

Well, locate mamas in your area and take it from there. Check the shops to see what is available for pumps, whether replacement parts are available (the more expensive, the more likely sections are sold separately, I've seen one). If a pump costs N150,000 and the nipple suction and pipes cost N5000, then it becomes clever to either buy and rent out or split the costs with other interested mamas.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by PresVA: 6:24pm On Oct 22, 2016
feddy27:


I add tuberculosis and VDRL. I gave the agent that brought my nanny 5k.
soonest:

5k to 7k
Imagine the agent telling me 20k ..

thank you for the heads up. .

Onegai:

I did those. I didn't do agent fees but you can give N5,000. I do hear of arrangements where the agent takes a percentage of the Nanny's salary. Try and get a picture of her as well, clear as possible. Also, it may seem weird, but let her wear a uniform. It makes it easier to avoid things like "what are you wearing, don't expose your body, your clothes are too tight/faded/unclean, why did you fix nails" blah blah. 3 simple uniforms and it makes her look more professional and upgraded for future employment (Childcare can be serious business, I know someone's nanny whom when she was leaving them, got cash gifts amounting to N450,000 and an offer to return whenever she was available).
Very nice suggestion.. thanks a lot .. much appreciation smiley
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by kejibabe(f): 6:26pm On Oct 22, 2016
thanks for this.

Blend coconut, extract d coconut milk, pour into an air tight container, allow to sit for 24hhrz, u can refrigerate it to hasten d process... U will notice dt d water separates and d milk solidify on top, scoop out d solidified milk and place on saucepan on low heat...stir gradually as it dries, D oil will float ontop....
I hope u understand, u can Google tho, u wee see diff methods and understand better[/quote]
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sugah: 7:54pm On Oct 22, 2016
PresVA:
hey mamas, what medical tests do I need to conduct on my nanny asides hiv, hepatitis B and pregnancy ?

Also, how much is fair for agency fee?

cc onegai feddy27 , sugah , etcc.. any mama that has nanny ...

thank you ..
For tests include test for tuberculosis.
I did not go through an agent, not sure.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sugah: 8:07pm On Oct 22, 2016
Onegai:


I did those. I didn't do agent fees but you can give N5,000. I do hear of arrangements where the agent takes a percentage of the Nanny's salary. Try and get a picture of her as well, clear as possible. Also, it may seem weird, but let her wear a uniform. It makes it easier to avoid things like "what are you wearing, don't expose your body, your clothes are too tight/faded/unclean, why did you fix nails" blah blah. 3 simple uniforms and it makes her look more professional and upgraded for future employment (Childcare can be serious business, I know someone's nanny whom when she was leaving them, got cash gifts amounting to N450,000 and an offer to return whenever she was available).
Tchai! Wonderful suggestion on the uniform.
But they cannot wear the uniform for outings can they?
Cos my own na outing be the ish.
She is not a live-in nanny at the moment and due to her usual lateness, I told her to ensure she comes early the next day cos we would go drop my MIL at the airport. Babe showed up the next morning (late as usual) and decked to the teeth.....Skin tight micro mini gown with blue eyeshadow, earrings and shoes to match grin

So is it OK for them to wear the uniforms outside?

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by comtem2011: 8:30pm On Oct 22, 2016
sugah:

Tchai! Wonderful suggestion on the uniform.
But they cannot wear the uniform for outings can they?
Cos my own na outing be the ish.
She is not a live-in nanny at the moment and due to her usual lateness, I told her to ensure she comes early the next day cos we would go drop my MIL at the airport. Babe showed up the next morning (late as usual) and decked to the teeth.....Skin tight micro mini gown with blue eyeshadow, earrings and shoes to match grin

So is it OK for them to wear the uniforms outside?
Lol, as per airport outing now, babe fit get boo (catch).. Corporate maid.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sugah: 8:37pm On Oct 22, 2016
comtem2011:
Lol, as per airport outing now, babe fit get boo (catch).. Corporate maid.
grin grin unfortunately airport empty that day

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mitchyy(f): 8:49pm On Oct 22, 2016
BritneyStacy:

Does that Palm kernel oil not stain clothes?

Nope. I rub it very well into the skin and i don't use too much.
It only stains his towel a little but since i wash and change his towel regularly, its not a big deal. The stains dissolve immediately it touches water.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ginababy(f): 8:57pm On Oct 22, 2016
sugah:

grin grin unfortunately airport empty that day

cheesy cheesy cheesy lol......
Abeg no use laugh finish me....
Pls sow uniform for that babe n have her wear it out.....
I can't fit shout...
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sugah: 9:08pm On Oct 22, 2016
ginababy:


cheesy cheesy cheesy lol......
Abeg no use laugh finish me....
Pls sow uniform for that babe n have her wear it out.....
I can't fit shout...
I'd definitely do that. Thanks

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 9:13pm On Oct 22, 2016
sugah:

Tchai! Wonderful suggestion on the uniform.
But they cannot wear the uniform for outings can they?
Cos my own na outing be the ish.
She is not a live-in nanny at the moment and due to her usual lateness, I told her to ensure she comes early the next day cos we would go drop my MIL at the airport. Babe showed up the next morning (late as usual) and decked to the teeth.....Skin tight micro mini gown with blue eyeshadow, earrings and shoes to match grin

So is it OK for them to wear the uniforms outside?

Why not? They wear the uniform as long as they are at work and remove it on their day off or on Sundays to church. Infact, pitch it to them that it makes them look more professional, more like "trained Nanny" rather than "Househelp". All the trained nannies do, especially those Filipino nannies (who earn in dollars). So why not our girls?You can make it in any colour, even mention the fact "hey this will really help you save your clothes". We are going to make ours in ankara/fabric mix.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by FINA4804(f): 1:11pm On Oct 23, 2016
@sugah, I laughed when I saw your post about your nanny.
@preVa, some agents take 10k that is the highest I have seen.
To all mamas pls if your nanny is not a Live in pls do routine checks like once in six months. Don't just do the first time and relax pls to avoid stories that touch.
@onegai, my nanny is a woman (a widow) sometimes the way she will dress I will just tease her, are you looking for a customer? ( tight legese with short top, you will be seeing all her curves to tge shape of het virgina) And she will laugh, will it be right for me to sew a uniform for her ?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by eolowu1(f): 1:44pm On Oct 23, 2016
happy Sunday my e-family

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ahnie: 1:54pm On Oct 23, 2016
tatacherie:
@ ahnie welcome back,howz big zino dooing.warm regardsregards
@ helovesme greetings ma,good to see u now frequent here.weldone!howz big boy
Mummy akela how x the FAM dooyin!indeed zino z not a gbogbo bigs girl now!

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 2:32pm On Oct 23, 2016
FINA4804:
@sugah, I laughed when I saw your post about your nanny.
@preVa, some agents take 10k that is the highest I have seen.
To all mamas pls if your nanny is not a Live in pls do routine checks like once in six months. Don't just do the first time and relax pls to avoid stories that touch.
@onegai, my nanny is a woman (a widow) sometimes the way she will dress I will just tease her, are you looking for a customer? ( tight legese with short top, you will be seeing all her curves to tge shape of het virgina) And she will laugh, will it be right for me to sew a uniform for her ?

She should. As long as your nanny is over the age of 18-21 (the legal age for employment), please treat her as an employee. When you put on a uniform, it puts the mental idea, subconsciously, that you should be more professional. It should and she will keep the uniform and with another client, use it as packaging ("I'm a professional o, I have a uniform). I have a feeling yours may decide to get offended but tell her it is a requirement of her job and she can feel free to dress as she wishes on her own time.

Honestly I see a lot of people abusing tights and leggings and fitted clothes. Especially the so-called "my eye has not opened" girls. Who come with tight clothes and a bottle of Caro White in their bags and will be telling you they don't know anything about life.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ehonda(m): 5:31pm On Oct 23, 2016
Is it normal for a nursing mother to feel sick? Its her first baby and she is complaining of headache, body pains, cold, feverish, loss of appetite and weakness. Even vommitted the lil food she manage to eat. Wat can she use to feel better that won't be harmful to her 2weeks old baby cos she is doing exclusive breastfeeding.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 7:10pm On Oct 23, 2016
faari:
This gas thing is beginning to get to me.
4) what can i use for diaper rash? Its this red patch on her vulva and butthole. Should i change hee diaper? We used huggies withe a ribbed effect and now we use one without. Someone recommeded Pampers premium.


She is 6 weeks old now.
Please help ooo.

This caught my attention because I know how painful it is seeing those red patch on your LO's bum.
If sudocreme doesn't work for you, try Betrosil cream mixed with Gentomisin ointment_ trust me, in 2-3 days...it should/would clear.

Above all, keep that place dry and neat.
Change diapers regularly.

Nospamin is good too.
You can see your doctor if you don't feel at rest. Sorry ehn wink

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Onegai(f): 7:13pm On Oct 23, 2016
ehonda:
Is it normal for a nursing mother to feel sick? Its her first baby and she is complaining of headache, body pains, cold, feverish, loss of appetite and weakness. Even vommitted the lil food she manage to eat. Wat can she use to feel better that won't be harmful to her 2weeks old baby cos she is doing exclusive breastfeeding.

Back to the hospital. She's sick and if she did CS, or a long labour or had a cut, she should be checked.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Coldfeet(f): 7:25pm On Oct 23, 2016
ehonda:
Is it normal for a nursing mother to feel sick? Its her first baby and she is complaining of headache, body pains, cold, feverish, loss of appetite and weakness. Even vommitted the lil food she manage to eat. Wat can she use to feel better that won't be harmful to her 2weeks old baby cos she is doing exclusive breastfeeding.
Oga a nursing mother is a human being o! And humans fall sick. So please let her see a doctor some of her symptoms are red flags and should be treated urgently by a doctor especially if she had a cesarean or episiotomy.
Encourage her to eat and rest well! Childbirth can be very tiresome and takes a lot of toll on the body.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mompurity2: 9:18pm On Oct 23, 2016
pintoxx:


Thanx ma'am,sure we will, My dear was so busy 2daycouldn't come online.

C ehhhn,wen next u take off my sons inlaws pic without me seeing it,i will tel Zharra nt 2 marry dem again. cheesy

Thanx ma'am,sure we will, My dear was so busy 2daycouldn't come online.

C ehhhn,wen next u take off my sons inlaws pic without me seeing it,i will tel Zharra nt 2 marry dem again.
please pool, bikonu, don't execute your threat ooo. You know we cannot find a bae like her wink wink
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mompurity2: 9:24pm On Oct 23, 2016
Hello mamas. I just noticed for some days now that my babies no longer want to take formula in their feeding bottle, they rather just play with it like they are sucking or they push the feeder to the corner of their mouth and use their gum to make the milk flow. And this is making them not to eat well. Could this be a phase? Or they no longer like the formula I changed to or what? Has anyone experienced something like this

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