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| Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 7:01pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
We met online last April & I bleep her D first day we met(lastweek).Now she's all over me but I don't think I can start a relationship with her 4 some reason. (1)She's not a yoruba(I come 4rm a royal family). (2)She already has a male child(If it were a girl I'm ok with it because I don't have a sister). (3)She works in a bar/club house. Do U think an inexperience guy like me should start a relationship with her? |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by ijebabe: 7:07pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
While you were chatting online didn't you know all of this? You finally met her last week, didn't the issue of her being a single mom her employment status come to your attention? You went ahead and had s[b]e[/b]x with her knowing you weren't ready to be in a relationship. Did you come here to ask our permission before you started this? Mtcheeeew! F[b]u[/b]ck your inexperience! You knew what you were doing all along. Unless there's something in your story I'm missing! |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
@POSTER.. Long live you  . Mission accomplished. Na double zero seven u be. So abeg roll over make anoda man chop hin own  |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Mynd44: 7:18pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
And those factors did not stop you from sleeping with her abi. Mumu |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Odunnu: 7:20pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
You are wicked, selfish and selfcentered. One way or the other, you will have to pay for your deceit |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 7:36pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
@ijebabe, She was hiding her employment status & she used 2 refer 2 her friend dat her friend is a single mother. @bennyraz, I'm not James Bond or Tom Cruise. @Mynd_44, She was hiding some details about herself. @Odunnu, I don't think I've done anything 2 deserve what U listed.But U can't blame me either she wants it D first time we met & I myself has also been sex starve because of serving in D North(NYSC). |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Luckygurl(f): 8:41pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
[quote author=akj26]@ijebabe, She was hiding her employment status & she used 2 refer 2 her friend dat her friend is a single mother. @bennyraz, I'm not James Bond or Tom Cruise. @Mynd_44, She was hiding some details about herself. @Odunnu, I don't think I've done anything 2 deserve what U listed.But U can't blame me either she wants it D first time we met & I myself has also been sex starve because of serving in D North(NYSC).[/quote]Yup U go on jstifying Ur deed. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by ijebabe: 8:49pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
akj26: @ijebabe, She was hiding her employment status & she used 2 refer 2 her friend dat her friend is a single mother.So how did the big mystery reveal itself to you? Probably after you came during s[b]e[/b]x  Look, if you don't want to continue with her then tell her that and move on. She has baggage you're not ready to handle, it's that simple. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by KINGwax(m): 9:07pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
Baba were ma ni man OP yi kë! |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 9:14pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
KINGwax: Baba were ma ni man OP yi kë!Haba!!! What do U mean by dat? |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Tyche(m): 10:03pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
Pls the moderators should provide us with "WTF" button for this kind of stories. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Nobody: 12:56am On Jun 24, 2012 |
Tyche: Pls the moderators should provide us with "WTF" button for this kind of stories. pls tell them cos I got hundreds lined up |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Nobody: 6:00am On Jun 24, 2012 |
Mynd_44: And those factors did not stop you from sleeping with her abi. Mumu LOL!! GEEEEEEEZE!! |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 8:34am On Jun 24, 2012 |
I don't know what's wrong with some nlanders!!! I don't feel like breaking her heart maybe because I don't have a sister but I don't want 2 waste her time either. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Mynd44: 8:52am On Jun 24, 2012 |
MsDarkSkin:You are laugh a lot these days |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Konnektions146(m): 1:46pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
yu could just let her know what u feel abt de concerns u have, if u cant to it face-to-face, den do it electronically. wen she ask, xplain |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 2:43pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Konnektions146:Thank U my guy.Dis is D most reasonable post!!! I've attempt 2 do it electronically but she doesn't want 2 give-up on me.I'll try face2face B4 D relationship enters 6months.I wish I could keep her as a SISTER but I doubt If I can marry her. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Konnektions146(m): 2:47pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
akj26: have u stayed with her? whats her behaviour like? what exactly is yur major concern"? de tribe or single mother status? |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 4:01pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Konnektions146: |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Konnektions146(m): 4:31pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
akj26: ah!..dats a dificult one..tot to advice u work on it but in dis case, u have to do de needful. wish de best man |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 4:52pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Konnektions146:Thanks |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by agb2011(f): 5:27pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Op, some ppl who replied ar actually pissed at u because u mentiond tribe as an issue (nxt time u want 2post a thread, never add d tribe factor; just my two cents). To d topic, i don't think breakin up wt her in person wil work. D best is to break up wt her electronically. Tell her ur reasons, stop callin her, delete her on fbk &bbm, etc, just don't c her face2face again. Why? Well because she wil (definately) cry, beg n plead wt u 2 stay and if u ar soft heartd u'l feel sorry 4 her. 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Goldieluks: 5:32pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Mynd_44: And those factors did not stop you from sleeping with her abi. Mumu You dey mind the kid. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by qualified(f): 6:38pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Just do d needful. Dont be in any relationship out of pity. Dont try it face2face cos u might not pull through, my best bet is electronically. Best of luck |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by akj26(m): 7:02pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
@agb2011, I'll try not 2 include anything dat could warrant tribalism on my post next time & thank U 4 ur good advice. @Goldieluks, I'm not a kid I'm just inexperience in dat area(I'm a BOOKWORM). @qualified, thanks 4 ur contribution.I really appreciate. |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by Mynd44: 8:26pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
akj26:You sure about that? Cos you sound like one. I am also sort of a bookworm too but I don't go around typing things like this |
| Re: Help Me B4 It's 2 Late by JBL316: 12:13pm On Jun 27, 2012 |
Ur a bookworm....no b book bookworm they eat? U av just transformed into a PUNNYWORM for chopping punny. So,....u already av xperience of punny chopping....muhehehehehehe! |
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