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Guys Why? by Godmother(f): 1:49pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
My girlfriend started liking a guy who happens to be my previous boss in the office and a friend, though we are not too close. We all attend the same church. She showed him she liked him and a guy who used to gist with her took to ignoring her and looking down on her. I know its not all guys, but why do most of you guys look down on girls that give you green light? It has happened to me before and I have a brother and male friends so I know what I'm talking about. Yet you wonder why some girls would rather die in silence |
Re: Guys Why? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
That it happens with only a number of guys doesn't warrant the question, "Guys Why?" |
Re: Guys Why? by Rocktation(f): 2:33pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
sauer: That it happens with only a number of guys doesn't warrant the question, "Guys Why?" Oh yes, it does. She may as well want answers from the males' own perspective. So guys, I want to know too. Why? |
Re: Guys Why? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Re: Guys Why? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Rocktation:well, Z! There you have it! |
Re: Guys Why? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
never knew guys are like that. if guys think like that then maybe they think the girl is cheap |
Re: Guys Why? by Jaykizz(m): 6:31pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
D ans is vry simple o. 'd BOSS IS NT JST INTO HER'. Jst lyk wen a lady doesn't lyk or wana date a guy. D lady shld b lucky dat d guy ignord coz if it wer to b som oda guys, dy'l play along, av demsefs satisfied n run fasta dan Usain Bolt afta dia satisfactn had reachd its climax. D boss is a gud guy 4 ignorin n bsyds, he myt av a steady relatnshp wit anoda lady (if nt married). N who evn says d guy does nt get to c ladies afta him occassionaly? 1 Like |
Re: Guys Why? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
In my opinion it's a psychological thing. We were raised in a culture where when a brother approaches a female she is expected to front and be difficult and God help the lady that gives in easily, now imagine a lady coming on to a guy-she's asking for trouble. Now one would expect that brothers would have upggraded their thinking but that's not so, thus acting in such manners that this thread should spring up. Therefore, tell ya friend to move it, people are hardly ever who we want them to be. She shouldn't sweat it. |
Re: Guys Why? by ArQueBusieR(m): 7:42pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
What sort of signal was your friend passing? |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 7:56pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
Not every guy would do that. |
Re: Guys Why? by Godmother(f): 10:59pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
ArQueBusieR: What sort of signal was your friend passing? Just hanging around places she knows he ll be at and generally just being nice n friendly to him |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 7:46am On Jun 25, 2012 |
fresh dude, you could not have said it better. What culture has instilled in people is so hard to wash away. Using myself as example, though i may not tell the gurl off outrightly i could turn it down if the gurl does not meet my standards. U say they used to be friends, its not all my gurl friends that i can enter into an intimate relationship with. So may be he smiled and flattered her so much she thought it was all real. She should move on. It happens. Girls reject guys they dont want likewise , a guy can turn down a girl he does not fancy. Its not necessarily a case of considering her cheap. |
Re: Guys Why? by ArQueBusieR(m): 3:39pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Godmother:Oh, I see! She was stalking him. Hmm. . . |
Re: Guys Why? by Sijo01(f): 3:56pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Not all guys can read d hand writing on d wall! |
Re: Guys Why? by koolkamzzy(m): 3:58pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
@ Op, maybe your friend is miss wow (no offense) |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 5:44pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Some people are just too traditional and primitive with their thinking. To the guy, she is probably a flirt and he thinks she is cheap. |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 5:47pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
must hye like her? what if she ain't his type of girl? |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 5:49pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
dubem3: must hye like her?he might have his own personal taste no doubt but why did he change his atitude towards her, remember they used to be friends until this happened. That is why I don't subscribe to this message sending thing. If you like someone, call the person and let that person know |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 6:45pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Mynd_44: we all have our ways of reacting to stuff. But let me tell you a lady That U've been friends with who confides in You, will change her attitude towards you once you ask her out and she refuses.she'll avoid u while still claiming to be friends and that nothing has changed. Kaji? |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 6:55pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Fine you win |
Re: Guys Why? by luckgames(m): 6:55pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Godmother: My girlfriend started liking a guy who happens to be my previous boss in the office and a friend, though we are not too close. We all attend the same church.Childish and dumb |
Re: Guys Why? by princenonny(m): 9:52pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Jaykizz: D ans is vry simple o. 'd BOSS IS NT JST INTO HER'. Jst lyk wen a lady doesn't lyk or wana date a guy. D lady shld b lucky dat d guy ignord coz if it wer to b som oda guys, dy'l play along, av demsefs satisfied n run fasta dan Usain Bolt afta dia satisfactn had reachd its climax. D boss is a gud guy 4 ignorin n bsyds, he myt av a steady relatnshp wit anoda lady (if nt married).No further explanation. |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 7:09am On Jun 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Fine you winits not about wining joor! abi Wetin talk na lie? |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 7:12am On Jun 26, 2012 |
dubem3:I don't believe but I am done arguing about it so you win |
Re: Guys Why? by Godmother(f): 7:19am On Jun 26, 2012 |
koolkamzzy: @ Op, maybe your friend is miss wow (no offense) On the contrary she's a knock-out; tall, slim n very pretty. Though the guy himself is very good-looking so I'm sure he must have chicks all over him |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 7:24am On Jun 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Thats not what i'll call a win. |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 7:29am On Jun 26, 2012 |
dubem3:Well call it what you like. I am not arguing it with you again |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 7:34am On Jun 26, 2012 |
Godmother:let her not be discouraged. She should just know that when u take a bold step and do something few of ur kind do, things ain't always gonna work the way you expect them to but then just keep living ur life cos thats what makes her who she is. Sooner or later, she's bound to find what it is she is after. guys get turned down too u know? |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 7:38am On Jun 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: u be my guy that year oh! |
Re: Guys Why? by Mynd44: 7:41am On Jun 26, 2012 |
dubem3:huh? |
Re: Guys Why? by dubem3(m): 12:14pm On Jun 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: |
Re: Guys Why? by no1madman(m): 10:13pm On Jun 26, 2012 |
Godmother:Knock-out=tall,slim n pretty. . . . . in ur fuckin eyes eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh. . . . . |
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