We all know that men are the world's jealous species to date. But all over Nairaland, men have professed that they are not easily jealous and women are the weaker vessels.

I don't believe the "I am not jealous" statements from men because I have witnessed more than several occasions where the women would confided in their men about admirers and stalkers within seconds lash out at the woman for being too flirty or forces her to change jobs.

Guys....what would you do if an admirer or stalker harasses your girl? Or you are not the jealous type?

which woman in her right mind would knowingly tell her man that she has an admirer if you aren't trying to start trouble in your household?

think about it, if your man came up to you and told you that a lady in his office is always saying that he is cute or she is always calling him sweetie, you would blow your stake

Mr..Cork:
***hmmm.. i suspect Mrs chima is planning to beat up her rival**

Yes! I am tired of you trying to touch Chima's booty...you GAY DONKEY!

omega25red: which woman in her right mind would knowingly tell her man that she has an admirer if you aren't trying to start trouble in your household?

think about it, if your man came up to you and told you that a lady in his office is always saying that he is cute or she is always calling him sweetie, you would blow your stake

Not necessarily tell him or her but sometimes homewreckers do make it known to the partners which could in essence forces the partner to tell about the stalking/admirers.

Of course...you would do what you have to do to resolve the issue before the shit hit the fan but homewreckers know no shame and do whatever they have to do to win the "prize".

on the contrary it makes me glad that I'm not the only one that saw something in her. what will make my day is when I see the guy trying to woo her and she gives him a red light. that cracks me up sometimes

As long as I live, nobody can harass my woman, end of.

i am so used 2 it
i jst mk sure he always comes back 2 me

Just passing
bt I have to say that it applies to both sex ....

what going on here... oh i see

we get jelous wn d trust is broken beyond repairs....

joeydozzy: on the contrary it makes me glad that I'm not the only one that saw something in her. what will make my day is when I see the guy trying to woo her and she gives him a red light. that cracks me up sometimes

You're so on point bro.
It also helps me step up my game with her.
The truth is we both enjoy the attention...lol
She introduces 'em to me when am available and some have come to accept their fate and even become friends with me.

All the guys out there can keep on admiring her. It boosts my moral 'cos the guys wil be the one to envy me.

mangbede: we get jelous wn d trust is broken beyond repairs....

This is so true. I broke up wit my recent ex-girl because she smiles to EVERY guy who approaches her. But I do not hav any issues wit my current girlfriend who's based in Abuja cos I trust her DIE.

omega25red: which woman in her right mind would knowingly tell her man that she has an admirer if you aren't trying to start trouble in your household?

think about it, if your man came up to you and told you that a lady in his office is always saying that he is cute or she is always calling him sweetie, you would blow your stake

I think it boils down to understanding, I and my wife gist of such things; she tells me of people who try chyke her, the funniest one being one guy like that even though at the time my wife was 7months pregnant! I also tell my wife when women flirt around me. Guess its all a product of the trust we have for each other.

The girl in question is it gf or wifey, i hope we are talking about the later. Jealousy is one natural phenomenon which can occur in both species, it all boils down what can of message it is redirecting and your response to it afterwards.
Now if my wife tells me that i will be a bit jealous and glad that i made the right choice, but if the stalker is constantly harassing her, that is not so so good..i'd cal the police 2 do their work.
If she is my gf, is all good, i have come to learn is all about competition, whoever puts the ring on her wins.

ArQueBusieR: As long as I live, nobody can harass my woman, end of.

PASS JOR

Cmingout:
PASS JOR

Pastor?!

Why would I get mad if my spouse has an admirer? I would rather be happy that I have in my hands a vowel which other men are longing for.

I've just submitted an Application to carry a light weapon in Nigeria today. I hope they give me license to carry a gun.. Mrs.chima i will answer ur question then cheers

bennyraz: I've just submitted an Application to carry a light weapon in Nigeria today. I hope they give me license to carry a gun.. Mrs.chima i will answer ur question then cheers

who do you intend to shoot. Or have they approved your request to join Boko Haram?

Nope! Admirers is fine... Stalkers is something else entirely.
She is my girlfriend, not my wife ( one of the stalkers or admirers might turn out to be her future Mr. Right). But if my intention is to marry her.. I will definately get mad and tend to protect the woman I love.

Dondav: Nope! Admirers is fine... Stalkers is something else entirely.
She is my girlfriend, not my wife ( one of the stalkers or admirers might turn out to be her future Mr. Right). But if my intention is to marry her.. I will definately get mad and tend to protect the woman I love.

Even when you are married, she will have admirers. Even guys have them.

bennyraz: I've just submitted an Application to carry a light weapon in Nigeria today. I hope they give me license to carry a gun.. Mrs.chima i will answer ur question then cheers

You want to pack heat?
slow down Dude

NO.
She can even go the movies with them if she likes.
She should just play safe.

I can always tolerate my partner having admirers but stalker is a no no

Outsiders admiration of a woman would only mean something to her if she doesn't get good compliments from the husband/partner.
Guys who don't compliment their partners(wives/girlfriends) get jealous when an outsider gives her the compliment.

Everytime an outsider compliments my woman, it is just a confirmation of what i always tell her.

Mrs.Chima:


Yes! I am tired of you trying to touch Chima's booty...you GAY DONKEY!

ahn ahn wetin dey make u spark like dis sef?

joeydozzy: on the contrary it makes me glad that I'm not the only one that saw something in her. what will make my day is when I see the guy trying to woo her and she gives him a red light. that cracks me up sometimes

my guy u r ryt. as long as d gurl stil luvs nd care abt me. No yawa

dnt cr, perhaps i feel so proud wen she's been admired, cos it mks me undstnd hw special she is.

Mynd_44: Why would I get mad if my spouse has an admirer? I would rather be happy that I have in my hands a vowel which other men are longing for.

bros,don't forget that some guys just want to have fun(sex) with her and dump her