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Re: Family Background And Relationships by queensmith: 7:07pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
It does- a man that grew up in a happy home is more likely to have a happy relationship. If you have a razmataz background it's possible to have a lot of baggage. Baggage that may affect your outlook on relationships. If your father beat your mother you will be abusive, if your father is a misogynist you will believe women are inferior, if you are a mommys boy you will have a very very hard time in your relationships. Ideally ones partner should come from a 'traditional' home with 2 happy parents that are happy and raised him in a happy setting. Otherwise he'd be miserable and all his efforts will be towards making the woman/man in his life miserable. Of course this isn't a general rule but I do use family background to judge people alot. Then again we never know what is happening behind closed doors. 1 Like |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 2dmax(m): 7:24pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
AabuBlack:as u rightly said...PEOPLE.WHO.ARE.IN.LOVE if only u knew d patience and turn d other cheek those people pass tru! |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
Yes it does sometimes |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by NAJALYN: 9:06pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
There are exceptions. We have had instances where rich men marry from poor families for love, and vice versa. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Freiburger(m): 10:45pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
shymmex:I see, you meant robbing minds. But i still think it depends on what both parties want from the relationship. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 06, 2012 |
~Bluetooth:Off point! 1 Like |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by kandiikane(m): 1:03am On Jul 06, 2012 |
*strolls in, looks around, takes a dump* |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by ayobase(m): 7:51am On Jul 06, 2012 |
190: Do family background normally have an impact on one's relationship Its never built on pedigree, but on mien. Relationship is based on trust, love, care, faithfulness, provision, sound intimacy and d likes. Its a choice to possess those qualities! |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Goldieluks: 9:22am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Yes it does, for example one who is brought up in a loveless background, tends to strongly believe that love is not important in a relationship. Or maybe one who haven't seen daddy say sorry to mummy, will automatically conclude that saying 'sorry' is not a neccessity in a relationship. It goes on and on. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Confilass: 10:00am On Jul 06, 2012 |
It matters alot. Even in d bible we hear about Lineage from Abraham, Isaac etc. I used to feel b4 it doesn't matter until I was a victim (long story). |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by yam: 10:27am On Jul 06, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: yes on some level: Often true but not always |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by yam: 10:29am On Jul 06, 2012 |
queensmith: It does- a man that grew up in a happy home is more likely to have a happy relationship. If you have a razmataz background it's possible to have a lot of baggage. Baggage that may affect your outlook on relationships. If your father beat your mother you will be abusive, if your father is a misogynist you will believe women are inferior, if you are a mommys boy you will have a very very hard time in your relationships. Often true but not always |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by yam: 10:30am On Jul 06, 2012 |
ayobase: Always true. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by yam: 10:31am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Goldieluks: Yes it does, for example one who is brought up in a loveless background, tends to strongly Often true but not always |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by yam: 10:34am On Jul 06, 2012 |
queensmith: It does- a man that grew up in a happy home is more likely to have a happy relationship. If you have a razmataz background it's possible to have a lot of baggage. Baggage that may affect your outlook on relationships. If your father beat your mother you will be abusive, if your father is a misogynist you will believe women are inferior, if you are a mommys boy you will have a very very hard time in your relationships. Never True |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by LongOne1(m): 11:40am On Jul 06, 2012 |
A tricky one, but I think it depends more on the individual, which is why I feel one should be exposed to other cultures and ways of doing things to have a broad-minded perspective of life. Then, the person’s values will be based on personal experience, allowing them to eliminate the traits they feel are not right. People from similar family backgrounds have married, yet still divorced and vice-versa. Therefore, I don’t think anything should be written in stone as there are no guarantees in life, apart from death. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by jpphilips(m): 1:45pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
190: Do family background normally have an impact on one's relationship guess you wont have a problem taking Clifford orji's daughter to the alter |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by denzel2009: 1:48pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
190: Do family background normally have an impact on one's relationship your nairaland background could have an impact on your relationship. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by honourlaja(m): 2:07pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
190: Do family background normally have an impact on one's relationship Life most esp. Marital life, is a stage play and we all act almost d same script if not careful, but different characters. If a family has a history of strange illness at a certain period in life, d same might repeat itself. In any family u are preparing to go to, be ready to go through what goes through them. If a family have th history of hatred towards one of the parents or both, d same might repeat itself except by fervent prayers. That is why love is not enough in marriage. Some battles must have been won before you step into dat relationship, to avoid attacks from the wicked world. He\she who has hear let such hear clearly. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by gonon: 2:50pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
It matters big time. So you know or have an idea of what to expect from your relationship with the person. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 190: 9:00pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
~Bluetooth: Yes its so true Like my ex whose family couldn't afford 3 square meals Started phocking around and I sent her dashing straight in2 a gutter And found myself a rich, curvy, shapey, vanilla-flavoured aje buttered gurl Who's father can sponor my marriage with his daughter 100 times over and over Last time I heard from d ex she was notoriously currently dating a yahoo boy In port harcourt, and using juju on him - smh Na wa - |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by kandiikane(m): 10:11pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Wow! See lies. . |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 190: 10:15pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Wahs dis gay albino called kandikane talkin bout |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by kandiikane(m): 10:28pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Lool |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Beync(f): 11:33pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Yes it matters alot. There are traits that runs in families. it's either good or bad traits. dont overlook them if u discover any negative trait. it's just like when if u r A S and u marry A S, u must give bith to SS. there are exceptions but in rare cases |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 190: 11:38pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
Hmmm |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Tinkybabe(f): 3:04am On Jul 07, 2012 |
To some extent like some people pointed out but other influences like peer group,exposure,educational level can reinforce or undermine it I personally have learnt to study the behavioral pattern of a person(ofcourse know a bit about their background)and try to see correlations between them and where they are from,good and bad.One thing I wouldn't do is judge a person by their background unless it's medically based or there is a generational curse in the family. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by BijiAgam(f): 6:15am On Jul 07, 2012 |
in most cases yes b cos in some families, wen any body is geting married, the family members will want to enquire on were thier child is marrying to and if they are not comfortable with what they see, they try to stop the relationship/marriage. |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 190: 6:26am On Jul 07, 2012 |
I agree with d Op Wait - isn't dat same OP me Anyway back 2 topic, my last 2 ex were from broken or almost broken Homes where they were brought up by single mom's wit little or no Impact frm their dad and d rlatnshp was a terrible expperience One wasn't just a hustler/prostitute in disguise D other was a stark cold hearted stone cold killer |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 190: 9:36pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
Guinea Fowl |
Re: Family Background And Relationships by 190: 10:48pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
u again!! |
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