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Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 2:53pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
I've noticed that whenever a girl breaks up with a guy she always adds these annoying words, "Atleast we can still be friends, right?" Personally, i hate it. There you are, all heart-broken and feeling like it's the end of the world and that person you've loved so much is telling you "we can still be friends." I need to get your opinion on this. Would you still be friends with someone who just broke up with you? |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by cog1: 4:55pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
Its all good at the end really! Sometimes God opens doors to give us opportunities, Sometimes he CLOSES doors to protect us! We may not understand when he closes doors when and where we wish he opens!! Rise above the hurt & be friends,yes,because that particular Door at that point in time needs to be closed. At the point you realize this crucial fact,you rise above the hurt & its easier to move on. So,when next a babe says "can we still be friends?" Please say "with all pleasure ma'am!" 1 Like |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
Hell raised to the power of NO!!! |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by infogenius(m): 5:18pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
Of course. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 6:18pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
cog1: Its all good at the end really! Maybe sometime in the future. But at that point in time when i'm still grieving and mad as xxxx. Hell to the no. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 6:20pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
sexkillz: Hell raised to the power of NO!!! On point bro |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 6:22pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
infogenius: Of course. When you've experienced it you will understand |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by claremont(m): 6:31pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
No. I delete their details from my phone, my Facebook, my email, burn all the pictures and everything that reminds me of the relationship. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
claremont: No. I delete their details from my phone, my Facebook, my email, burn all the pictures and everything that reminds me of the relationship. Lol! Sounds like me |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 6:51pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
claremont: No. I delete their details from my phone, my Facebook, my email, burn all the pictures and everything that reminds me of the relationship. Wow. Bro you dey vehs oh. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by pendo89(f): 6:55pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
I think it depends on the cause of the breakup and what the relationship was based on. If we are together in biz and I still value your input and deals, I would not be stupid enough to delete your details. I keep that side of things going on and erase the emotional part.That I am good at doing. To speed that up, get urselves other partners to draw attention from each other. But if you don't add any positive value in each other's life then go separate and forget the person completley |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by bizzlemie(m): 7:04pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
BEFORE D RELATIONSHIP: We're best of lovers AFTER D RELATIONSHIP:We're total strangers! Did y'all notice d rhyme dere? Hehehehe |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Mynd44: 7:37pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
Yes I can. I see noting bad in it but it will have to depend on the circumstances of the break-up |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 7:37pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
pendo89: I think it depends on the cause of the breakup and what the relationship was based on. That's cold |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by pendo89(f): 7:51pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
hotshot_peter: But how else does 'move on'? I am sure you have heard that phrase before, no? You cant move on while stringing another person along,It's not fair to the new person at all. Leave emotional baggage behind and start afresh. That to me is moving on. Keep the non emotional attachment on.I don't know if you understand me. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by ijebabe: 8:07pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
sexkillz: Hell raised to the power of NO!!!I'm breaking up with you. Can we be friends? |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 8:09pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
pendo89: Ummmm NO. Expanciate |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Mynd44: 8:25pm On Jul 05, 2012 |
ijebabe:Hmmm |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Nobody: 4:58am On Jul 06, 2012 |
I tried. It doesn't work, especially when you're the one hurting. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Nobody: 5:11am On Jul 06, 2012 |
ogugua88: I tried. It doesn't work, especially when you're the one hurting. Exactly |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Nobody: 7:12am On Jul 06, 2012 |
ijebabe:say what?! |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by OldHag: 7:17am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Yes you can still be'just good friends' it all depends on the reasons behind the breakup. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Mynd44: 7:44am On Jul 06, 2012 |
sexkillz: say what?!Ouch that's gotta hurt |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by mideeniafe(f): 9:29am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Well of course, but it depends on the reason why we broke up. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Goldieluks: 9:50am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Yeah, but not immediately. |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by tellwisdom: 10:28am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Mbanuuuuuuuu..ARU |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by hotshotpeter(m): 10:43am On Jul 06, 2012 |
ogugua88: I tried. It doesn't work, especially when you're the one hurting. GBAM raised to the power of infinity |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Mynd44: 10:47am On Jul 06, 2012 |
hotshot_peter: |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Etranshub(m): 10:50am On Jul 06, 2012 |
Such friendship only take u guys back to bed n the s*x continue but this time with no commitment so u both end up cheating ur new partners. Have had such over n over and in must cases the girl we ask that the friendship should end when she realise she is getting nothing but just s*x from the frienship |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by 190: 9:16pm On Jul 06, 2012 |
I agree with cog1 God does tins in misterious ways And d end always justify d means - he protects us in ways unimaginable My ex said those same words 2me late last year Here was my response Let's say her name is Jane Jane I have known you for well over 7yrs now And we've bin dating for well over 6yrs now During which, I have done pratically everything do-able for you Including getting you an admission with which you are a graduate And about going 2 serve Before you felt you are now too big and started phocking ur fellow class mates and Lecturers for marks - its all gud doe But I don't tink its Ok we remain friends, I wouldn't wanna av anytin 2 do again wiv u Cos I've come 2 understand that love doesn't exist and its just mare infactuation You Jane has been a bad influence in my life and I must have bin so dunb not 2 c d beast And bi.tch in u after all these yrs Ever heard of d world - each 2 their tent oh isreal I nid both of us 2 stay on opposite sides of th e lane If u ever see me, don't greet me and I won't greet or respond if u ever Say hi, either online or in reality, don't call my fones and don't add me on bbm I hope u understand wah I'm saying She nodded Now go And that was d end, I turned my back with heavy hart,took my leave Last time I heard she was in an active relationship in PH wit a yahoo boy Fast forward 2 5months later I'm having d best of relationship God can ever bless a man She is everything and has an IQ of a white woman and as sweet as a Nigerian woman + she is From a notoriously wealthy family where money is d least of their problems Hell cute 2 d core and recently I've bin complaining that she doesn't allow me do Notin for her Just 20 and a graduate with 2.1 and a scholarship 2 any uni in d world 2 read her masters and Currently planniing a suitable country where we cud both link up I think na 2 give am belle remain - rotfl Juss kiddin na joke I de Word of advice 2 guys out there Never u - I repeat Never u date a gurl who on her own Can't afford a square meal or a bottle of fanta Else u become d fanta in her life till she squeezez d juice outta u And finds herself an ice cold beer - always go for D champhange popping types |
Re: Can You Still Be Friends With Someone Who Just Broke-up With You? by Mynd44: 1:13am On Jul 07, 2012 |
190 has lost it |
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