helo NLs,i would lik to know wot ur take is on dis issue.am 18 n currently doing IT,av neva bn in a relatnship b4 due 2 d fact dat i don't 2 b distracted 4rm my studies n pple's xperiences of hrtbrks,cheating e.t.c dat av heard.my kwesn is should i hold on till wen am 21 n above or i should get involved in one? i would giv response 2 any further kwesns 4rm you guys.
pls it took me a lot of courage to post dis cos i know NLs yab a lot,pls don't b harsh thanks in advance n God bless.

is up to u to know what ur priorities are,then u pursue it.am 29 and hav neva bn in any relationship,am a graduate looking forward to go for my msc next yr.i decide how i live my life without recourse to what people think or say.lead ur life setting ur priorities right

18 is really young. Will advise u to try to meet more guys at this stage. U don't need an exclusive relationship yet. Enjoy male admiration, company and learn how to relate to them. Blv me me u don't need d heartaches of a committed relationship now.

Never go into a relationship til ure ready for marriage

Ah ah tobechi!! You don chop finish clean mouth, come here dey give this advice!

@op, there's no point rushing into a relationship especially when you are not ready for one. You might be feeling the peer pressure from your friends and others but you are smart to hold out and focus on your studies. I wish more girls these days were like you.

Poster let me tell u, some girls wish they could turn back the hands of clock so that they"l go back to 18yrs and then wait till when they are mature and ready for the real deal. Enjoy ur youthful age, learn from others experiences, don't fall to peer pressure, at the right time u will make informed decision about ur relationship.

i'm sayin a very big thank u 2 u all,dis responses av rily help me 2 boost my self-confidence n self-esteem.i av 2 set my priorities right,no relatnship now till i get my msc certificate.Lol
thanks n God bless.Nls u rock.

@18 all you need to do is explore!
Life is too short ya know...

cindyrella: @18 all you need to do is explore!
Life is too short ya know...

Explore wat? A bird in hand is worth more than 20 in d bush.
@op,take ur time n learn 2 understand ursev. Set ur prorities right n d reasons u want a relationship.is it because odas do it,u r lonely,peer presure e.t.c. Always remember,u dnt learn how 2 shoot a gun on d battlefield,ur preparation starts now.

beylinko:
Explore wat? A bird in hand is worth more than 20 in d bush.
@op,take ur time n learn 2 understand ursev. Set ur prorities right n d reasons u want a relationship.is it because odas do it,u r lonely,peer presure e.t.c. Always remember,u dnt learn how 2 shoot a gun on d battlefield,ur preparation starts now.

U make plenty sense jor, thumbs up!

You're still very young. If you find someone you're interested in now, take your time and get to know him; be friends first. If there's no one in the picture right now, then focus on your studies. Get to know yourself more before diving into a relationship.

At that age, what you should do is have fun. Hang out with friends and get to know the world better

Dont allow peer pressure lead u to an unprepared destination. WORD!!