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Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by bittyend(m): 11:42pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Relationships have been failing at an alarming rate of late since the invention of the internet. More people have access to information in real time, and most apply the 'formulas'/'expectations' they get online from the so-called 'relationship experts' to their relationships. Our parents never really had that much access to 'relationship experts', yet most of them were able to sustain their relationships for a longtime, because it was natural. But why are relationships failing in our generation? I think it's high time we dropped this idea that a 'relationship experts' who can't help his/her own relationship, can help us save ours. Excessive reading breeds unrealistic expectations and we need to understand that people are different, and we do things differently. |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by slimyem: 11:46pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
ok! |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by Mynd44: 11:51pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
In other words, Inflated expectation |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by bittyend(m): 11:53pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
Mynd_44: In other words, Inflated expectation Smart guy. |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by Mynd44: 11:55pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
bittyend:I have my moments |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by slimyem: 12:02am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Mynd_44:yeah.. ..moments in your mind.... |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by bittyend(m): 12:02am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Just stop messing with those Ekiti ganjar, and you'd be alright. |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by Mynd44: 12:06am On Jul 14, 2012 |
slimyem: yeah..You know I got it |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by Mynd44: 12:07am On Jul 14, 2012 |
bittyend:okay I will try |
Re: Most Relationships Fail Because of Excessive Reading & Unrealistic Expectations by cog1: 7:32am On Jul 14, 2012 |
Too much of everything is bad,True. To the making of many books there will be no end, and too much Devotion to books is wearisome to the flesh True. On the other hand,are we supposed to stop attending school because some of our Teachers definitely failed a few exams in their time? False Getting advice from experienced people who have been in a Similar situation is a course of wisdom because we are able To learn firsthand from someone who has been there and avoid That same mistake for ourselves. What use is there in making the same mistake over and over again? That is why we have literature review in thesis,where you have Opportunity to go over what others have done,correlate with your work,identify Their mistakes and pitfalls and avoid them as much as possible,from then on Till the end its the student's work. Blessed day. |
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