fados4sure:
Will you wake up an just get married without loving somebody first?

you can't but you should not go nuts over love

Mynd_44: It depends on what that "thing" is

^^^

fados4sure:
Will you wake up an just get married without loving somebody first?

bro dont mix your apples with your oranges.......in the bible, you only become one AFTER marriage....... before marriage, you are simply playing the fields and fooling yourself (and SINGLE). no matter how much you love someone, you cannot be viewed as ONE by that same bible, unless you marry that lady. whatever happen before marriage has absolutely NO VALUE in the bible because there was no dating in biblical times. lol

MRbrownJAY:

bro dont mix your apples with your oranges.......in the bible, you only become one AFTER marriage....... before marriage, you are simply playing the fields and fooling yourself (and SINGLE). no matter how much you love someone, you cannot be viewed as ONE by that same bible, unless you marry that lady. whatever happen before marriage has absolutely NO VALUE in the bible because there was no dating in biblical times. lol

ok MBJ i have a question for you...ok so back then in the "bible days" there were arranged marriages. That doesn't apply to us all so we can 'x' that out. But courting is still very relevant. You say it's playing the fields and what not, but say you are serious about the person and given the impression it will lead to marriage but then they pull a Houdini move on you. Would you say there is no way to escape it...or is it possible to find love and avoid the constant heartbreaks?

Ms dark, i dont understand your question fully..............
what i meant by playing the fields is that he isnt viewed as anything by that same bible, until he marries her. so he is fooling himself if he thinks that anything other than MARRIAGE can make him "one" with any lady.

love come and goes, some can make it last longer while others cant, but nobody can confirm beforehand that it will last forever. everything has to be "right", and let us all remember that not all love story end up in Heartbreak....some separate with no pain and disaster.

MRbrownJAY:

bro dont mix your apples with your oranges.......in the bible, you only become one AFTER marriage....... before marriage, you are simply playing the fields and fooling yourself (and SINGLE). no matter how much you love someone, you cannot be viewed as ONE by that same bible, unless you marry that lady. whatever happen before marriage has absolutely NO VALUE in the bible because there was no dating in biblical times. lol

It them means you can't love a lady an do anything for her?

fados4sure:
It them means you can't love a lady an do anything for her?

Have you not been reading dude? It depends on your definition of "anything"

Mynd_44:
Have you not been reading dude? It depends on your definition of "anything"

I mean anything? Most especially finacially?

fados4sure:
I mean anything? Most especially finacially?

Financially maybe but some other things I am not sure

Mynd_44:
Financially maybe but some other things I am not sure

Even me? Aside finance, i can't because it was only Jesus that came to die foreverybody not me dieing for love...

fados4sure:
Even me? Aside finance, i can't because it was only Jesus that came to die foreverybody not me dieing for love...

So why have you been arguing since?

fados4sure: It them means you can't love a lady an do anything for her?

i can love a lady, and do a lot for "us", so long as i keep my SANITY. the minute this love turns into something INSANE/CRAZY, my brain takes over and put a firewall around my heart.

what you have to remember is that YOU (as a person) is the number one priority in any r/ship and must ALWAYS stay that way.........

Mynd_44:
So why have you been arguing since?

Read my statement very well, i said financially

MRbrownJAY:

i can love a lady, and do a lot for "us", so long as i keep my SANITY. the minute this love turns into something INSANE/CRAZY, my brain takes over and put a firewall around my heart.

what you have to remember is that YOU (as a person) is the number one priority in any r/ship and must ALWAYS stay that way.........

Thanks

I see a guy just about to make a BIG mistake and will soon open a thread of regrets.

FADO LISTEN PLEASE!!

You are too blinded and it seems like it has impaired ur judgement!

You are not yet one! you still not sure about urself but u want to drag somebody into ur life? She still trying to find herself too.

The Bible says THERE'S IS A TIME FOR EVRYTHING.It's time to study now and build urself financially

Don't make a blunder too early.Meet more girls,compare, take time.What is the rush for?

This is what puppy love does.Blinds u.

pendo89: Coming from MBJ?
Did prophet TB jshua visit u last nite?

lol, just because I dont believe in the charlatan preachers that are abound in churches every sunday, lying and getting rich off of "religion", doesnt mean that i dont UNDERSTAND FULLY the words of the Bible. knowledge is the key of life!

fados4sure:
Read my statement very well, i said financially

Your post read "anything" even the financial part of it is extreme to me. If I wanna help you, I will because I want to not because I love you. The fact that I am in love with you does not really mean you will get preferential treatment when it comes to my finances

Mynd_44:
Your post read "anything" even the financial part of it is extreme to me. If I wanna help you, I will because I want to not because I love you. The fact that I am in love with you does not really mean you will get preferential treatment when it comes to my finances

ese!

this poster has guts o, see the determination he has just to accomplish this task that he has given himself, if he concentrate this determination on his masters i think he would be the best graduating in his German school, i think he should first complete his masters then return and marry the lady then he sends her to school, by then he would be more financially comfortable than he is presently. more mature to know that training a lady is not a days job.

addictiv: this poster has guts o, see the determination he has just to accomplish this task that he has given himself, if he concentrate this determination on his masters i think he would be the best graduating in his German school, i think he should first complete his masters then return and marry the lady then he sends her to school, by then he would be more financially comfortable than he is presently. more mature to know that training a lady is not a days job.

lol

why should i do ANYTHING for love? if to steal or kill just to satify her. abey park well. u no no say if something bad happens to me..na sharp sharp she go take forget me and run leave me. @Poster, e bi like say love still dey cover ur eyes. stay there!

E-solver:
why should i do ANYTHING for love? if to steal or kill just to satify her. abey park well. u no no say if something bad happens to me..na sharp sharp she go take forget me and run leave me. @Poster, e bi like say love still dey cover ur eyes. stay there!

I said: assist her finacially?

fados4sure:
I said: assist her finacially?

so Anything just mean "finacially assist" to you.
wen ur parents dey force you go school, u think say na bad tin they de do u.
Now u don dey see de result.

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Be careful. Magas are born everyday.
Slow down. You should really only do these sorts of things for your WIFE.

Now, unless you know you can do this sort of thing for her and you want NOTHING from her in return, as in, in your mind, she is free to bounce with another man and you wouldn't be bothered, then and ONLY then can you carry out such charitable actions.

Otherwise, you would not be doing it for the right reasons, and there would likely be no blessing from it.
A wasted action it would be.

So if you are trying to buy this lady's heart by putting her through school, I'm sure there are many female mugus who are looking for a maga like you.

2buff: Be careful. Magas are born everyday.
Slow down. You should really only do these sorts of things for your WIFE.

Now, unless you know you can do this sort of thing for her and you want NOTHING from her in return, as in, in your mind, she is free to bounce with another man and you wouldn't be bothered, then and ONLY then can you carry out such charitable actions.

Otherwise, you would not be doing it for the right reasons, and there would likely be no blessing from it.
A wasted action it would be.

So if you are trying to buy this lady's heart by putting her through school, I'm sure there are many female mugus who are looking for a maga like you.

Thanks