There is this girl i love so much so i approached her..... After alot of disturbance she agreed, and told me dat she dnt luv anybody and dnt hav anybody, but she will try to luv me.... Since over one month naw she is still trying to luv me and when ever i tell her i love u, she will say thank u. I waz forced to ask her if i waz under illusion of luv she saud she told me ealier, dat d luv is nt dere bt coming up. Befor i forget, she agreed two times and later said no, before she finally agree dis one. Pls pls wot will do Pls assit me, on wot to do to increase or should i leave dis girl, honestly am tired. Pls assit me.

She's watching you and putting your actions to test.
I have a friend who spent 12 months trying to get a girl. Constant calls every hour, lots of gifts etc. But this girl never agreed to date him not until this guy got tired, the girl eventually called him after a year to say I am ready. The guy wan run mad that night. Maybe I need to say this: she was a virgin then, extremely beautiful.

Keep on trying bro.

If you truly love her, stay for a while. Love does grow and it'll help a lot if you stop scaring her with how much you're in love with her. Don't show her completely the love you have for her. Treat her like a friend, a lady, and take things slow. Hint at things about how you're feeling but don't actually say it. It'll make her think & from there, ull be on her mind.. if all else fails, leave before she breaks your heart even more.

It seems the guys here have a lot of experience with girls keeping them waiting so I will advice you to listen to their advice.
As for me though, if she can't make up her mind in one month, I am out

jigwe101: If you truly love her, stay for a while. Love does grow and it'll help a lot if you stop scaring her with how much you're in love with her. Don't show her completely the love you have for her. Treat her like a friend, a lady, and take things slow. Hint at things about how you're feeling but don't actually say it. It'll make her think & from there, ull be on her mind.. if all else fails, leave before she breaks your heart even more.

if u really love her just do it slow and steady. Am a living testimony. on de bolded one. Treat her like more dan a friend, care for her, dont be forgetful about matters dat concern her.

@Poster, I am so tired of hearing men/women waiting for someone to love them back, if the spark aint there it never gonna happen. Life to short to be waiting, she aint into you. MOVE ON.