I'm attracted to older women and most of the women that fit what I like are single mothers. Basically, I dunno if I want to get married to a woman with a kid for another man and get a 3rd (kid) and 4th (kid's father) person involved in my marriage. I'm caught between a rock and a hard place.

Younger women are too immature for me because most of them don't really know what they want. They watch too many reality TV shows to be able to think straight, life is like a fantasy island to them.

Tough decision.

What do you think?

@OP
are you saying that all the older women you meet are unfortunately single mothers OR that you are attracted to single mothers?

@Poster, Old hag here coulda been your perrrrrrrrrrrfect match. But, yes you guessed it im a serial mom.

at any age, single mothers has de tendencies to think and act more maturedly dan dese small small chweing gum girls.
moreso, not all sigle mothers are older ladies,
for me-I CAN

And not all single mothers are responsible or matured.

There are many of us single mothers that are responsible and awesome. Please open your mind

Yes, i can!

Mynd_44: And not all single mothers are responsible or matured.

sure, but a greater %age learnt theeir lessons de hard way and thus, better reasoning and actions.

i could remember sometime ago, a lady who couldnt hold herself and de funniest thing is dat she is too fertile, she born, 1,2,3 babies in her fathers lace for 3 different men.....now dats de height of irresponsibility and stoopeedity.

Most cool headed women I know are single moms. Nothing like a dose of reality (i.e. pushing out a baby) to clear up the ol' brain of a lot of foolishness.

Marrying one though, is a different matter entirely.

Konnektions146:
sure, but a greater %age learnt theeir lessons de hard way and thus, better reasoning and actions.

i could remember sometime ago, a lady who couldnt hold herself and de funniest thing is dat she is too fertile, she born, 1,2,3 babies in her fathers lace for 3 different men.....now dats de height of irresponsibility and stoopeedity.

Which leads me to say responsibility is a personal thing. It has noting to do with giving birth or not

Yep...most single mothers are more matured....FACT... To be responsible for anoda human being makes u grow up quickly and realise life is nt a bed of roses like most younger girls wud be led to bliv...and that relationship is responsibility and give and take. I av dated one b4; a single mother.... The question is cn I marry one? The answer is simple. No. Too many issues involved...