Most times, I often notice dat ladies always want to be a part of a guys family..
U meet a girl, and she wants to know every member of ur family, she immediately wants to meet ur mum..
#justasking... Ladies do u feel safer in a r/ship if ur guy introduces u to his family members??
If u don't get them into d loop, dey feel u have no future plans for them.
Does it make u feel like u'll b d one he'll end up with just cos his parents know u?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but most ladies always want to get introduced to their boyfrnd's families.
How really does dat make dem feel?

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Mynd_44: Is this even a topic for discussion? Abeg next

must you derail every thread?just ignore if it dosen't suit you.

Joeblis: must you derail every thread?just ignore if it dosen't suit you.

Must you reply me? If you are so entertained by the silly thread, you would not notice me

I think those ladies who feel the need to
Be introduced actually would want the
R/ship to get to the next level if its
Possible.
A lady wants to be sure a guy is not just
Using her like a backup-always out of
Sight but good enough to fall back on when
The original's not available!!
By the way,who likes the back-up,waka pass
Role anyway?!!!
Blessed day.

cog1: I think those ladies who feel the need to
Be introduced actually would want the
R/ship to get to the next level if its
Possible.
A lady wants to be sure a guy is not just
Using her like a backup-always out of
Sight but good enough to fall back on when
The original's not available!!
By the way,who likes the back-up,waka pass
Role anyway?!!!
Blessed day.

Tnx for ur response... I've actually got friends whose girlfriends always want to get familiar with d whole of d guy's family...
Worse thing is, even after every familiarity.... Whenever they finally part ways... Family hardly comes in.

Its actually wiser for ladies to steer clear
Of the guy's family and his relations if
Possible to avoid embarassment and unnecessary
Publicity when the r/ship doesn't go through!
But most girls feel its prolly a way to the
Guy's heart.

slimyem: ladies feel more confident and relevant if they get to meet thier partners family.
In my opinion,its a step that should only be taken when both partners are willing and have agreed to seal the deal...not before.
It complicates issues especially if they have to part ways sometime down the line.
It creates a false sense of belonging esp.for the lady.some families don't care how many partners their peeps bring home..every girl/boy would always be welcome!
It makes one prone to a lot of unnecessary assessments and judgements...and subjects one to almost unavoidable obligations.
.
.
If you are in a relationship,stay away from each others families..do your things...have fun ...enjoy the relationship while it lasts and if for any reason you have to part ways,it'll be less complicated.
No unnecessary explanations...
No unnecessary judgements..or unnecessary poke-nosing or trying to settle or unsettle whatever is/is not there!
Keep it simple..just you and me!

I like that.

ladies feel more confident and relevant if they get to meet thier partners family.
In my opinion,its a step that should only be taken when both partners are willing and have agreed to seal the deal...not before.
It complicates issues especially if they have to part ways sometime down the line.
It creates a false sense of belonging esp.for the lady.some families don't care how many partners their peeps bring home..every girl/boy would always be welcome!
It makes one prone to a lot of unnecessary assessments and judgements...and subjects one to almost unavoidable obligations.
.
.
If you are in a relationship,stay away from each others families..do your things...have fun ...enjoy the relationship while it lasts and if for any reason you have to part ways,it'll be less complicated.
No unnecessary explanations...
No unnecessary judgements..or unnecessary poke-nosing or trying to settle or unsettle whatever is/is not there!
Keep it simple..just you and me!

its not a nigerian thing either.

Mynd_44: Is this even a topic for discussion? Abeg next

Y OVASABI COM DEY WORI U LIKE DIS,STUPOR