pendo89:

Which multinational is this acting so local? Nway let's assume it's real.

Be open and tell ur girl so that she's aware of ur moves.If she's cool headed she will not throw tantrums.
Then go ahead take up the job.You are not marrying her before u start working! are you?
Shine and network very very fast with key people in the multinational. Just make ur presence felt.
In the meantime do not fall into her trap.You will need wisdom to handle her like fake illness,ur on medication etc each time she tries to corner u alone.
It's called maximising the moment by taking advantage of the position, even if it lasts a day. Focus on networking,excellence and exposure nt her.
After uv made ur mark and won few crucial key minds up in the organisation ,drop the bombshell.
Try lines like, your people are trouble some,u have gangster brother,a sis with 4 kids out of wedlock that u need to support and an Aunt who is a witch.
You couldn't share with her because you love her too much to break her heart, but if she doesn't mind a crazy family then she can have you.
Rem to tell her that u are not in good terms with ur gangster bro and he promised to revenge by destroying ur future family. You reported to the cops.

Let's see if she will be ready to marry or fire you.If she does,you have ur built up network to fall back to.

I am nt so sure though. But I would do the same if a man tried that on me.

kitty kat: Multinational my foot!!! I am appalled that ppl think that working in Multinational means u hv arrived. Some multinationals pay 80K/month o. Granted some pay as much as 10M/month but that's very very rare and u wld work ur arse off and put ur life in danger for that paycheck for someone in an early career.

Bros, I hv worked in 3major MUltinationals and there's nothing sooooo fantastic at the of the day unless u hv got a myopic ambition. Afterall there are billionares today, who naver worked for anyone not to talk of a multinational. And if u want to be super rich then a Multinational is not for u. I don't know ur dreams though.

Again why at 32 would u hv nothing doing, must u work for somebody. Why couldn't u use ur skills to start something of ur own. Its cos of ur lack of independence and imagination that u can consider throwing away a 3yr relationship over job promises. U don't even know d womans character or background. With what u have described, hihgest that job will be 500K! And u r ready to jump into d unknown for that. 9ja guys r materialistic too!!! See all their replies, if na woman now, u go finish am.

See OP, u need to be more independent and creative. U shd be able to survive and succeed in any environment not exchanging ur sexuality and freedom for a mere job. What if u get this job, dump ur babe and marry HOUR? Then 6months later d company sinks or u get redundant. Moreover the girls character cld be full of poo.

I will give u a mean advise. Since u passed the test, explain to this lady that u can't don this. I will advise that u record this converstion. It cld be by audio or better still by chat. Email won't work. Tell her u appreciate her kind gestures for helping u get invited for d test but ask her to let u know what she really wants. Make sure she says that, U shd marry her. Then tell her u have a woman and try to plead with her. Save this recording and call for a second meeting. At this meeting u calmly call her bluff. Tell her u wld hv to ask ur pastor, if she agrees, then get ur pastor involved. If she refuses, the last card is to pay her back in kind.

BLACKMAIL her!!! Threaten to report to the authorities abt her advances and tell her u hv proof. I am sure she willl retreat. Once u get the job, put ur exit strategy into action, six months to one year u shd be out cos that babe will messe u up at d slightest opportunity.

Let ur Babe know wats up too?

Finally its ur call. Is the headache worth it?

Idowuogbo:
Pendomania u are surely using d African swagga to reason today... Well said Mama!

bennyraz: sweerie, is the poster trying to tarnish his name by getting a job? In Nigeria today, u get things through ''i know u'' i.e. Links. Without it. u get nothing ok. All because of legitimate money! Yes. It's worth it. To survive in business, u need money. U can't use peanuts to compete with money bags in the business world except if you're an Artisan ok.

sexkillz: As simple as ABC. If you take this job, your life will be quintuplicatedly fccked!

Everyone keeps hammering on the economy. But the main thing here is emotions. Emotions from 3 different individuals. . .

You don't wanna scorn a woman bro. Either the HR or your GF. You seriously don't. . .

A wise person has seen calamity approaching, and proceeded to conceal himself. You don't stand in the way of a moving train, even if 100 million USD is right in front of it. You cannot put your hand in the mouth of a serpent and not get bitten.

There is more to this life than what you will eat and drink. Whatever happened to peace of mind and happiness? Smh @ thinking a lady will watch a man she loves take a job from a woman she knows is interested in marrying him. Smh @ expecting her to understand. Understand what exactly? Smh @ dangling fresh meat in front of a dog, and expecting it not to bite.

If you will for anything accept this job from this lady, END your current relationship. Oil and water can NEVER mix.

A word they say is enough for the wise. . . Walk the fcck away!

pendo89: consequences.
either way he suffers.Find another job then and walk with ur head up high.

malaria: Op accept the job and explain things 4 ur gf if she will understand.u 4 don make small money there b4 the lady will start her problem.life is all about taking risk.to me is ur hardwork that will keep u in the company.if u get there spread ur tentacles work hard and knw the big fishes there.who knws u might find favour there.I wish say na me get this kind opportunity.if God wants u there u go stay.omo no dulling

ATMC: Op question no.1
If she was in this crossroad, will u understand her dating d man nd still loving u at d same time, u fit take dt? Did i hear say u be christian? Smh seriously, u have a problem. Leave dt ur gf to get married to someone cos even in d next 2yrs u won't be ready nd by then she would have been 5yrs with u. I'm so pissed off by d fact dt u even gave this a thought..

Mynd_44: The worst part is the spit

luke4top: @idowuogba- heard ya
@gabriel - nice suggestion
@kitty kat- i have not accepted the offer znd earning some cash is better than none, am into biz what i want to get an office and earn experience also.
@atm - have not accepted yet ..
I just cant tell my GF cos Am still thinking!

luke4top: @idowuogba- heard ya
@gabriel - nice suggestion
@kitty kat- i have not accepted the offer znd earning some cash is better than none, am into biz what i want to get an office and earn experience also.
@atm - have not accepted yet ..
I just cant tell my GF cos Am still thinking!

Amya: Accept her terms. Take the job.

But whatever you do, DO NOT marry her.


And for those saying he should base His decision on emotion rather than his future, you should know they are just dating, not even engaged! For all we know, maybe he won't get married to his girlfriend whether or not he takes the job. This things happen. BTW who would want to get married to a no-job-having loser? Who?

Take the job. Make it all up as you go.

Idowuogbo:
Dat is it! Na economy cus d Gbege mehn.... If I b hin gal, he must to take d job but me go plot give am on d side.

Amya: Accept her terms. Take the job.

But whatever you do, DO NOT marry her.


And for those saying he should base His decision on emotion rather than his future, you should know they are just dating, not even engaged! For all we know, maybe he won't get married to his girlfriend whether or not he takes the job. This things happen. BTW who would want to get married to a no-job-having loser? Who?

Take the job. Make it all up as you go.

slimyem: op,i have come again...
Forget all these people preaching about emotions and blah blah..
The truth is if your jobless situation doesnt change soon,chances are you'll lose your girlfriend...and you'd have lost this shot all because of the twist...which you can work around if you are willing to..
Its either going to be a win-win or lose-lose situation depending on how you play it.
You can have your girlfriend and have that job if you play the game bennyraz's or pendo's style..that's win-win!
And if you go with sexkillz holier than thou emotional and irrational stlye...you are likely to lose all.
Life's a game!
A word is enough for the wise!

bennyraz: At poster, take d job and date her. Let ur GF know ur predicaments.. While dating her, try to understand her weaknesses, study her and again do things to piss her off by making her angry e.t.c in no time, na she go come back kan tell u say she no dey do again. And again,

1. Make ur house very very dirty when she comes visiting. Trust me, women don't like dirty guys

2. Anytime u find urself eating with her, eat with u bare hands.

3. Lastly, the Genotype game! A friend of mine played it on a lady. The laboratory test results were all fake. It showed incompactibility.

ayobase:

Let her first!
Prophet of doom!