Trust me you will make a great writer.. and a good photographer I must confess I read every bit of your writeup your narrative prowess is prodigious and your descriptive power awe-inspiring you should give it a thought.

Good Question I must say.. considering what is happening around the globe. My advice to you is this... what do you really want out of life. Do you want to do business because you think most graduate become jobless and unemployed or is this what your your heart yearn and it is passionate for. Dont be myopic Education is still the key. Nevertheless Education is not restricted to four walls of a classroom anymore. Learning a trade is Education mastering a skill as an apprentice is also an education. So no matter what you decide to do get educated about it get as much information about it because you need it to stand out. Tertiary education is still very worth it but go study what is relevant in our present day life because that is what education is all about and lastly never limit your employment abilities to just one nation learn to look beyond the horizon.

Well I'm going to answer this from the psychology perspective. Most Men make up is to conquer territories that is where the fun is. Most men love resolving puzzles and discovering new things men love complexity but would most time deny it. Keep him hungry and curious.

You know the answer to your question already but you are bringing it to the forum for others to help you think otherwise. Nobody knows you more than you know yourself and the greatest injury one can inflict on self is lying to self. If you think you married or marrying late was done is done. Now this is your reality sit down wait for people's opinion about how you live your life or make the best out of your marriage that is built on God Love respect and Happiness.

Well I dont see the reason why you are sharing this story other than for us to see her in a bad light. Obviously you are still angry because you tried so hard to make fake impression by providing for her above your means to make a statement of who you are really not. On your part you weren't honest to her and didn't not trust her enough to tell her the truth until she discover it by herself this could be the reason she left you. You got to let go and bless God for his blessings upon you and always see the brighter side of things no matter how bad they may seem.

Surely your mind needs rebranding. What do you mean when you say she is "looking at you some how" if your sister was to be wearing a dress with nipples dangling would you have thought otherwise. I guess it has not come to your understanding that she is your sister now by virtue of marriage. Get rid of your lustful thoughts bro and give little room for assumption

That is interesting and expected knowing that your marriage is very young and he finds you attractive... the word is " EXPLORE" enjoy he's your husband there are so many things you could do together and enjoy other than the intercourse. This is the time to be open to each other sexually. A healthy sexual relationship is PARAMOUNT in marriage......