@op....you are very right, am a living example right now!!

And the truth is, it sucks#

400billionman:


Bros, the IQ really low..

Lol, don't get me wrong o, I didn't mean her IQ, I meant her "Q".... as in, Question.

Chaulay1:


And the bolded means what ?

The poster shouldn't be surprised by his wife's Q (Question). It is always normal for women to ask all sorts of questions from their man.

@poster...that's normal with women sha, they can't stand being shared with anyone else but in this case, it's quite surprising it's her daughter!!

Anyway, you just have to let her know she is the best thing that ever happened to you, make her feel secured and tell her u luv her more than you guy's daughter (even if it means lying about that for now)

At the end of the day, she is still just a woman, so don't be surprised by her Q!!

Hmmm.... This Jim Iyke goggles, I fit use am see sambisa right here from lagos o... I hail!

That's not fine... It's a "miss"

Ramsey noah

BackDatAssUp:
What most of you may not know is that Dogaro's emergence as Speaker was a political defeat for the northern cabal and Southwest confusionists.


Dogaro only got 40 APC members out of 200 to emerge winner.

The SW and Northern APC members voted for Femi

Dogaro being a christian from the north will never get the support of his moslem brothers who rather preferred to vote Femi than him.

And is it femi gbajabiamela that you think the reps from the north will vote for? U must be joking

My friend, it seems you don't understand politics yet, the days of religious politics has gone, it is about "personal interest" now.

Incase you don't know, both of them that contested are Christians.

My dear, stop acting all bitchy because there is actually nothing u can do about it. No matter how much you try, it seems ur man has feelings for that gal and the more you try to drive him away from her, you will only end up pushing him to her, trust me.

Why don't you try this, be ur humble self, ignore whatever is going on btw them, just act normal, give him some time and show a blind eye to their "runs". if he luvs you, he will soon realise his misbehaviours and come back to you but if he continues with her, then u need to start thinking of moving on...

#just keep ur cool and don't act batch cos u can't make someone stay in luv with you no matter how you try, that decision is for their heart to make

Now, that's what I call a real man. Tell the stupid Spanish embassy...

I will call my son Jamal.

Because beauty alone can't make me stay. U got to know one thing, when men decide to be caring and faithful to a particular woman, it is never because of her beauty.

A man normally will remain Faithfull to his woman for other reasons apart from beauty and sex. Take note, beauty attracts us to you bt it won't make us stay and good sex always makes us come for more but that doesn't mean we shall stay!!

So rather, you should be asking beautiful women what do they have to offer to a man to make him stay because their beauty alone just isn't what makes us stay...

1stCitizen:


Women are programmed to like bad boys. Ever heard the saying that " Nice boys get no pushie"

Well, then let her Live her life with her "bad boy"

So, your friend rejected the good guy in her life and even fought her parents to marry this "chronic-immatured-womanizer" as her husband, and now she is not happy right...??

What do you really want us to advise ur friend?

Why do women leave the best man for the job for monsters....??

I am short of advice for this ur friend, she too annoy me sef....

Summarise this your piece pls, it's too long and I can't really get your reasons why you said Dangote is trying get to create disharmony between these communities...

He is a handsome dude but maybe slightly over-hyped.....that's because of Nigerian ladies poor mentality of always wanting to date/marry men from rich or prosperous political families.

thesame applies for Nigerian guys/men and how they hover around Zahra buhari!

#forgodsake.....don't we see people daily that are far more handsome and beautiful than yusuf and zahra buhari? but we ignore them right, just because their dad ain't the president abi....

#Naija mentality...

women are really crazy#

Lesson: neva you Bleep ur neighbour into pregnancy!!

Ur coursin should give the gal a time frame to make up her mind whether it is him or the guy, bt from my own personal experience in these kind of cases, the gal is likely down for the other guy than ur cousin for now, so let him cut his loss and move on...

@poster, btw are u really into booze...? as I, ella-"booz"....? Lolz

@Poster

Some of this your advice are capable let of driving some women from their matrimonial homes o.... Atimes, women will have to be flexible in matrimony and not rigid all in the name of these ur principles.

But why all this unnecessary forming from ladies like this... It just doesn't make sense. For a guy like me, if u form as a lady, then I have no option than to free you... and even if am in luv with you, wetin I go do since u dey for for me??

No big deal o, I wakkaa commot, na who nor fine... !

My dear, it's called adultery and it's one of the biggest sins...

#stay with ur man and work things out bt if u are hell bent on leaving him, then do so peacefully, u don't have to sleep around like a hooker, it's just sex, nothing else!!

NB: going through ur former threads, I can see you have been harbouring this evil idea for a while now, be careful with your thoughts and actions o....

First thing is, reconcile back with your gal,

secondly, find a way to organise and go through with the marriage with her and never mind whatever insults or curses the mum hauls at you.

Finally, get a job and man up, you ain't a kid anymore but a daddy. You need to live with hour gal and baby as a family.

#Note:, After you marry her, her mum has no more control over her again so don't bother yourself with her present insults and initial gragra

@Op.......sales or marketing, pls differentiate.

Thanks

And what is bad if your hubby wants to take another wife, is it the end of the world for you....?

chymystique:
You are BlaCk not even Dark complexioNed @ OP.


#NoOffence

my dear, we Africans really are BLACK not dark. Maybe it is the nature of our skin colours nowadays that isn't as dark as before due to many factors that is gradually making us forget that fact.

#infact, to be honest, i wish i was dark and not lightskinned

When will Dangote do this....

Zoharariel:


If there's any refuge in Allah; then Iraq, Syria, Yemen, Afghanistan, Libya, would have been transformed into Paradise.

You sure look like a player BTW.

Dude, the advice was for her and not you

btw what concerns you or the topic at hand with my looks, na wa o....!!

@rahymat......seek refuge in Allah