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TV/Movies / Re: Movie Series That You Enjoyed And You Recommend by ace1(m): 1:40am On Nov 30, 2013
New girl, Boondocks, American dad, family guy, real husbands of hollywood, suits, newsroom, madmen and alotta others
Webmasters / Re: Popular Ogbonge Blog Crisis: Lessons For Bloggers by ace1(m): 9:39am On Nov 28, 2013
kay29000: All these people making noise about Wordpress, and there is not one wordpress Blogger making significant money with his/her blog in Nigeria that people know. At least on Blogger you have linda ikeji, ladun, ogbonge, and me- kaysrapzone dot com. lol

Just don't do anything illegal with your blog and you won't have any problem. I have been on Blogger since 2008.

just so u know, notjustok, bellanaija, vanguard newspaper and a couple of other popular newspaper sites are powered by wordpress
Webmasters / Re: Jquery Menu Like The One On Emirates Website by ace1(m): 10:52am On Sep 03, 2013
So Finally found a way through after reading a little more. You can view it from this link http://jsfiddle.net/DmSxE/1/

Here's the updated codes. Please, if there are other and better ways to do this, I'll appreciate if it will be shared. A lot of people can also learn from this. I'll also like someone to optimize it according to best practice.



<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Transitional//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-transitional.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<head>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8" />
<title>Emirates Menu Attempt</title>
<script src="jquery-1.10.2.min.js"></script>
<script type="text/javascript">
$(document).ready(function(){
var bannerOverlay = $(".banner_nav > li .overlays"wink,
banner_li = $(".banner_nav > li"wink;
bannerOverlay.hide();

banner_li.click(function(){
var $this = $(this),
siblings = $this.siblings(".banner_nav > li"wink,
$lefty = $this.find(".overlays"wink;

siblings.find(".overlays"wink.hide(function(){
$(this).css("left","0"wink;
});

$lefty.show(1, function(){
$lefty.animate({left: -580});
$(".overlays"wink.css("opacity","1"wink;
});

$("div.close_div"wink.click(function(e){
var myLIparent = $(this).parents(".overlays"wink;
myLIparent.css("opacity","0"wink;
myLIparent.css("left","0"wink;
e.stopPropagation();
});

});

});
</script>
<style>
#banner_wrap {
margin: 20px 0 0 0;
}

#banner {
height: auto;
border: 1px solid #f4a76a;
width: 900px;
height: 350px;
margin: auto;
position: relative;
z-index: 5;
overflow: hidden;
}
#banner_menu {
width: 260px;
position: absolute;
right: 20px;
top: -15px;
height: 344px;
background:#EA4706;
padding: 20px;
color: #FFF;
}
.banner_nav {
list-style:none;
padding:0px;
margin: 20px 0 0 0px;
overflow: hidden;
}
.banner_nav > li {
line-height: 30px;
text-transform: uppercase;
font-size: 1em;
float: none;
}

.banner_nav > li > a {
color: #FFFFFF;
display: block;
font-size: 0.8em;
padding: 0 15px;
text-decoration: none;
}

.banner_nav > li > a:hover {
background: none;
text-decoration: underline;
}

.banner_nav > li .overlays {
position: absolute;
z-index: 25;
width: 535px;
background-color: #fff;
top: 15px;
left: 0;
border: 1px solid #e1e1e1;
height: 318px;
padding: 20px 20px 10px 20px;
}

.banner_nav > li .overlays .col_3 {
width: 167px;
margin-right: 10px;
border-right: 1px solid #eee;
float: left;
height: 290px;
line-height: 1;
text-transform: none;
}
/*--- VERTCAL MENU ---*/
.banner_nav > li .overlays .col_3 #v_menu {
list-style:none;
padding:0px;
margin: 0px;
}
.banner_nav > li .overlays .col_3 #v_menu > li {
line-height: 30px;
text-transform: uppercase;
width: 166px;
font-size: 0.875em;
float: none;
}
.banner_nav > li .overlays .col_3 #v_menu > li a {
display: block;
padding: 0 15px;
color: #696565;
text-decoration: none;
}
.banner_nav > li .overlays .col_3 #v_menu > li a:hover {
color: #696565;
background: none;
text-decoration: underline;
}

.close_div {
color: #000;
}

</style>
</head>
<body>
<div id="banner_wrap">
<div id="banner"><img src="banner.jpg" width="900" height="350" alt="efghn" />
<div id="banner_menu">
<div class="banner_vert_menu">
<ul class="banner_nav">
<li> <a href="#">Airlines</a>
<div class="overlays">
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="clear"></div>
<div class="close_div"><a href="#">Close</a></div>
</div>
</li>


<li> <a href="#">Airlines 2</a>
<div class="overlays">
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations 2</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel 2</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel 2</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel 2</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="clear"></div>
<div class="close_div"><a href="#">Close</a></div>
</div>
</li>
</ul>
</div>
</div>
</div>
</div>
</body>
</html>


Webmasters / Re: Jquery Menu Like The One On Emirates Website by ace1(m): 8:06pm On Aug 27, 2013
So nobody can help?
Webmasters / Jquery Menu Like The One On Emirates Website by ace1(m): 4:19pm On Aug 26, 2013
Good day house,

I just started learning javascript and jquery. I've read a couple of books and watched a couple of tutorial videos but I'm not well grounded in it yet. Please how do i achieve the menu on the right, positioned above the banner on www.emirates.com? I want to achieve this same thing just that the content of the sliding div would be different.

I've tried coding it but still not getting it.

I want the div with a class of overlay to slide from left to right just as it is on www.emirates.com instead of toggling down
When the div with the overlay class is active/visible and another menu li is clicked, I want the already open div.overlay to close first before the corresponding div.overlay of the li that was clicked becomes active
I also don't want the div.overlay to hide when its clicked. I figured it's cos the li holding the div.overlay function has the "show_hide" class. I'll add a close button and div.overlay should only hide when the close button is clicked or when another menu li item is clicked.

Please, how do i fix all these

These are the codes:

<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Transitional//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-transitional.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<head>
<meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8" />
<title>Emirates Menu Attempt</title>
<script src="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jquery/1.10.2/jquery.min.js"></script>
<script type="text/javascript">
$(document).ready(function(){
$(".banner_nav li .overlay"wink.hide();
$(".show_hide"wink.show();

$('.show_hide').click(function(){
$(this).find(".overlay"wink.slideToggle();
});
});
</script>
<style>
#banner_wrap {
margin: 20px 0 0 0;
}
#banner {
height: auto;
border: 1px solid #f4a76a;
width: 900px;
margin: auto;
position: relative;
z-index: 5;
}
#banner_menu {
width: 260px;
position: absolute;
right: 20px;
top: -15px;
height: 344px;
background:#EA4706;
padding: 20px;
color: #FFF;
}
.banner_nav {
list-style:none;
padding:0px;
margin: 20px 0 0 0px;
}
.banner_nav > li {
line-height: 30px;
text-transform: uppercase;
font-size: 1em;
float: none;
}
.banner_nav > li a {
display: block;
padding: 0 15px;
color: #fff;
text-decoration: none;
}
.banner_nav > li a:hover {
background: none;
text-decoration: underline;
}
.banner_nav > li .overlay {
display:none;
position: absolute;
z-index: 25;
width: 535px;
background-color: #fff;
top: 0;
left: -580px;
border: 1px solid #e1e1e1;
height: 330px;
padding: 20px;
}
.banner_nav li .overlay .col_3 {
width: 167px;
margin-right: 10px;
border-right: 1px solid #eee;
float: left;
height: 290px;
line-height: 1;
text-transform: none;
}
/*--- VERTCAL MENU ---*/
.banner_nav li .overlay .col_3 #v_menu {
list-style:none;
padding:0px;
margin: 0px;
}
.banner_nav li .overlay .col_3 #v_menu > li {
line-height: 30px;
text-transform: uppercase;
width: 166px;
font-size: 0.875em;
float: none;
}
.banner_nav li .overlay .col_3 #v_menu > li a {
display: block;
padding: 0 15px;
color: #696565;
}
.banner_nav .overlay .col_3 #v_menu > li a:hover {
color: #696565;
background: none;
text-decoration: underline;
}
.show_hide {
display:none;
}
</style>
</head>
<body>
<div id="banner_wrap">
<div id="banner"><img src="banner.jpg" width="900" height="350" alt="efghn" />
<div id="banner_menu">
<div class="banner_vert_menu">
<ul class="banner_nav">
<li class="show_hide"> <a href="#">Airlines</a>
<div class="overlay">
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="clear"></div>
</div>
</li>
<li class="show_hide"> <a href="#">Security</a>
<div class="overlay">
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="clear"></div>
</div>
</li>
<li class="show_hide"> <a href="#">Hotels</a>
<div class="overlay">
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="clear"></div>
</div>
</li>
<li class="show_hide"> <a href="#">Taxes</a>
<div class="overlay">
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="col_3">
<ul id="v_menu">
<li> <a href="#">Destinations</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Group Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Family Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Corporate Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Private Jet Travel</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Stopover</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Global Explorer</a></li>
<li> <a href="#">Why Book Online?</a></li>
</ul>
</div>
<div class="clear"></div>
</div>
</li>
</ul>
</div>
</div>
</div>
</div>
</body>
</html>
Webmasters / Re: Help With CSS Navigation by ace1(m): 7:04pm On Jul 27, 2013
Thank you very much. I appreciate it
Webmasters / Help With CSS Navigation by ace1(m): 4:36pm On Jul 27, 2013
Please, How do I achieve this kind of navigation

Romance / 15 Key Test To Show If You Are Ready For Love Or Not by ace1(m): 2:41pm On Jul 13, 2013
Don't know if this has been posted here before buh came across it and thought it would be nice if I share it


Everyday men and women enter into relationships and marriages HOPING for the best only to be astonished when they realize that the person responsible for ruining their marriage or sabotaging their relationship was the man or woman in the mirror. They were unprepared for love… but they had no idea. Are you ready for love? Find out by taking this critically appraised self-examination.
Examine Yourself…
When it comes to love, sex, relationships and marriage, most men and women take the position, “Ready or not, here I come!” They will dive into a relationship or marriage with little or absolutely no preparation. At best they are drawing straws. At worst they are rolling the dice. The statistics prove that the majority of men and women who gamble at love will eventually lose. Don’t wager with your love life.

In II Corinthians 13:5, we are commanded to examine ourselves. This self-examination is crucial if you intend on finding and experiencing True Love. This examination entails 15 key tests to help you and a potential mate determine if you are actually ready for love. The test starts now!

1. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TRUE LOVE IS?
“I love you!” “I love you to!” Most people who express those heartfelt words have no idea what True Love is neither the responsibility that goes along with it. I regularly meet men and women who claim they have been in love three or more times in their life. They met someone, fell in love, broke up with them and repeated that sequence of events with numerous lovers. One woman told me she had been in love with eight different men. She married and divorced four of them. What they didn’t know about love is that True Love never ends. If what they had were True Love, it wouldn’t have ended. They’d still be together, (See I Corinthians 13). How does one define True Love and who sets the standard? The Lord God defines what True Love is and He alone set the standard for love. It is only through His Word can we learn what True Love is. If you obtained your definition or interpretation about love from any source, you have been misled, (See I Thessalonians 4:9).

2. ARE YOU ABLE TO FORGIVE?
You are not ready to be in a relationship until you are able to forgive those who have offended or hurt you. If you are the type of person who can hold a grudge or harbor resentment or hard feelings, pull yourself off the market! You are a danger to yourself and to your potential mate, (See Mark 11:24-26 and Matthew 18:21-22).

3. HAVE YOU EXAMINED YOUR FLESH?
I frequently meet men and women who were sexually active in times past, dreadfully, many of them contracted sexually transmitted diseases. But because they were classified by medical science as being asymptomatic, (which means they had no symptoms) they had no idea of their alarming dilemma. I could share countless heart-gripping horror stories of husbands and wives who ended up infecting their spouses with…

• HIV/AIDS                                
• (HPV) Human Papilloma Virus
• Gonorrhea                              
• Hepatitis B                            
• Herpes Simplex Virus
• Chlamydia
• Syphilis
• Trichomoniasis

If you were sexually active in the past and have not taken a battery of tests for sexually transmitted diseases, pull yourself off the market. Even if you have no symptoms to speak and even if you practiced safe sex, GET TESTED! If you fail or refuse to do so, you are guilty of jeopardizing the physical safety of another human being. God forbid, but what if you did contract the HIV/AIDS virus, Chlamydia or HPV but are asymptomatic?

4. HAVE YOU LEARNED THE ART OF COMMUNICATION?
We are literally inundated with books, DVDs, CDs, therapists and marriage counselors attempting to help troubled couples learn how to talk to each other. An art they should have learned prior to saying, “I do!” Here’s what they didn’t learn before exchanging wedding vows, but you must:

• Proper listening skills
• How to respect another person’s opinion or point of view
• Talking and communicating non argumentatively
• Admitting when you are wrong
• Saying, “I’m sorry,” when the moment requires
• How to disagree honorably
• How to speak the truth in love
• When to remain silent
• How to diffuse tense moments

5. DO YOU RESPECT THE DIFFERENCES OF THE SEXES?
This should be a no-brainer! However, many men and women enter into relationships and marriages with no concept that male and females are different species. They either fail or refuse to honor our (male – female) uniqueness. If you only see things from a man’s perspective or from a woman’s point of view, you are not at all ready for love. And you won’t be ready until the day comes when you can respect the differences of the opposite sex without grumbling, bickering or backbiting.

6. ARE YOU HABOURING ILL FEELING TOWARD THE OPPOSITE SEX?
I once had a woman fire a verbal barrage of indignant words at me after I advised her to pull herself off the market. She had been molested as a child and blamed the entire male gender for her traumatic experience. In spite of her openly detestable view of all men, she insisted on seeking a husband.

Being that she is an attractive woman, she will no doubt find a man who doesn’t comprehend the magnitude of her bitterness. The divorce courts have a constant stream of couples who split for no other reason than one of them held on to deep-rooted animosity against the opposite sex.

If you are harboring Ill feelings toward the opposite sex, you must resolve your issue(s) before dating, courting or entering into a marriage covenant. By not doing so, you make yourself become the prime ingredient in a recipe for marital failure. Like mishandled sulphuric acid, your ill feelings will eventually spill over and burn your spouse, (See Hebrews 12:15).

7. DO YOU HAVE A TEMPER?
If you are prone to temper tantrums, explosive bursts of anger or harmful emotional outbursts, please pull yourself off the market! Make no mistake about it; you are not ready for love! Your disposition will surely be your courting or marital demise, (See Proverbs 22:24-25 and Proverbs 29:22).

8. DO YOU HAVE SOUL TIE?
A soul tie is when you have feelings for an ex boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, fantasy lover or past sex partner. If you long for a person, secretly wish you were with them, fantasize or daydream about them, or think about them sexually, pull yourself off the market! You are not ready to be in love with another person until you sever that soul tie, (See II Corinthians 10:5).

9. DO YOU HAVE ANY UNRESOLVED ISSUES? Issue such as…

• Unforgiveness
• Drug/Alcohol Addictions
• Secret Sins
• Child Support
• Criminal Issues
• Pornography Addictions
• Paternity Fraud
• Psychological Issues
• Baby’s Momma Drama
• Divorce issues
• Jealousy Issues
• Current Relationship Issues
• Control issues
• Abuse Issues
• Manipulation Issues

If so, pull yourself off the market until you get them resolved. Unresolved issues almost always come back to haunt you.

10. DO YOU HAVE UNREALISTIC MARITAL EXPECTATIONS?
More spouses have ended up in the divorce court because they held on to unrealistic expectations before they married. For example, he expected they were going to have sex everyday, two and three times a day. Or, she expected that her husband was going to worship the ground she walked on and treat her like she was the Queen of Sheba and Prince and Princess of Monaco.

When things don’t turn out as they dreamed or fantasized, these people become disappointed and eventually abandon, defraud or divorce their spouses. The way to insure that you don’t have unrealistic expectations is to talk to happily married couples. Ones who have been married for ten years or more. Find out from them the ebb and flow and various nuances of the married life. No offense, but you cannot obtain this vital information from single people, disgruntled couples or from bitter divorcees.

11. DO YOU HAVE A STRONG SPIRITUAL FOUNDATIONS?
Every marriage will face challenges, but the ones that stand the test of time are the ones in which both spouses are rooted and grounded in the Word of God and prayer, (See Luke 6:47-49). If your spiritual foundation is unstable, put the brakes on love and get your footing firmly established.

12. CAN YOU RECOGNIZE THE NUMEROUSE PRE-MARITAL PITFALLS AND LOVE, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP BOOBY TRAPS?
If not, you must pull yourself off the market immediately! There are too many snares for you to take a chance and hope that things work out for the best, (See II Timothy 2:26). Pervasive snares such domestic violence, sexually transmitted diseases, paternity fraud, dating abuse, marital fraud, stalking and spousal murder.

Don’t take the path traveled by most men and women, which is to stick their heads in the sand and act is if these things don’t exist. Or the other worn out path, which is the false belief that if you attend church you are immune to these things.

One of the prime reasons divorce and domestic violence is so prevalent in the church is because most Christians have received improper or no training at all in these critical areas. They knew nothing about the snares, booby traps and pitfalls until it was too late! Can you recognize when a potential mate is wearing a mask?

Can you identify the various sex traps? Are you able to discern when someone is attempting to lure you into an abusive relationship?

Are you able to identify paternity fraud predators or females shopping for disposable dads? If you cannot, you are not properly trained to reign in the area of love, sex, relationships or marriage.

13. DO YOU UNDERSTAND AND HONOUR THE MARRIAGE COVENANT?
In a society rift with divorce and children born to single mothers, many men and women have a distorted view of the marriage covenant. Before you proceed with love, getting an understanding of the marriage covenant is a must for both you and any potential spouse. The best place to acquire this vital information is in pre-marital training.

14. HAVE YOU TAKEN ANY PRE-MARITAL TRAINING?
This is a critical step to having a successful and vibrant a marriage. People who skip or reject this training process are not serious about having a love that lasts. At minimum, here are the areas that must be covered:

• Understanding what True love is
• Understanding and honoring the marriage covenant
• Communications 101
• Conflict resolutions 101
• Understand a man’s needs
• Understanding a woman’s needs
• The dangers of being unequally yoked
• The duties of the husband
• The duties of the wife
• Recognizing love, sex and relationship booby traps
• Recognizing pre-marital pitfalls

15. ARE YOU WILLING TO PARTICIPATE IN PRE MARITAL COUNSELLING?
A person who is not willing to engage in pre-marital counseling with a potential spouse is literally a walking time bomb. Their unwillingness or refusal clearly reveals that they have rejected the Written Word of God, (See Proverbs 1:20-33 and Proverbs 15:12,22). That makes them a dangerous person. Never proceed with marriage plans with a person who is unwilling to participate in pre-marital counseling. Never! Whew, you can take a much needed breather! The self-examination is finally over, how did you fare? Are you ready for love? Or, do you need to make some adjustments first before proceeding forward?
http://deloveguruchat..co.uk/2013/04/15-key-test-to-show-if-you-are-ready.html?m=0
Phones / Re: MTN Reviews Call Tariff: Call Rates As Low As 10kobo Across All Networks by ace1(m): 10:52pm On Jun 24, 2013
jp philips:

i am surprised you are complaining of MTN's network in ph, i will understand if you say elsewhere but i know that PH is a strong hold of MTN in Nigeria.

we were amongst the early people that receive any upgrade or innovation on MTN's network. as for service quality, well, i may be prejudicial because of my experience with other networks.
as of 3yrs ago, i realized that with a good phone, you get full bars of network anywhere you are in PH.

it may not count for much but as a telecom novice, it still amazes me. i use glo and airtel too in ph, though my airtel was a freebie that came with a new phone, inside my house, the airtel network was just 2bars while mtn remained full.

My Glo doesn't make calls when it rains, please im using this medium to report to the appropriate authorities and if there is something you guys did that i have not done, kindly fill me in.

Most times my glo number calls me while im calling someone else. i don't know if my line has a problem but this is a fact, i hear myself while calling another person, i mean what kinda network is that? please any glo user in ph should tell me what to do. Its not like i so much love glo but they have wider network coverage in remote areas, that is why i have it but the BS i get is terrible.

Has any of you had a 500 naira credit balance and glo tells you to recharge your account? i don't know if its a national problem but i notice it a lot in ph.

glo sends numbers like 4040, 7078, 3038, to be calling me as they like for advertorial, especially when i am busy, this is so so so annoying, how can 4040 call me 4 times in a day telling me a cancer campaign mike adenuga is doing in his village?

when i ignore the calls, they will resort to text messages, i delete messages like mad from my phone.

glo will ask me; do you want to look beautiful? send one thing to another and i will be like, at this age?
do you want to get ssce test score? silly silly annoying stuffs.
improve your sex life? send one thing to one number, haba! like glo wants to take my wife, i tire o!

my dear, i don't care about MTN, Glo or whoever with funny names but glo is not worth it in portharcourt, MTN gives an unbeatable browsing experience, at least in ph, for my monthly internet subscription i lost just 2hrs in a whole month to network failure.

i will advice you reconsider MTN especially in portharcourt. i cant say for outside ph because the last time i was in warri, the 3.5g i usually get in PH disappeared like i committed an offense, to load ordinary Nairaland was a challenge, MTN really dealt with me, I lost 9days from my monthly internet subscription due to that mess.

Is data roll over really working with MTN? i wont mind rolling over unused data due to network failure, that 30days expiry is annoying when i lose some days to network failure.

I get the silly messages from Glo too but you're making me believe you work with MTN, or one of their distributors or marketers. The same MTN I have to dial a number like 6 times before the call gets through. Its either "number is not reachable, number is switched off, number is incorrect". Talk about data service, crap. For about a month now, whenever I'm in Rumuola area, I have to switch to EDGE cos 3G is crappy. When MTN head correct, they're almost unrivalled but that happens only 15% of all time
Phones / Re: MTN Reviews Call Tariff: Call Rates As Low As 10kobo Across All Networks by ace1(m): 8:12am On Jun 18, 2013
moodswing: The only people who say MTN is not the best network are those who survive on freebies.

MTN got the best network infrastructure, call rate, and range of value added services.

Aside MTN which other network have conference calling?.

Abeg MTN is for business/serious minded people and not those who want's the whole world given to them for spending 10naira daily.

I beg to disagree sir. Empty Hen are unreliable. How would u explain the poor network, dropped calls, poor customer service etc. The list is unending. When it comes to data service, MTN is a no go area. I had problems with my line once cos MTN kept deducting my credit even when my phone was off. I went to their customer care centre at Rumuokwuta and guess what I was told, there's no network to check what the problem of my line is. All network have their issues, but MTN is just like PDP
Webmasters / Re: Nairaland Used Which Cms? by ace1(m): 2:12pm On Apr 12, 2013
I think Nairaland is running on a custom CMS built by the Nairaland Team
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Free Ad Promo For Web Designers On Nairaland: Round 2 by ace1(m): 3:59pm On Mar 31, 2013
@Seun Thanks 4 the ad
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Free Ad Promo For Web Designers On Nairaland: Round 2 by ace1(m): 12:34pm On Mar 30, 2013
Seun: @incometrader: @ace1: Your text is too tiny. I can't read the words on your ad at all. Please make it legible so we can accept it.

Worked on that, modified the post and uploaded it
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Free Ad Promo For Web Designers On Nairaland: Round 2 by ace1(m): 10:59pm On Mar 29, 2013

Webmasters / Re: Website Designer Needed by ace1(m): 12:15am On Mar 28, 2013
I can help with getting your domain name and host. Also, I can help you install wordpress and create a custom theme for your wordpress blog.
Webmasters / Re: Free Advertising Promo For Web Designers On Nairaland by ace1(m): 6:30am On Mar 23, 2013
Saw this late. Just seeing it now. Would have entered for this competition but my website's in under construction mode. Working on a new one
Career / Re: What If You Were In "Oga At The Top's" Shoe? by ace1(m): 10:57am On Mar 16, 2013
"I'm sorry, I'm not very sure about the website address for now but when I confirm it, we'll make it public."

If the presenters insist I say it, I'll just say
"Like I said before, I'm not very sure so I can't give out information I'm not sure of"

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Gaming / Re: 'My Oga At The Top' Flash Game by ace1(m): 9:55am On Mar 16, 2013
itsmayiela: am jus sick and tired of this "my oga at d top" comments. Can't som1 mak mstaks on an aired program and be 4given?
Pls,lets alow dat man 2 hav a litle peace b4 he wil get sacked by his Oga At The Top......

I keep wondering why he wasnt asked who is his oga at the BOTTOM

I think the reason people are jumping him is because he tried to play smart when obviously he didn't know the website. Do you think all this would have happened if he just said the truth "I'm not very sure about the web address but I'll confirm and it will be made known to the public" (Not like its the best way out though). People would have still talked, but it wouldn't have lasted more than a day.

This "My Oga at the Top" will make the list of most trending topics of 2013
Gaming / Re: 'My Oga At The Top' Flash Game by ace1(m): 9:10am On Mar 16, 2013
I guess wats remaining now is a Nollywood movie title "My Oga at the Top, Dats all" or a new brand from Jas Hennessy & Co. Named "ww dot Hennessy DC"

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Music/Radio / Do Music With Content by ace1(m): 12:19am On Mar 11, 2013
I just got the broadcast on bbm. After reading it, I'm sharing it with you guys


PLEASE READ:
U wann' be a musician
or call Urself one;
Have U asked Urself Y!?
or do U just wann' add up to the growing list of Nuisances in the bloody industry;
in the name of "wanting to make it big"
- na so e Easy reach!?

For those of U who think U're already "big" in the Biz!
What's Ur content!?
What have U offered society besides a barrage of mindless, pointless words which either make no meaning
or is always about one level of promiscuity or the other!
Some can't even make a complete sentence correctly & then they'll plead
"Poetic License"! - Really!?
Wetin na... something dey too much sometimes na! As they say:
if U ain't got anything good to say;
SHUT Ur WordOrgan & let us just enjoy a producer's prowess; Stop messing up a producer's work of art (sometimes o) with the hopeless words that just run through Ur head & outa Ur mouth!
Its because of idiots like U that this generation is headed nowhere!

Look it doesn't matter who made the song; if its Pointless, its useless!
It should be trashed & not forced down the ears & eyes of the helpless, innocent, confused & mediocre-minded public!

Okay U're just giving 'em what they want to hear ba!? Shebi yesterday was Mothers' day - when U small, how many times Ur mama let U put finger inside fire because U like as e dey shine!?

Get some honor;
Educate the public;
Look back & See Y exactly We will always remember Fela, Majek Fashek, Bob Marley, Michael Jackson & a host of others
while each album U throw at us fizzles away the very second a new tune is posted on the next "mindless" blog site!

I don't mean to offend anyone,
but if U're by this post
offended in any way,

- - - May Thor in all his malevolence acquaint thee with a sufficient dose of lightening! ... na U I dey particularly talk to! >:O

Re-BC if U like 3-|
I just think its time we sanitized the music industry before we completely lose its true essence!

@EPS_Sparkle for Top_IQ | @MusicMilitants

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Romance / Re: If Your Ex Sends " You Will Never Find Someone Like Me Again" by ace1(m): 10:49pm On Mar 10, 2013
free2ryhme:
If your ex sends u an sms saying"u will never find someone like me again" wat would be yo response in 5 seconds

Thank you. Don't plan to n Please stop dreaming
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Is 8 Years Old Today by ace1(m): 11:50am On Mar 10, 2013
HectorTroy:
According to seun and him babe muki

Hahahahahahahahaha... Aint nobody got time for dat
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Is 8 Years Old Today by ace1(m): 11:39am On Mar 10, 2013
Annie2gud: Seun i am expecting a plate of Hot Banga soup,with solid catfish and starch as a thank you patronage.please dont precipitate sha,3rd to comment!!!

Chaii... Confirmed Deltan. Make it 2 plates, I'm interested
Family / Re: Describe Your Mom In One Word by ace1(m): 10:48am On Mar 10, 2013
Freiburger: irreplaceable
Webmasters / Re: Web Masters: How Much Will You Charge To Manage A Company's Website! by ace1(m): 4:34pm On Mar 09, 2013
databoy247:

Basic rates outside Nigeria is about $10 an hour for a professional, so you should be looking at about $300 a month...divide that by half and that should do for the Nigerian Market

Thanks
Webmasters / Re: Web Masters: How Much Will You Charge To Manage A Company's Website! by ace1(m): 2:11pm On Mar 09, 2013
So was offered to do Banner changes, gallery uploads, articles and basic admin...every week. Abt 30 hrs per months. How much should I charge 4 dis?
Politics / Re: Explosions In Borno After Jonathan's Visit by ace1(m): 10:22am On Mar 09, 2013
Solozzo: Jonathan has shown he wishes to inflame Nigeria more. He granted amnesty to nigerdelta terrorists, paid them huge sums of money and sent them to overseas for training. Why is he fhreatening BH with punishment? What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

It was a missed opportunity for Jonathan to win northern votes : he would have used the opportunity to unite, integrate the nation and show his peaceful nature if he had promised amnesty in exchange for peaceful cooperation from all persons involved in the unrest. BH has virtually conceded defeat.

After all Ojukwu who caused the death of over 2 million Nigerians as a result of the Biafra declaration was granted amnesty -by a northern president incidentally.

Jonathan please review and grant amnesty to BH in the spirit of nationhood and begin the process of reconstruction and rehabilitation. No victor, no vanquished. After all the negligence of govt, poverty and suffering in Nigeria may have led to Islamic terrorism. Why no terrorists in Dubai....

Seriously?? shocked I never knew we had intelligent people like you in Nigeria (Sarcasm)
Romance / Re: What Can Make You Fall In Love? by ace1(m): 10:31pm On Mar 07, 2013
I'm a sucker for girls with a good heart, good looks, good sense of humour and intelligence. Also, if she likes the same things I like.
Romance / Re: Before Calling Your Boyfriend A Cheat Read This! by ace1(m): 4:15pm On Mar 07, 2013
phaya: It doesn't sound as genuine as the GIRLS own. WHO RUN THE WORLD!!! wink wink wink

Women run the world by proxy. So I heard that "Women can never run the world until they can walk on the street with a bald head and a beer gut and still think they are sexy"

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