I am experienced. So I will tell you.
You did not give too much detail, so it will be difficult to advice you properly, but in general I will tell you the following

first Your spouse must be worth it. she has to be someone with a good heart that deserves your sacrifice. yes it is a sacrifice you will be making to disobey your parent and stand for what is right

You should be marry her not just for the sake of love, but for your conscience and what is right.

If you get married, keep the both of your family members far from your family. they can visit but with restrictions

Nobody can tell the future, if you marry her or someone else, nobody can tell the outcome. so do what is right for your conscience and live with it. most importantly ask God to help you.

This is one of the few times am forced to comment on nairaland.
We have a land so blessed with solid minerals, but we chose to lock these minerals under the soil and let our people suffer hunger.

"Mining sector can become..." what nonesense, Make it be. Do it. open your land to investors, create policy and programs to lure investors in.

Today mining is under the exclusive list of the Federal Government, WHY? Federal Govt. should free the states to control these solid mineral resources, give the governors targets to turn out revenues from the minerals on their soil. Let the governors go and woo investors and make money

More can be said, but I will stop here..

daniska3yaro:
Dear dangote,I feel sad whenever I hear you lost is certain amount of money in billions,dangote come make I show u the way,I mean make I register you for m3 nigeria,.You shall recover everything you loss.

guy relax oh. If Dangote join and he provide help of like 2 billion naira. When he ask for he own help, He will collapse the entire system

popez:
Femi falana is an embarrassment to common sense. Okay let's assume the judges received bribes,why were their doors and gates hammered down? What were the DSS officers even doing with sledge hammers? Then again,is bribery case not under the purview of the police,are those judges security threats? These are questions this shameless man ought to be asking instead pronouncing the judges guilty even before they have been charged. Sometimes I really wonder how falz copes with this man. Smh.

yes oh, Corruption at that level of the Judiciary is a National Security treat to our continual existence as a nation

Very true. But can we confirm for sure there is a search for oil in the NE?

Good to Dangote Group.

Our politicians prefer to loot our billions, transfer them to foreign accounts to cool off, and buy properties abroad. If they loot and reinvest those monies in our country and create jobs, maybe everyone will be too busy with a booming economy to worry about the loots.

To all those complaining about Dangote's monopoly, we have the natural resources in Nigeria, you dont want to tap into it, you do not want anybody to tap too.

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