So the koko of the matter is - be with someone that appreciates you.

I dont really understand.
If u wanna ask her out, then do it.

She can only say no.

LOL.
Oga o the people on this site are something else.

But if thats the case (@ poster), then call her and explain to her that she is the only one for u.

Well, if i saw it, i would be a bit weary of him cause why is he bringing a condom to me.
But on the other hand, if he produced it when we need it then its all good.

Come on now boys and girls, lets play nice.

efuah:

You're right dear, my roommate used to say; We always need to respect the decisions people make out of some situations, dnt critisize too much or pass judgement too early. . .wait until u find yourself in that same situation n see if u won't make the same mistake or take the same measures. . . even worse than the person did! Never say never!

Amen to that ma sista - testify!

I say its a brilliant idea cause i post some damn good stuff on this site and i nominate maself.

Well, if he was the only guy and we were stranded on an island - then its all good.
Cause u know we cant have down there rotting now and it has to be serviced from time to time so i will just manage him - for health reasons afterall.

sylvao2000:


Thanks::: you got my points this really prove there are still mature ladies on this forum

Oh babes i feel u on this, i have smelt them ma self.
Just keeping it real.

efuah:

i like that. . . never say never!

Its true Efuah - i have learnt not to say too many 'nevers' cause when you do end up with the 'never' guy, then u feel stupid.

I love being kissed in public - not too nasty though.
I love being kissed cause to me, it just shows that he is affectionate towards me.

Someone that loves me and one that i love.
But mostly someone that loves me more than i love them.

My HUSBAND can pick ma calls but boyfriends - NO.

There are different reasons why a woman stink -
- bad bad hygiene (most dont shave armpits or their gravel pit, dont wash down there with a 'idi' wash.
- where they store their clothes (could be damp)
- they may have a health issue.
- maybe they are just damn dirty
- some of them just smell like stale sweat
- and some were not washed properly at birth

Oga o if the story aint true, the the poster should maybe change his trade to writing for soap operas or mills and boons.

But am sure there would be a way of telling them apart.

You should have known better than to put urself out here on Nairaland in the midst of wolves.
Especially when u call urself ugly, what did u expect?

Maybe he should arrest you (14 yr old wife) thats a disgrace.

But thats ur preference though.
Everyone should have a preference now and not settle for anything.

But never say never though - love is a powerful thing. Once u are bitten, God help us.

@ Poster, i dont think u were supposed to copy the comments.

Anyways, it is wrong for young stars to have kids outta wedlock, because they are setting a bad example for the kids that idolize them.

I am a single parent and i had ma child outta wedlock, and its real hard especially watching ur baby have no father figure - whereas all her friends have fathers.
I will never do so again, the next one i ave, oh ma goodness i will so be with the father.

What u are gonna do?

There is nothing to do.
U arent with her no more, you arent sleeping with her no more so whats the deal?

Since u said u had a long chat with her and she said she is real serious about him, then u need to stay outta it

What i may be tempted to do would be tell one of ma brother's good friends and leave that one to talk with him for me.
At least then he cant say that i didnt tell him.

joshjosh:

@adeboo

may your dreams come true. hope you had a great weekend? these are the stuff nightmares are made of. but no one is answering my question as to why women take delight in torturing other women like these outlaws.

knowing that you "may" be a willing participant i will begin to watch out for you.

so good to know we have people we can rely on on here. so Nigeria man still has hope after all.

God blessings be on you. have a great week.

Thank u jare ma guy.
'willing' participant for what?
Because women are real bitches to one another. I usually say it that if u need something from somewhere and u as a woman meets another woman in the position to help u - there is a guarantee that she wont.

I just feel that once a girl is married - the mother of the husband automatically becomes jealous and that causes problems especially if he is the only boy, the first son or the most favoured son.

I get over a crush thats not right for me by-

- deleting the number from ma fone
- deleting anything about the person from ma existence
- not going anywhere the person usually goes.

michelin89:

Nor be you go recognize am, na him go recognize you!

But if he recognises me and i dont him - that wan na another hassle now.
So as he dey recognise me, make me too dey see am.

Its very hard to recognise true love at this day and age.
Someone said to pray hard and to be very watchful.

U also have to be very very watchful. Praying without being watchful is a big mistake.

Sometimes we have a mindset of how the person we wanna be with looks like that we just leave out people who dont measure up to our appearance standard, we just brush them aside.

Ma prayer always is that God should help me recognise the person he brings to me in whatever package he comes in.

I believe when u see a girl that u truly like, and a sad situation arises, then u are bound to show emotion.

Oga o.
I understand u sha, but to say that he has never given anything, its baffling.

If he is a stingy person then u have no hope o.
But if he is broke, then thats a different story.
But for the fact that u are giving him everything, then u need to be very careful.

U have not married yet and he is already costing u so much and not giving back. There are different ways he could give u, he could maybe do little things and he hasnt.

Love is giving and taking o, not just taking or vice versa.

She has put ur life in danger more than once in this story that u have said.
What kind of question are u asking again?
I never see o.