Recently, I typed some documents for some female teachers, in which they were asked for their next of kins. Apparently, they were all married, none was a widow or divorced because they stipulated this in their documents.

However, what puzzles me is that none of these women chose her husband as her next of kin. Is it that their husbands are old, untrustworthy or what.

Is it all or most women that prefers her child as her next of kin. Help clarify this please. thanks,

Re: I Want To Say Yes To Him After A Month Of Saying No. How Do I Go About It?
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How old are you, you sound like 13 or 14. If you are matured like, you wont be asking how to say yes.
@kind.way: Hey, come on, we all ave our points of dilemma. this is simply mine and i'm facing it.
@ all those who've been helpful: thanx a lot, i think ds r/ship is going unprecedented heights. the tips have been really working.

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Most espeically when you marry a PRADA,CHANNEL,GUCCI girl, then you are totally in for it! I am facing danger as well, but thank God she contributes just 30%. My wife is a fashion freak and she can go for a 1500$ handbag, so you should know I am totally in for it!!!! Angry Angry We are married for some years now,except that freaky lust for fashion, she is a totally good girl!


Good question there, but if your wife seems to be too dependent, then don't let open your salary to her, or she will be expectant of 50% every month if not more! All girls do that and if yours doesn't do that now, believe me shes gonna do that later! The best thing for a man is if you get,let's assume, 80 hundred dollars a month, tell her that you make half of it monthly; some women might even go to the extent of setting up private investigators to know their husband's monthly income! Thats absurd!

Not that you ain't gonna share anything with your wife, but its good to be wise, cuz women are simpletons. They have a very small brain, and you must lie to them to live with them! Cool Sad
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Hey watch it! Don't generalise, okay? Not all ladies are lavish when it comes to money. SOME ARE FRUGAL. like ME. So kindly take back some words and phrases. Merci Bouqoui

Hello Nairalanders, I am studying English as a course in a University, I'll love to do a course (probably before I graduate, as i still have two years to go) that will buttress my Bachelor's degree.

Your replies would be highly appreciated. thanks y'all.

@ Rocktation: You can laugh now. But pride didn't make me say no, he just kinda gave me a wrong first impression that's all, but now,
@ odiaero (m) : This is a serious issue, it's nt funny
@ sofeco (m): I wish you could, really
@ daylae (m): My case wasn't cos of 'tactics' he just gave me a wrong first impression. that's all. but now i know better
@ Onchedu : thanks a zillion
@ Godmother (f): thanks

Second Stanza
O God of Creation
Direct of our noble cause: We sure need God to direct our cause, although it's far from noble
Guide our leaders right
Help our youths the truth to know: Our leaders and youths have chosen of their own accord the wrong and false things, e.g. politricking, embezzling, 'technolgised' stealing, forgery e.t.c
Can't even continue

Since my birth, I've been in a relationship for less than a month

It depends on their ages. although, i don't have a child of my own yet, i have cousins and one of 'em is 7. I allow him to have his bath himself, but i still inspect him afterwards, cos most times, water never touches his back.

Are you serious? Mhen, i guess there's still hope for those who didn't make it up to 200. Anyway, I trust that schools will still find a way to reduce the population of admitted students. So they had better not relent in their efforts. I wish all the best.

Well, I'll just talk from my experience with someone.

Don't tell him he's too shy (u could say it mildly, but don't be too blunt).
Make him talk, don't always lead the conversation, help him to talk about himself.
Try as much as possible not to embarrass him
You could offer him little gifts and kind gestures (things like this usually matter to them a lot),
Don't make him face a crowd of your friends (two could be a crowd, take it one at a time, especially with the extroverts among your friends)
I guess you should help him get over his shyness and come out of his shell, cos every girl wants a bold strong man not a shy one who shows tendencies of cowardice.

Well, I hope this will be very interesting