udysweet:

Making reference to someone's single status and why such person isn't married for me is subtle mockery(to put it kindly)and words can produce negative effects on pple o @adeolaolumide(I hope you also don't attack me verbally for this post,lol)
Have a great weekend all!

I never came here to attack or mock anyone o. I am single too just because I don't av money to get my taste. So am working hard to get there. There's a reason we are single, and I try to predict based on my thoughts. Should I guess y u are single?

Toks2008:


Wow...how judgemental some people can be.

Well taken but even if you guessed right though the nagging thing is a total miss for you i would advice that next time its better you present your notion in a more appropriate manner by writting..."i think you talk too much..." the reason is because we have never met or even talked before.

I haven't judged you, I just find it easy to predict people a d reading through there minds though I may be wrong sometimes. I'm sorry if you feel insulted.

Toks2008:


LOBATAN

though i dont know your age or how experienced you are but as an objctive person please can you let me into why you think im still single?...who knows there just might be something you see that needs adjustment by me.

You talk too much. Women don't like talkatives and a nagging husband.

Toks2008:


Yeah the thread is still on and lets try to be modest in the way we writ...im learning to be modest too.. a lady or guy been single at 40 often times has nada to do with their personality just that this love affair thingy is too complex to decipher..

Do you know that the older one gets the more difficult it becomes to settle down?

This is because it bcomes a bigger risk to just settle for one person as there is no more time for courtship and you now want to be extra careful and by so doing,one will just realize that years havee gone so pleease leets stop mocking single people who are of advanced age..marriage is a serious matter and one cant just plunge in.

Love is not complex, it's people that are complex. I can tell you from all I've read so far why certain people are still single including u sef.

Hmmm,ds thread still dey exist. You can easily know frm d tone of some posts y some women remain single @ 40. I pity them, they can never learn.

I have many things to type I don't even know where to start from. I finally found a post to comment on NL. At a point I thought there only teens on NL. Hope this won't be derailed just like most posts I read here. Between, I want a lady with a free mind that would be expressive and willing to relate.

Lets train you.