set him free now and let him go . . .tell him in a polite manner that u feel nothing for him.

are you guys serious? Is everything about money to you guys?. . . what about her safety and her dignity and the kids?

Alot of you guys are actually encouraging her to stick with this lying, cheating and abusive husband for the next 6 yrs just because of money? What if she doesn't last 6yrs? what if the guys grows even more jealous and protective and kills her? how will she then spend the money? . . . what if his abusive nature drives her to an early grave or a mental asylum, then how will she spend the money let alone take care of her kids?

@Poster,
if u know what is good for you and you are smart enuough, take ur kids and leave that relationship . . money will come and go.His cheating and abusive nature ain't going to stop. When he his done abusing you, he will face your children. Is that really what you want? because of money?

Imagine the mental torture the kids are already going thru when they see daddy and mommy fighting or daddy calling their mother names? Yet, you guys are saying because of the money she should stay and dig her own grave.

Both of you are SICKOS!!!!


that is just plain nasty!

this topic has been recycled times and times over again!

outlaws:



If he loved you, he probably wouldn't want to know what's in another ladies skirt. Run before you get stuck[marriage].

well said.

besides I don't see what is confusing here . . .the guy "f**king" cheated on u!!!!

why are u girls always coming across so desperate to marry a guy?
is marriages and weddings the new trend in naija now?

24yrs? . . . .whats the rush?

@poster,

I guess everyone has said it all.
U were stupid enuff to have kids with this guy outside marriage, like that ain't enuff . . . u allowed him to register the business in his name . . . he abuses you constantly (don't have to be physical by the way) . . . he cheats around like an he-goat (which he will do over and over and over again, becos u're forever open to forgive him and take him back and open ur legs for him to make more babies) . . . produced 2 innocent babies with that fool outside wedlock? if he wanted to marry you, he will have done it long time. Dang it people, what is wrong with you people and women these days? haven't you ever heard of condoms or protection . . .why subject your kids to this kind of evironment?

Your son/daughter will grow up thinking it is ok to abuse women and cheat on them. That is just not right.
If you know what is good for you, you need to dump that stupid ass and find someone that will treat you better and love you better. If he is not willing to split to the business, let him go with it . . . karma will catch up with him and he will lose it all.

You make it sound like despite the way he stalks you and call you names . . . you seem to worship him and your whole life depends/revolves around you. The guy too being a smart ass that he is . . . he knows he has you all wrapped around his pinky finger. Are you gonna die without him?

U better wake up fast and face reality . . .from your profile page, you’re 27, still young and I believe you can easily turn your life around before its too late.