omoharry:
I am an Urhobo. This is true oo. what i know is that if the man suspect that his wife is cheating on him and he still continues to eat her food which could have been use with money collected from other men, then the husband will be affected. That why you find out that the Urhobo women rather divorce their husbands for any first before getting involve with another man.
This is why Infidelity is not very rampant among married urhobo and Isoko women. This does not happen if an Urhobo girl is married to another tribe ooo, it only happen if the when the man is an Urhobo man.

What of if d woman isn't urhobo and d man is?

asocustar91:
I don't think it affects d kid n husband, na d woman will go in for it..
My husband brothers wife cheated n lied on it.. Na it my husband brother carry her go village, she drank d God's stuff..
Now she dey suffer am.. Leg swollen, boils around her body

Is she urhobo or its ur hubby's bro who is urhobo and she isn't?

I wud like to know if this tradition affects a woman who isn't urhobo(yoruba,hausa etc) but is married to an urhobo man