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Romance / Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by Afey(m): 7:58am On Aug 26, 2020
[color=#006600][/color]There is this guy I just recently started talking to. He's very good looking and intelligent and dresses well. He is my type and we have so many interests in common. I'm already falling in love with him but I haven't told him. I'm still trying to take it slow. I have not had sex with him yet but I want to. He told me he is in love with me and I was so excited to hear it but I hid my excitement because I'm still confused about his intentions.

The problem is that whenever I try to become vulnerable with him like texting him early in the morning to ask how his night was, he will ignore my texts for days and then call me out of the blue as if nothing happened. But other times he will call me multiple times and talk on the phone like we were dating.

Yesterday after ignoring my texts for over 24hrs he called me and said I should come over to his place. I've never been to his place before. I was already on my way when he called me to tell me that a lady visited him and she is spending the night at his place. He apologized and told me not to be offended. I acted all cool and told him some other time. He hasn't texted or called me since. I'm confused. I know we aren't dating but why would he even tell me this?


That guy is a big time player. He is using the art of seduction on you. Be careful before it will end in tears.
Literature / Re: Which Book Changed Your Life? by Afey(m): 10:04am On Aug 01, 2020
[quote author=iceboy4752 post=92325792]Let me start first.
Mine is named The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do In Life And Business. It's a book by an American reporter, Charles Duhigg. Prior to reading that book, I used to have some bad habits that keep re-occuring, sometimes unconsciously. The book helped me identified and change some of my "keystone habits" which were the fountain from which other habits emerged.
So folks, what is that great book that shaped your life or that made you realise something important?
The essence of this thread is help one another by sharing different books. Someone on this forum may desperately need to read one or some of the books you'll share to make a great difference in their life.





Think and grow rich
Awaken the giant within

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Politics / Re: FG Lifts Ban On Interstate Travels by Afey(m): 5:44pm On Jun 29, 2020
with in that 4 weeks if they (FG and PTF) don’t ensure that people are abiding by the rules walahi the cases fit skyrocket.


It will not skyrocket anything. We're actually not practicing any lockdown in this country the way it should be practiced. We're only deceiving ourselves.

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Food / Re: Never Knew There Was Meat In My Compound During This Lockdown by Afey(m): 10:31pm On Jun 26, 2020
Those are rats na....


They are not rats; They're called "okete" in Yoruba language. Very delicious

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Forum Games / Re: Solve This If You Can by Afey(m): 6:11pm On Jun 24, 2020
Answer=25
Religion / Re: Should I Confess That I Poured Hot Water On My Neighbor's Goat? by Afey(m): 3:00pm On May 10, 2020
[quote author=Pluse992 post=89265284]Advise Me Please. Should I Confess?

I recently packed into my apartment somewhere in Ogun, and my neighbor's goats have been sleeping at the back of my apartment near my window and they have been urinating and passing out faeces making my room inhabitable.

So the other day, I poured some hot water on one of the goats. I discovered that the woman is into traditional medicine. She has been making some incantations since yesterday concerning the goat. And I am scared that she will hurt me.

Should I confess or be brave? What should I do?


Go and confess and apologize to her.
Family / Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Afey(m): 9:57pm On Apr 27, 2020
Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


A very wise advise.
Sports / Re: Nine Players Who Have Played With Messi And Ronaldo Give Verdict On Who Is Best by Afey(m): 5:06pm On Apr 01, 2020
It would be difficult to get players that have played with both if we rule out national team. However, look at number 5 and 7 neutrals.

There is no need to argue too far, both of them are exceptional, but Messi is out of this world.

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