10k is a whole lot of money at this time....God bless you.

Please add me to the whatsapp group. Thank you

God bless you

snowland:
Like this if you support 10k to 27 people

This will go a long way to help a lot of people on this forum.....The challenge now will be how to identify who really need the money the most.... Anyway, who does not even need money?
But please, I hope I am selected oooh, so that I can add it to the money to do my international passport, me to I wish to Japa like you so that I can help others too soon.

Thanks boss

Thanks for all input......

Oizee:
u are nice and mature, but honestly you need to be calming down when angry, so that u can choose the right words that you don't have to regret later. Op landed a heavy slap on a five year old due to unnecessary anger and he's regretting it now.

To say the fact, I regretted it ooh, I cried when I noticed the blood....

frozen70:


Am glad you will calm down for them

Boys are always rough at age's below 12yrs
From the age of 13yrs, they will stop gradually because they have exhausted most of it and are approaching teens age

Is only God that watches over children

We will continue to put our eyes on them while they are ever to bring in new styles of play

It's their time anyway

Infact, we will be doing the somersaulting together now, so that I can watch them well....

And all three of them are boys oooh.... I think I have a long way to stay calm

Oizee:
eyya, he will be fine, may God continue to protect them for us, it is not easy to tolerate or overlook their rough play most times.

Amen. Thank you.

frozen70:


The effects of the slap must have been hard in the ear drum because they are made of extremely soft tissues, that's why the blood came out

Take him to hospital for doctor to prescribe antibiotics

I want you to learn one thing, never ever beat a child to the extent of harming thst child

Such act can injure a child and create cost for you to treat the child

Constant counseling has helped to create a good relationship between mothers and their children

Thank you ma. We have actually taken him to the hospital, antibiotics was prescribed and also an eye swab test to be conducted on Monday as prescribed by the Doctor.

Yes, I have learnt to be calm with these children, just that their play is way too much, in an attempt to look after them to make sure he didn't get injured, I ended injuring him myself.... Anyway it's well. Even with the condition of the ear, he was still doing the same somersaulting with his siblings......

ahnie:
Op I understand your reasons perfectly and am not gonna judge you.
If your son is still under 5 ,I think it's free treatment in general hospitald,.takr him there today.

Thank you ma. I have asked my wife to take him to the hospital. We are even on NHIS, but I just didn't want her to go without any financial commitment and moreso, I wanted to hear opinion of people if I can still actually wait till Monday as the boy is even still playing as if nothing happened....

Klass99:


Internal bleeding is not a joke and you are wasting valuable time on this thread seeking the opinions and experiences of others, when a Doctor can quickly tell you what you need to know and squash any fears you have.

Apologies for saying you're not smart or sensible, I was pissed at you and I think I still am because you need to get off the internet and take your child to the hospital.

If you can't afford a hospital right now, call a healthcare professional in your network (nurse or doctor) explain the situation and ask them for their professional opinion, any possible home remedies or medication you need to get from a pharmacy.

And I just saw where you are still talking about waiting until Monday to take him to the hospital . What kind of parenting are you doing like this?

My wife has taken him to the hospital as we speak now

cayorday89:

You were watching out for him but in the process caused more damage to the boy, next time sit him down and let him know why he must not do it and the dangers he will encounter doing that and after everything ask him if he will like to get himself injured and feel pain, he will probably say no, and next time he will likely not do it or be careful while at it, also note that he must have been watching people somewhere doing that, remember Olympic just finished few months ago, he must have seen and learnt a lot... In all learn to control your temper and if you must punish, don't let it be instantaneous, rather call him, talk to him and give him reason for the punishment he is about to receive...

Alright. Thank you.

Klass99:
What I find annoying about you and this story is that, instead of taking him to the hospital and truthfully telling the Doctor what happened and what you've noticed, you create a thread asking strangers for help.

What exactly are people supposed to do or help you with? Don't you know your way to the hospital? You're not a very smart or sensible person.

I know, I will take him to hospital, but I just want to hear if possible someone has experienced that before so at least to allay my fear before taking him to hospital by Monday.

gasparpisciotta:
You slapped a five year old to the extent that blood came out of his ear?

You are close to being a murderer...if that little guy has earring issues in future just know that you are the cause.

Where is your location? You need to be arrested for assault!!!!

Yes, I know I over reacted and I am not happy with myself for doing that. I had told them to stop somersaulting, so that they will not wound, only for him to go and do same thing I have been warning him since and almost wound himself in the process....

It was that annoyance I slapped him coupled with the transfer of aggression of the present economic hardship in the country

shawante:
Go there today to avoid "only if you had brought him earlier"... Monday might be too late.

I will try today if I can get the money I am expecting today....

EkehPraise:
Take him to the hospital. He's still very young for self diagnosis.

General hospital is preferable, ENT (Ear, Nose and Throat) department will check it and know what's wrong.
I suggested General Hospital because it's cheaper.

Alright. Thank you. I will do that hopefully on Monday.

Please, I am very angry with myself now. My Son did something wrong and angrily I slapped him in the ear/cheek in annoyance, that was about a week ago, just yesterday, we noticed dried blood in the ear, same thing this midnight also, though he is playing very well and does not complain of any pain in the said ear, but I am worried.

Is there anything to worry about? He is 5 years old.

NoToPile:


How was the smelll

It smells so bad ooooh.

descarado:
The guy took amoxicillin. It can cause constipation. It does that to me. Once it's gone from his system, he will be fine. Oh my, nigerians

Yes, he is fine now. He finally poo yesterday night. Thanks.

descarado:
The amoxicillin might be the culprit.
Perform "pump" or ask experienced hand for help.
Worst case, administer laxative but I prefer pump.

I heard Amoxicillin can cause it too.

Columbine:
Take him for an ultrasound scan to rule out; intussception and hypertrophic pyloric stenosis.

Really?

Richy4:
A tablespoon of olive oil on an empty stomach is a foolproof treatment for constipation...

Bananas too, I don't know if there are Prunes in Nigeria but that sh!t works like magic.. Orange can soften the tommy too.. Yoghurt can do wonders too

Alright.... Thanks a lot.

NoToPile:
Warm water in the morning and give him oranges, vegetables, majorly fruit, veggie , liquid diet for thenext 24 hours , maybe it's the drugs that caused it.

I also don't think its something to worry about but get ready when he eventually shits, it will be very smelly

Going forward incorporate fruit in the diet maybe one orange a day.

Alright, we will introduce the warm water.

josh123:
Buy fanta in d morning after eating and orange in the evening after eating

Alright. Thank you sir/ma. We have been given him oranges

Please, is there any home remedy that can be given to a two years old plus child that has not poo for about three days now, he just finished taking anti malaria and Amoxicillin... A nurse has even prescribed Liquid paraffin for him, he started using it yesterday, yet poop is not coming ... The boy is playing and eating, we only noticed the stomach is a little bloated, though it's coming down. The stomach is not hard, no pain... People around says it's nothing to worry about..... Has anyone experienced this?

Rice as usual... But with Pork..... That is what I want oooh....

Good, if it is for the development of the region and not for their selfish interest.

npowerng:
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goofyuncut:

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Got it. Thanks.

goofyuncut:

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goofyuncut:

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