I have never dated a younger girl, i always dates girls that are 2-5 years older than me, though not intentionally. But one thing i realized is when am trying to date a younger girls, they are always not smart and intelligent enough and can't handle a man.

i will surely marry an older woman

The funny thing is that as a guy, i have never dated a younger girl all my life. I have always dated girls that are 2-5 years older than me. Am already thinking of settling down with one. So tell me all this ladies i have been dating for close to 10 years, what is their lot?

There is this yoruba saying that "A don ni laya oje bi, Aya yin ni ke kilo fun" meaning "he who sleeps wit ur wife is not to be blamed but your wife" This will be my position cause I believe she should no he's my best friend and for her to be in that uncompromising position with my best friend, imagine wat position she'll be wit the one thats not my best friend

For somebody to be my best i think we must have come far, ill walk out on them, later ill make up with my friend who happens to be my BEST FRIEND . She' ll definitely be at the loosing end cause I cant imagine wat shell be doing outside

Kenflavor, U described pearldrop, as if u guys have met. May be u guys know each other, for u to decribe her as charming and with a possive eyes,i will advice her to wait for u then.

To be serious now, How is the guys in question asking her hand in marrige? may be he feels, he does not want to waste his precious time seeking just friendship and looking 4 the honey pot, he want the whole thing it self.

Kindly note that u have to study the whole situation well before leaping and don't be adviced by inexpreinece people who they themselve does not have a BF/GF talk less of having a serious relation. Some are too young to be giving advice on marraige.

No apology

My undying love which she can't buy in the open market and my heart, which is too precious to me.

To be serious, i will get my babe a nice evening wear plus a perfume

Thanks, u the man .

Kenflavor, this is fact and not words. If u have had your share of gals u will understand. Can u imagine taking ur gal out and u discussing politics or anyother issue with friends and she can't mutter out a word, cus she is f..king dumb. Won't u be ashame and ur other friends babe are chipping in 1 or 2 things

I call mine GF, baby gal or My Angel. because she is very dear to me.

Skidoc,

Sorry, i have seen it all, There is no way u will sit with a girl that is pretty and she can't have a decent discussion with you and your friend. What the heck.

I believe more in the girl brain thatn beauty, because at the end of the day beauty might fade, and intelligence don't except she has brain problem. therefore i vote for a girl with brain. And forget this thing about ugly and brainy, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what u called uglyness, my brother, might be my own beauty.

Hi,

It is just a cultural thing with Africans. But strongly i believe now adays it is an individual thing.

Ah tammy, yoruba says u don't stay far away to enjoy good things, so u can't expect to find the real Naija guys in US or anywhere, because most are economic refugees, so u need to come home and fine the real naija guys like the guys that are asking you out above.

So kindly don't complain, untill u come to naija and you don't find the correct naija man.

Its a free world, so you can always make your personal choice. What we are discussing is a sensitive issue in this part of the world. Our culture does not allow us to have 1 or 2. But due to education and enlightment, thing have change. Some of us still want to keep the tradition going with lot of kids.

It is a precondition to my getting married, my wife have to have 4 or 5 babies. I don't like a home being empty or dry, kids must flow and play in the house.

danoe,

yeah i agree with you on educational level, both also some are educated and yet they still have inferioty complex toward any opposite sex that have a better status than them.

Why do individuals have inferiority comples to opposite sex?

I will like you guys to help me out with this. Most individual always have inferiority complex when it come to dating and relationship. I have two friend that have two different experience.

1. A lady that works in a multinational firm and earns good money and also have a good apartment and car, yet all the guys run away from her, though she is humble and respectful. They all feel they can't handle her.

2. i have a friend a guy that have been trying to date a girl for over a year and she always avoids him, she finally came out to say that she feels the guy is too big for her in terms of the fact that the guy is an hard working and a succesful guy and feel that the guy is too good for her.

Can you guys help me out with what seems to be the problem?

Snazzydawn,

Its funny, but am not quite happy sending it to gals, just that u can't help. If i have to add you then i might as well go bankrupt .

Very seriously now the money we spent on recharge cards are enoumouse, as per my calculations with my babes , i believe i am spending nothing less than 70k amonth.

that is why we are called Naija. See all this that is happening in bayelsa, don't be suprised that by this week we will move to another topic in our national life and forget alamsco, and he continues with his looting.

timmy that is cool. you calculated for your girl friend, for someone like me i can't determine how much i spent sending recharge cards to girls, because they are all ever demanding, and if you try to put a tab at that then u are going to loose your cool.

snazzydawn,

thanks for not being like me. It is crazy i know, but can u really help it in this country. Phone is killing. I read above some one having a contract for 30 pounds, my contract with glo is 12k, which is about US$80.00, can u see the difference and it does not even last me a month, and i don't browse on it as well as use the GRPS and MMS. All i do is phone calls and text.

Men, when u are self employed guy like me that uses 4 phones(due to the fact that clients always complain of not getting access to me) 2 mobile and 2 land line plus a starcomms 4 internet connection.

Right now for the internet, i spend 15k amonth, my glo i uses bundle 600, which cost 12k a month, and also my two landlines i spend nothing less than 15k and the last mobile i spend around 5k a month.

please note that it is killing xpecially when u are doing business, but i don't believe it is that expensive in other countries?

can we have comparisons.

Thanks alot my sista. now i believe he even deserves both national award and international award. Since Obasanjo did no issue out GCFR, this year pls let give to Alamsco and also, plsgive him international recognition.

Seriously now, what is wrong with this country? This guy will go to abuja this week for council of state meeting and will be discussing about this country and before u know it the news papers will be full of Advert congratulating him on his escape.

Nigeria we hail thee

U know why i love this country? It is a real life Hollywood, what you only expect to see in a film, you see it live and direct.

Men, I love this country, because we are full of evil practise and deed, from evil genius, now, to woman dressing Alamasiagha, may be that is y he even did the tummy tuck thing, so as to look like a woman.

Congratulations Nigerian for welcoming back home our own "illustrous thief" his majesty, the Governor General of the disgracing people of Ijaw, we say welcome.