pls dear,u really need a relationship but u mustn't do anything stupid,28yrs isn't a day walk. u're feeling what u should feel @ ur age. nothing is wrong with u, it's a normal thing. relate ur feelings with dat ur guy if u truely trust him, but don't do dat in a "convenient place". finally, u need Jesus to help u in such situation. if u're not yet walking with Him pls begin the walk today. dat's when ur virginity will make a meaning.

what could cause this? old building or engineering fault?
well,may God grant the souls of the departed eternal rest!