Business / Re: My Recycling Plant Has Close Down Because Nepa (ijede Unit Refuse To Help). by Ajusshi: 3:05am On Jan 11, 2018 |
Nigerians! So you planned to set up a factory without carrying out all necessary assessment. How on earth will you plan to site a power intensive machinery at a particular location without first finding out if you will have good access to electricity and making a provision for alternative source especially in Nigeria with its infamous epileptic power supply? Sorry, bro, but plan better next time. 4 Likes |
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Sports / Re: Mikel, Neymar, Ronaldo & Iniesta Welcome Teams To Russia (Video) by Ajusshi: 10:59pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:
Mikel is a fool.
He should have spoken in Igbo language. Exactly my thought. I hope they won't tag you IPOB, though. Lolz! |
Politics / Re: NNPC Contracts: Office Of The Vice President Press Release by Ajusshi: 5:07pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Bullhari stealling oil money since 1965 4 Likes |
Career / Re: Chikezie Emmanuel Uzuegbunam Makes 100 Brightest Young Minds In Africa 2017 List by Ajusshi: 2:14pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
These IPOB people again 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Ycee Looking Hot In His New York Photoshoot by Ajusshi: 2:08pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Looks more like a clown to me. 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Dayo Amusa - Why Women Like Me Attract Cheating Partners "PICTURES" by Ajusshi: 3:11pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
generationz: She's right most nice "Mr and Mrs fixalot" usually attract narcissist and terrible people.
Sometimes it has nothing to do with being that type of person. That's why good girls end up with bad guys and vice versa. It's the natural law of opposites being attracted to each other.
However, nobody walks around with a sign on their forehead saying "I am a cheat, wifebeater or womanizer" However with experience you'll learn to notice subtle signs, that's why it's advisable not to fall head over heels in love with someone without knowing and studying them well enough.
Many of these people are the most charming and charismatic, but when you look beneath you'll discover that they are very shallow with nothing to offer rather than excessive baggage and pain.
Most of the time they do not take out time to work on themselves or see the amount of pain that they are causing their loved ones because they think after all people are always attracted to them so they can't be the ones with the problems it has to be the other person. It's rare to see your kind of wisdom on nairaland. |
Webmasters / Re: How Much Do U Make From Your Blog? Be Honest by Ajusshi: 2:21pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
Blogtrovert:
what's gonna make you give it up? cos I'm interested! grammarly right? Yeah, Grammarly. I have more than I need. What will you give me in exchange? Not necessary in cash. |
Health / Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Ajusshi: 9:29am On Sep 15, 2017 |
GeneralNass: Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.
To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.
When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.
Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh
If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.
All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.
When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing. What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.
I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes
Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now. Goodnight and God's speed be with you all. You are right to feel bad, but to be honest you are over reacting. I am not trying to comfort you, but I don't see a reason you should be resentful of yourself. You made mistake, yes, accept it and move on. That's what life is all about. You learn from your mistake and apply the lesson. Now from a practical experience perspective, I know many people (some of them couples) who are HIV positive but are living fulfilling lives. Most of these people were diagnosed during maternity. They are living normal lives and having HIV free kids. How do I know this? I know it because they were tested in our private hospital. I have counseled hundreds of folks like you and they always come back to thank us for our help. You bro, your life has not changed one bit, HIV is NO LONGER a killer disease. It's now more of a discomfort than a disease. This is not to say you should not be careful with your loved ones, don't just coil up and wallow in self-criticism. Rise, dust your butt and forge ahead. Life goes on. Do this and in a few years time, you will be proud of how you handled the situation. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Ajusshi: 9:09am On Sep 15, 2017 |
(Cuming back) |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Celebrates Her 40th Birthday Today: Throwback, Now Pics by Ajusshi: 8:47am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Oysdam: A Queen A Slay Queen you mean? |
Car Talk / Re: Is It Possible To Drive In Nigeria With An EU Driving Licence? by Ajusshi: 8:13am On Sep 15, 2017 |
analryder: My fellow Nigerians, I would want to confirm if it is possible to drive in Nigeria with an EU Driving Licence and not get help up by law enforcement.
I have been driving for about 10yrs within the EU-region. Yes, you can but don't try it. You will expose yourself to unnecessary security risks even from the security agencies and harassments for bribes. Please don't do it. Nigeria is a jungle. |
Webmasters / Re: How Much Do U Make From Your Blog? Be Honest by Ajusshi: 7:55am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Wellus:
"...speak a good and well constructed english language..." For someone giving all this negative criticism, you aren't that much better. Not holding a brief for him, but this is a forum comment. |
Webmasters / Re: How Much Do U Make From Your Blog? Be Honest by Ajusshi: 7:51am On Sep 15, 2017 |
femo122: My works are great kindly contact us below Sorry, I don't need your service. Meanwhile, if you or any of your clients need a Non-Hosted Adsense account (any country), holla me for it. I can provide a new Adsense that will come with the client's name and home address in many countries. Could also provide Grammarly premium accounts too, on a limited number. |
Webmasters / Re: How Much Do U Make From Your Blog? Be Honest by Ajusshi: 7:45am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Abudu2000: I always know naija blog when i see one. Always clumsy and not well arranged. So many typos, even the words are even out of this world and they so much leaps off like a bengal tiger Nigeria bloggers have a long way to go if they seriously want to earn a living with that. Even our few uk vloggers are the worst. You have been in uk for 3-4years and you still cant speak a good and well constructed english language....later they will say its some part of nigeria that is giving the country a bad name and not making them earn money online....abeggii i dey go work joorr Very well said, most Nigerian bloggers are like this. This post just reminded me of my dusty grammary premium account. If any blogger or would be blogger needs it, please indicate your interest. 1 Like |
Webmasters / Re: How Much Do U Make From Your Blog? Be Honest by Ajusshi: 7:33am On Sep 15, 2017 |
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Webmasters / Re: How Much Do U Make From Your Blog? Be Honest by Ajusshi: 7:30am On Sep 15, 2017 |
oganaij:
well it all depends on the possible of establishing the blog. I know someone who has a tech blog with about 3000 - 5000 pageview daily and he is not monetizing it cause he was denied by AdSense. So he just continued sharing and posting on his blog. To him its more fun then posting on Facebook.
If the ideal is all about making money, blogging became hard but its all about building a brand, then it became fun. Although stress, but profitable if its done properly.
But the truth remains. Only a few really get to make it. He could buy an Adsense account na (except if google has penalised his blog), I mean he can even get it on his name and Nigerian home address. |
Politics / Re: Group To Stage Sit-out At Abuja House In London, To Demand Buhari’s Return by Ajusshi: 10:16pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
I don't care, we told them who Buhari is before the election but they would not listen. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: This Is The Change Nigeria Is Looking For; Lady Shares Her Transformation Photos by Ajusshi: 10:06pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
dainformant: This young lady has got herself trending online and here's why. While Nigerians are still trying to figure out whether "CHANGE" is a good thing or a bad thing, this young lady has decided to bring her own concept to the word. Sharing her transformation photos (11 years after) on her social media page, the melanin poppin, busty and curvy lady wrote;
I'll leave this here and run along!!! 11 years later! No bleaching Cream or Surgery Just the grace of my Wonderful Baba God
Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/08/change-nigeria-looking-lady-shares-transformation-photos.html A funny sense of humour. |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by Ajusshi: 10:21pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Donshegxy10:
Belgium nah werey, remaining them to give me 8k, they are bastard Those dic'ks and the Netherland cun'ts just weak me I don't think ama gonna be good at betting. |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by Ajusshi: 10:12pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
They are gonna score for sure, but they have lost already. |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by Ajusshi: 9:50pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
GambaOsaka: Bulgaria with 10 odd is battering Netherland.
I'm not actually surprised by this. Looking at that Netherland squad, i can't possibly see any 'game changer' or ' special player' like they have in the days of bergkamp, overmars, seedorf, Edgar Davids, kluivert etc
If u don play Netherland win , forget am o. Tear the ticket and if na online u fit break your phone . I played them X2 but it seems those fools are going to lose with shamelessly. How about England and Scotland 2moro? Eng 1 Scotlans 1x. Any hope?, Please. |
Politics / Re: "I Was Hired For ₦1,000, Don't Know Why I'm Here" - Pro-Buhari Protester. Video by Ajusshi: 8:09pm On Feb 06, 2017 |
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Crime / Re: Man Flogs A Lady On Her Buttocks In Equatorial Guinea (Video) by Ajusshi: 7:42pm On Feb 02, 2017 |
Depends on what she did. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Fani-Kayode's Son, Aragorn's 1st Birthday Celebration (Photos) by Ajusshi: 9:45am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Pseudonymous: Fani should start respecting himself so the boy would grow with him around. . Check my signature. Smh! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Fani-Kayode's Son, Aragorn's 1st Birthday Celebration (Photos) by Ajusshi: 9:44am On Feb 02, 2017 |
The kid got swag no bi small. HBD, cute boy. 2 Likes |
Business / Re: Investment Inflow To Nigeria Drops To 10-year Low by Ajusshi: 7:43am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Sai Baba! |
Phones / Re: What's The Best Feature In Your Phone That Makes You Love It? by Ajusshi: 7:41am On Feb 02, 2017 |
laplace19: As an Engineer, I have some Microsoft Apps on my phone that I use for work instead of carrying my laptop around... those Apps include Microsoft Excel, Power Point, Microsoft Word, One Note and One Drive. I invariably use MS.Excel and as it stands now I can't use any phone without those Apps. Samsung Galaxy J5 Samsung rocks joor |
Phones / Re: What's The Best Feature In Your Phone That Makes You Love It? by Ajusshi: 7:40am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Eleniyan15:
I don't like big screen, portable ni koko even woman sef portable if something too big na ojukokoro For watching movies and video games, the bigger the screen, the better your experience. Abi na only to make call u dey use phone for? |
Phones / Re: What's The Best Feature In Your Phone That Makes You Love It? by Ajusshi: 7:35am On Feb 02, 2017 |
Eleniyan15: Battery ni ooooo 5050Mah, L8plus You try, but none can beat my Samsung Galazy Tab A. With 9.7 inches screen and 6,000 mAh battery, the beast na baba for videos and gaming. |
Phones / Re: What's The Best Feature In Your Phone That Makes You Love It? by Ajusshi: 7:31am On Feb 02, 2017 |
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Politics / Re: Nigerians React Over "I Stand With Buhari" Nationwide Solidarity Rally by Ajusshi: 5:43pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
Ooni: I will neither attend any of the protests. Moreover if buratai use us for target-practise ibos and other nigerians will laugh at us. Without being laughed at we should know that changing from extreme love to extreme hate of buhari within one year does not speak good of sophistication. So lets respect ourselves and suffer in peace. True Yoruba son You want to suffer in peace? Isn't that contradictory? Cowardinho. 12 Likes 1 Share |