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So we don't have food banks as a country
ThIs is how we ll suffer when there is serious famine or war.
Na wa oo

beekind:

The bolded is exactly what I thought until I found out that majority of those you think are decent girls are just pretenders especially in religious settings.
When you meet them outside of religious settings, you can lay them on the same day.

I am not making this up, I have been in the country long enough to realise whatsup.

I am not saying there are no good girls but majority are baaaaaaaaaaaaaaddd...

My sister is available, i can confirm that for u to be open to her is a sign of honesty

Hello Mates

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you can visit www.universityadmissions.fi to get acquainted on how to apply and the school requirement on each courses, its very easy and straight forward.
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Lets do this together

Please, do you have any information on how to apply in any of their vocational or technical institutions??

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Everything u narrated about ur sex life is exactly what im experiencing in my marriage.
Im just processing the whole thing and I don't seem to understand why a woman ll marry and starved her husband of sex and stilll feel comfortable.

Mohisah:

I've bn waiting for this your opinion.
Engineers or Nairaland Engineers be saying 15-20 before any major repair, forgetting that we have harsh weather condition.

Apart from that, the way our drvers overload and stress our roads is something else.
The minister might be right.

Vision101:
@jmoore
6 years is for substandard job.

A good road should last minimum 15 years.


@me
For naija? The roads are overburdened with heavy trucks. The cargo ought to have been carried by rail. Again heavy traffic hold-up add burden on the roads

Oga stop confusing urself. U have stated the obvious reasons y our roads fail on time. So, the minister is right by saying minimum of 6 years before any repairs work.

Yankee101:
Roads dey last 30 years oga

With the kind overload our drivers dey do??

Rostikol:


In this our humid terrain? I think the climate and terrain affect the asphalt quicker than in cold countries.

Exactly bro, he might be right base on terrain and climate of that place.
According to the WisDOT Facilities Development Manual, concrete roads offer an expected service life of roughly 25 years. Asphalt roads are likely to last approximately 18 years.

jmoore:
6 years is for substandard job.

A good road should last minimum 15 years.

He might be right. According to the WisDOT Facilities Development Manual, concrete roads offer an expected service life of roughly 25 years. Asphalt roads are likely to last approximately 18 years.

kokorokoman:
Engineers in the house, is six years not too small for a standard road to start attracting attention for repairs?

He might be right. According to the WisDOT Facilities Development Manual, concrete roads offer an expected service life of roughly 25 years. Asphalt roads are likely to last approximately 18 years.

H28Africa:


It really does sound exciting.

Most people don't know that every Nigerian, no matter how much they earn, can qualify for the NHF loan.

We would love to see you at the upcoming live event on the 2nd of September.

Don't forget to register for the event.

Why not drop the guidelines here abi na only the upcoming event contains the guidelines?

At 46 u no still get .........
Continue, i don't have any advice for u.

fineboynl:
If any family is compelling you to spend the money you do not have unnecessary for a marriage ceremony. And they tell you marriage is just for once just borrow to spend it once and for all do not obliged because it's a scam.

There is nothing like once and for all in any marriage, and for a family who wanted the ceremony as they so desired yet not making the provision from their pocket but compelling you to do so that's it's just once and for all.

I can assure you that It won't be long before you start noticing it's nothing but a scam. Marriage is a continues spending with everything attached to it and if you are not prepared it means you are not ready yet.

You will soon start shouldering that family responsibilities when your wife putting pressure on you to help her family here and there..

There are some family that when they heard about marriage thry believe you have arrived. After all na who get money de do marriage. And the bigger you make that ceremony look the more the expectations and attention you will end up drawing to yourself.

This opp is confused.
Ur title is marriage, u went ahead to discuss wedding. Know the difference

ify84:


NBTE is not serious. Why India? I have tried it out... Fees is 1,000 dollars. That is some 800k. Why can't Nigerian universities run this.

Well, i am making inquiries to know which 9ja university that does this conversion

Bros as innnn ehhhh.
When i opened the application portal of mewar University India, i saw registration $1000 & $50 admission fee, i freak out.
Luke what d hell is wrong with nbte know fully the condition of most people in Nigeri, they can not negotiate a better price

Wow woop, nice points.
To be a man, focus on developing your own values to live by such as trusting and helping others, and be ready to make sacrifices.

Haaa! Oga biology since jss1 ??
Which school is that?

Meddymeddy:
How many states have you visited in nigeria?

North west=kaduna (my home state), kano, katsina and jigawa.
North Central =Plateau, kogi, nasaraw, Abuja (current station), kwara and Benue
North East =Bauchi, gombe, yobe and Borno
South South =Akwa ibom, and cross river
South west =lagos, ado_ekiti, ondo, osun, oyo
South East = Abia, ebony and imo state.
I don't try na!

I support his claims 100% plus if government can give out grants to serious youths to go into farming, a lot of them wont be in cities moving around like mad dogs.

Very good, carry on. Shege banza na child play!

tensazangetsu20:


It depends on demand. I am ready to help o cause the visa process na die

I ll be glad if u can take me through the process

ivolt:
So Obaseki is really dumping Shuaibu?
Na wao

I can't just understand what really happened between both ooo.

Skyview01:
If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

Im glad i met my kind of person in this topic of discuss.

Skyview01:
If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

Im glad i met my kind of person in this topic of discuss

LilMissFavvy:
The truth is that he might end up marrying a woman who is far worse than the one he has dumped. He is an immature mommy's boy and not mentally ready.

Mctwwwwwwwwww

Kingpele:
DSS are misbehaving...yes emefiele did wrong but he should be accorded all the respect the law gives suspects on trial..if court grant him bail ..they should allow him to sort himself out ..and if he fails to met bail conditions..he should be remanded in prison not in dss headquarters..APC and thier goons have reduced our hallowed DSS to president personal servants ...is too bad

The same man that disobey the highest court in the twice??

So like this, at 28 she sef don become a grand mom 👩
😳😳😳😳

God knows my heart of heart, i no get hope for Nigeria atleast not during my life time.

That court room sef look like prison/correctional facility already na

mromacomedy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19OcoNIsFuA

U that is videoing and d daughter are all mad individuals.

sylve11:



Him wan born the future president of Nigeria
😆 🤣 😂 😹

Ahahaaa 😀 😀 😀 😀 abi he want get all the professionals among his children

ConfusePoint:


A driver for a farm.

U can still do more than the 5 children. Continue to fire. Shey u want get all the professional among ur children, Continue.