How old are the children ?

omababe:

I understand your predicament OP. It really can be frustrating when you're in this kind of situation.
You took the best step by speaking up though. The way forward for you, right now would be to find a solution to your problem.
I'm a student and I earn passively by publishing on Amazon.
If you're interested, you can start up and begin earning too. At least you'll be earning in dollars and that would remove a whole lot of financial strain off you. If you're interested, you can send a dm. It's well with you and your family ❤️💕.

I'm interested in learning the rope as regards to publishing on Amazon.

FROGMAN101:


You will know them by their contributions.

I have 6 kids that i cant feed.

In my own timid line of thinking, Lets clap for me for having children I cant take care of in a country already facing 70 million people in extreme poverty.




I'm even considering running away from my responsibilities.

I'm here talking about people bashing me.
I'm a failure.

You should ask for his account details before i can even take you seriously since I am a fan of his antics. Misery loves company surely.

Nonsense.

Clap for yourself,always forming mr somebody behind your phone but in real life you're a sore loser and a failure.
Let me ask! How many of you did your parents give birth to,if you're more than two,then,they are a complete failure too and your miserable life won't be a surprise to me.

Good night, the wisest fool!

ConfusePoint:


A driver for a farm.

Give birth to more kids.. make it 21 children.

I don't know what is wrong with you Poor people. A rich man despite how wealthy he is will give birth to just 1 kid only..poor men go dey born children full everywhere

Kobojunkie:
1. They can go after school? Lol... no be the same Nigeria were many go kukuma withdraw the child from school tell am make e go learn work full-time? This advice of yours dey sound like say you wan make those children no get chance at all to break away from poverty..

Can we stop deceiving ourselves already? With 40k being split 8 ways per month, what kind of school do you think they are attending? Those that went ahead of them and attended school, how many of them are making headway? We work with what we are given while looking on to God as the ultimate source of help. I remember back in uni those days, some ladies literally paid their fees and fend from hair dressing. Some do any work. One of my course mates back then used to sew and model her designs in school... Now she owns one if the best fashion design house and schools in Benin city despite having graduated with a 2.1! Stop looking down on handwork.

Contekbbc:

Clap for yourself,always forming mr somebody behind your phone but in real life you're a site loser and a failure.
Let me ask! How many of you did your parents give birth too,if you're more than two,then,they are a complete failure too and your miserable life won't be a surprise to me.

Good night, the wisest fool!

See how you type so incoherent

No wonder you supporting a fellow suffer head (Actually the OP is even better cause he has learnt his lesson) like you. You are actually worse cause i have a feeling by the end of next year it will be 9 kids in that one room apartment of yours.

I know your wife is tired and fed up. But shes just managing to stick with you out of love. My brother go and hustle and lift your family out of poverty.

And mumu man, we are only 2 in my family.

My mom was very smart. Thats why i have freedom to reply goats like you

Enjoy bro.

FROGMAN101:


See how you type so incoherent

No wonder you supporting a fellow suffer head (Actually the OP is even better cause he has learnt his lesson) like you. You are actually worse cause i have a feeling by the end of next year it will be 9 kids in that one room apartment of yours.

I know your wife is tired and fed up. But shes just managing to stick with you out of love. My brother go and hustle and lift your family out of poverty.

And mumu man, we are only 2 in my family.

My mom was very smart. Thats why i have freedom to reply goats like you

Enjoy bro.

Don't be shy kid.
It shows you're mummy's boy
You're still staying in with your failed parents and forming mr somebody when you're actually nobody.

You have no class boy and I am sure poverty has changed your personality.
Hungry people are often-times, aggressive, so, I'm not bothered by your aggressiveness.

Learn to respect men who take care of their family and don't ever put mouth in what you're not in the best position to give advice.

Say the truth,your pale and male gave birth to many of you.
Next time, respect family men and women.
It's not easy taking responsibility over kids and wives.
Stop being a NUISANCE behind keyboard!
Rest well!!
Empty Brain!

Mom007:
■ Can we stop deceiving ourselves already? With 40k being split 8 ways per month, what kind of school do you think they are attending?
■ Those that went ahead of them and attended school, how many of them are making headway?
■ We work with what we are given while looking on to God as the ultimate source of help.
■ I remember back in uni those days, some ladies literally paid their fees and fend from hair dressing. Some do any work. One of my course mates back then used to sew and model her designs in school... Now she owns one if the best fashion design house and schools in Benin city despite having graduated with a 2.1!
■ Stop looking down on handwork.

1. Public school no dey Nigeria again?

2. How many of those who didn't attend any school are doing very well in that same Nigeria? At least the ones wey go school dey relatively more employable via virtue of their having a degree than the ones we no gi school.

3. "We work with what we have..." and "E go better " are languages meant for adults to console themselves with in their mistakes, not for children who are yet to be receive necessary education and training at all.

4. That is university not primary school or middle school when kids are meant to focus primarily on learning as much as possible in order to keep them from making the mistakes made by the previous generation.

Ops battalion are probably don't done with primary and middle school education talk less of high school.

5. I am not lookin down on handwork. I am simply saying basic education must come before all that. I too remember signing up at a technical school after, not before or during my primary or secondary education. Priority should always be given to a education, skills can serve as topping.

ConfusePoint:


A driver for a farm.

U can still do more than the 5 children. Continue to fire. Shey u want get all the professional among ur children, Continue.

dawnomike:
presently, what do you do for a living?

it is always the way you want to help people that always leave me in awe.

Diligent1:
You need to stop reproduction, do family planning with your wife.
Put your children in public schools and you monitor their studies, check their books from time to time educate them of good behavior and the kind of friends they should have.


Your wife has to be working so that she can support you in the house and no relative should be allowed to live with you for now, they can go elsewhere.

When you want to buy food, buy in bulk when you get to market you will see other people contributing money together to buy in bag and share, this will also save you money and look for better job.

It shall be well with you and your family.

this is the best advice so far.God bless you ma'am

jackmrandy:
I know for sure this can never be true. but if its true, but lets join you to lament. you are the cause we have miscrants in the society. children whose parents are no taking care of them and at that the end sort to robbery and thugery for survival causing nuisance in the society because their parents neglected them. Gone are the days that people will say na God dey give children, uncontrolled sexual appetite gives birth to children when not done properly (protection, family planning) . don't bring children you can not take care of into this world, especially here Nigeria.

This is exactly what me and my friend finished discussing on phone,about children begging around food canteens everywhere, different ways of contraceptives are there but mba they'll just bring innocent children that would eventually curse them due to struggle,hunger and lack of basic things.

Tonytonex:
With this kind of economic hardship,
Many guys will not go into marriage again.

Na only ladies wey get sense now go marry. All those ones waiting for already made man, go wait tire.

I dey tell you

Contekbbc:


Don't be shy kid.
It shows you're mummy's boy
You're still staying in with your failed parents and forming mr somebody when you're actually nobody.

You have no class boy and I am sure poverty has changed your personality.
Hungry people are often-times, aggressive, so, I'm not bothered by your aggressiveness.

Learn to respect men who takes care of their family and don't ever put mouth in what you're not in the best position to give advice.

Say the truth,your pale and male gave birth to many of you.
Next time, respect family men and women.
It's not easy taking responsibility over kids and wives.
Stop being a NUISANCE behind keyboard!
Rest well!!
Empty Brain!

My nigga is mocking poverty

Thats the topic of the day - Poverty

But you know what this rat nigga does? He goes behind to support his fellow friend whos breeding like rats in this hell hole Nigeria but atleast his friend has a job and making less than $100 a month.

What do you have? Nothing. Your kids will resume school by September yet you dont even know what they having for breakfast tomorrow because of poor decisions you made.

Not my fault.

Then you talking about respect to men that raise families? I dont need no better role model like my dad. Retired early. Gave birth to what he can handle. Enjoying life with his wife in his retirement. His two boys already independent and making him proud.

Finally please try not to lash your wife this night so the kids can sleep 🙏

RepoMan007:
you harsh man.

He probably gave birth to four of them before subsidy removal.

Na you sabi, en tell you

ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

Why do u need 5 kids

Allardyce:
If you get a job that pays you 100k, I am sure you will increase the children to 10.. You are productive in bed.

I don't have pity for people like you that are insensitive to things happening in the world.

even if you have pity for him, it amount to nothing! When last did you feel good about anything? Never, what if the wife gave birth to 5 of them at once? so keep keep your opinion to yourself.

ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

....mmmm, you gave birth to one on the basis of e go better, e no better, you continue with two, e still no better, three nothing still show, then four...I beg your matter taya person.

olabrinks:
We have said this time and time again. Do not give birth to children you cannot take care of. Nigerians make it seem as if you’re impotent if you have 1 or two kids. Thank God the upcoming generation have learnt from their elders. We will no longer be seeing situations like this in 20 years.

It's not possible for married people to do this..

You know they can't abort..

Nigeria's 200m population is projected to hit 400million by 2050 no thanks to dvmb people like the Op and also by that period, Nigeria crude oil proceeds will reduce heavily owning to the massive usage of electric vehicles in EU and North America.

A period of super-massive population explosion with lower GDP will mean hell on earth in Nigeria. Hyper crime rates with excruciating hunger and poverty... It's just 27yrs from now.

The govt in Nigeria should as a matter of urgency implement 2child policy in the country. Persons like the Op should be arrested and castrated if possible because an arm robber that will kill and terrorize our towns and villages in 10 yrs time maybe be traced to what the op did today.

Enjoy the fruit of your conji. Lol

LONEWOLFJOHN:
even if you have pity for him, it amount to nothing! When last did you feel good about anything? Never, what if the wife gave birth to 5 of them at once? so keep keep your opinion to yourself.

Is that all?

FROGMAN101:


My nigga is mocking poverty

Thats the topic of the day - Poverty

But you know what this rat nigga does? He goes behind to support his fellow friend whos breeding like rats in this hell hole Nigeria but atleast his friend has a job and making less than $100 a month.

What do you have? Nothing. Your kids will resume school by September yet you dont even know what they having for breakfast tomorrow because of poor decisions you made.

Not my fault.

Then you talking about respect to men that raise families? I dont need no better role model like my dad. Retired early. Gave birth to what he can handle. Enjoying life with his wife in his retirement. His two boys already independent and making him proud.

Finally please try not to lash your wife this night so the kids can sleep 🙏

I don laugh tire!
Pls enjoy YOURSELF.

You see what I like about you is your power of imagination,by the time hunger give you better slap, you no go dey sweet-talk the paupers you call parent.

I have already settled my family so all those things you see as big deals because of your misery is not even on the table.

Keep forming big boy when you never know if anyone here could help you ND your family out of poverty.
Keep forming,ok!
We shall see

sylve11:



Him wan born the future president of Nigeria
😆 🤣 😂 😹

Ahahaaa 😀 😀 😀 😀 abi he want get all the professionals among his children

Contekbbc:



I don laugh tire!
Pls enjoy YOURSELF.

You see what I like about you is your power of imagination,by the time hunger give you better slap, you no go dey sweet-talk the paupers you call parent.

I have already settled my family so all those things you see as big deals because of your misery is not even on the table.

Keep forming big boy when you never know if anyone here could help you ND your family out of poverty.
Keep forming,ok!
We shall see

Haha another contradiction. He say na help out of poverty. Mumu

You started by supporting the OP on his ridiculous poverty generating adventure ostensibly cause you are in the same boat.

You have not helped yourself and your 6 children, or the OP, na me you wan help?

If you promise to send the OP at-least 2k out of the money you have been saving since 2019 this night, and a Nairaland mod will confirm it, i will credit a token of N100k to the OP to help his ministry this night.

Lets help instead of all these long talks 🙏

Cc Seun we need a mod.

FROGMAN101:


Haha another contradiction. He say na help out of poverty. Mumu

You started by supporting the OP on his ridiculous poverty generating adventure ostensibly cause you are in the same boat.

You have not helped yourself and your 6 children, or the OP, na me you wan help?

If you promise to send the OP at-least 2k out of the money you have been saving since 2019 this night, and a Nairaland mod will confirm it, i will credit a token of N100k to the OP to help his ministry this night.

Cc Seun we need a mod.

When did I promise to enter into a duel with a simpleton like you.?
Do your own first and don't attach my own with it.
Finally, you're getting some sense.
Ask the op and send your own 100k, after then,I'll take you serious
Always making mouth, empty barrel
Poor and uncultured rat!
Spit!

Contekbbc:


When did I promise to enter into a duel with a simpleton like you.?
Do your own first and don't attach my own with it.
Finally, you're getting some sense.
Ask the op and send your own 100k, after then,I'll take you serious
Always making mouth, empty barrel
Poor and uncultured rat!
Spit!

He say na do your own first

I will actually. If he sends his details. He’s getting the money tonight and you will see a screenshot. All i need is a Nairaland mod to confirm his authenticity. I already tagged Seun the owner.

And going with a duel with you? No o.

You were slamming poverty above and i am just thinking the best way to get your friend out of it before we come to you.

For your own case we will do gofundme cause yours is a special case of suffering

sulaak:


Stop blaming the government because of your stupid decision, 4 children in one room on a N40K salary

Not even qualified to have one child on a N40k Salary

FROGMAN101:


He say na do your own first

I will actually. If he sends his details. He’s getting the money tonight and you will see a screenshot. All i need is a Nairaland mod to confirm his authenticity. I already tagged Seun the owner.

And going with a duel with you? No o.

You were slamming poverty above and i am just thinking the best way to get your friend out of it before we come to you.

For your own case we will do gofundme cause yours is a special case of suffering

I shall know your mouth no go send your helper away,you wet suppose dey do babiala you self dey form big man.
Simply say you're broke,who knows you also need some donations.
Stop waiting for @Seun or the Mod forever.
Do the needful, boy.
Always making mouth wey you no even get.
You might be wondering how I know you're poor, I actually studied psychology at a point and I'm experienced when picking lies or truth!
Good night,kid and don't disturb me with your rant anymore, Yankee boy

LikeAking:



It's not possible for married people to do this..

You know they can't abort..

why can’t they?

Contekbbc:


I shall know your mouth no go send your helper away,you wet suppose dey do babiala you self dey form big man.
Simply say you're broke,who knows you also need some donations.
Stop waiting for @Seun or the Mod forever.
Do the needful, boy.
Always making mouth wey you no even get.
You might be wondering how I know you're poor, I actually studied psychology at a point and I'm experienced when picking lies or truth!
Good night,kid and don't disturb me with your rant anymore, Yankee boy

Do the needful? I work hard for my money dont worry. I wont just give it out without confirmation.

I am different from you. You havent worked a day in your life so how can you relate?

So even with your degree in psychology, having SIX KIDS in a one room apartment was in your cerebrum plans since campus days?

Enjoy.

Seems NL now makes new accounts and fake write ups for traffic/content