Esthered:
A friend of mine is confused and will like to know if to remain as an analyst (ET) in a bank or become a PA in a multinational FMCG.

Kindly advise.

Adioman:
Been one an the half year my mother died and the bank she used freezed her account saying we should get a letter of administration,which we have now,we submitted to the bank since first week of January up till now they are saying the have sent it to the head office,legal department is still working on it a whole three week going to the four week,account that they freeze for over one and the half year,nigeria banks are wicked
Please any useful advice
Thank you.

sapele914:
Very funny, bunch of Frustrated old vegetables that were rejected for the salad.

adaperry25:
My fiancee and I are from the East and engaged her last month. All medical and background checks have been done and are fairly ok. Now here's where the issue lies:

Her dad is late, and in their village, there's a rite that must be done for the late dad before any TM. I told her I would like both TM and white wedding to be done in the village since we are both from the same state and it'll be easy for me so I know I'm done with any wedding. she disagreed citing that she wanted her friends, colleagues, and family to be present as they cant travel due to the economy. I considered so it wont look like I'm selfish and I wanted my people to be present more. I agreed to do the white wedding in our current base to balance up everything.

Few weeks later, her elder sister suggested we do the late dad's rite only in the village , then come to lagos and do the TM citing that's the way she did hers as they don't want people who weren't there for them to reap where they didn't sow. I disagreed and told them I gave my sisters hand in marriage last year and both TM and white were done in the village to make everything easy. Also told her most TM I attend are done in the village. They reluctantly agreed and stuck to the initial plan but said we should do it on a low key of which I agreed.

Note that all the while I was visiting her family in Lagos, it was only her mom's people that were present. I asked after her dad's siblings and they said they were in the village. I told her its necessary to be in good rapport with her dads people as they are the major deciders.

I requested for her dad's brothers contact so he will help me on some things since he will be standing as her dad. I called him and we started making plans. Few days later, my babe called me that my uncle told her 'I wont be around on the late dads rite, that ill send my younger brother'...i was shocked and angry and told her I never said that. my instincts told me its false as they wanted the TM to be in Lagos. The next day, her mom and sister called and were telling me they don't like the way I'm calling the uncle and asking him things.

It was a heated argument and I told them I've called off the wedding plans, we exchanged words and I hung up. The uncle called me next day and I told him what my babe said and he said he never said such. I told him my family said I should pause wedding plans for now so I don't enter a family where there's no unity. I told him to call my babe's mom and ask her what she wants since shes not cool with me calling him.

He pleaded but I stood my ground. I love her but it seems all is not well and I cant risk it. I need your advice.

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Bea1234:
I'm in pains right now.

Last night my aunty called and asked why I didn't thank her for the money she sent.. I was confused on hearing that.

It turned out that she sent 30k to my cousin.. he senior me with 4 or 5 yesrs.. maybe he's around 25.

When I went to his house and confronted him in the evening.. he said ATM debited him but refused to pay him that he had filed complain in bank.. I believed him sef

But after doing my investigation.. I found out that this guy use the money to play visual football.

Pls how can I arrest this eediot? The guy doesn't have any property.. 2022 he sold my bicycle and claimed it got stolen from him.

I need help guys

pesty100:
When I got into the back of the keke, there was one other passenger, driver said he needed change so i paid him the normal fare, he said that he wanted more, so i asked him to return my money and drop me, he kept trying to make me add money on top the normal fare which i disagreed.

In the process of trying to return my money he dropped 100 naira out of the keke which was still moving at this point. He gave me the rest of my money and asked me to go and pick the one that fell outside,. So I got out and started looking for this money on the side of the road (he had already zoomed off).

It was after like five minutes of searching and not finding the money that i noticed that my phone was no longer in my pocket.