When someone says dey were dumped..i dont think that necessarily means sex...its nt alws the case....could be d aspect of d commitment,time etc u ve wasted bfr getn dumped...ma opinion tho

Watch it..I am sure it was for a reason that person became an ex in the first place...ones a pesn has become an ex bfr...its bound to happen again..sooner or later..not in all cases tho...like I said...watch it

Most guys re scared of commitment..even girls are simetimes scared...well just take it to God in prayers..n give it a chanz..u av to fyt ur fears u knw..goodluck

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Dear ex,
I never thought I would say this buh thank you for leaving me...it made me to realise the strength I never thought I had....it has opend me to better things and opportunities...obviously I wouldnt have been able to end it...at first I cried n ws sad..buh now I m greatful for it all..i am in a better place.

Lmao....this is hilarious

H[quote author=Solomon19 post=36711787]I have this fine lady leaving in my compound we have be tallking since june and all i want to do is **ck her she stay at the back that is the boys quaters we have been taking on phone very well,she is matured and she is older than me but you will not know cus of my mostash on my face she is a nurse and she has shift in her working place she do morning and night,i told her that i wan to cum and visit her she said i should cum so i went before then i invited her to my place i leave down stairs but is at the front of the house cus the hous is a dupeless she well tell she will come i will wait i will not see her i will call her and she will tell me 2morrow 2morrow i get fed up with her posting so i told her i was going to cum to her house she said ok so i wait unitil she is on night shift so this week since tuesday i have be visiting here so we will talk and chat in her palour but the problem i have is to start by romancing her cus she sit on a single chair while i sat on a counch when we talk i keep look at her eyes i am good a romancing but i dont know why i keep delaying when i go visit her i have this thought what if she resist or what if she say she is in her hous we cannot do cus she always alone from 10.00am in the morning till 3.00pm in the afternoon i have visit her like four time this week and we keep on talking,but i want to sex her badly what is killing my move is taht she is on a single chair standing up to meet her is very hard the worst of it is day b4 yesterday i told her i was going to come and she said no problem that here people will leave around 11.00am that she will be alone, so when she said that i was like e don set chaiiiii so i went there around 11.30am she open the door she was wearing a gown the gown was short that i can see her laps, very short my head ring bell i was like choiii so she said i shoul go to the palour and wait for her that she wan to check what she is cooking in the kichen so i went,that later she came to to palour to me me we started talking then she sat on that same single chair again i wan like ooo noooo then i started looking at her laps chaii e fresh ooooo if the tell me make i go hell that moment i go say yes cus am seeing things it was too short that when she face her legs the other side i saw her ynash cus the gown was going up when we were chatting she will pull it down so i was weak to stand up due to the though of rejection i had a time came when she went to change film for me that we were watching she stood at my front but alittle bit far from me i was dying in the crouch i was sitting on but one thing that kill my morale was that she has not taken her bath so i was like if we get down i go dey perceive smell so we talk till it was 3.00pm noting happen i just dey look day die inside i had that thought she is in her house how can i sex her is wrong let me make her come to my house then i will sex her no so she go baff con make up and we left her place i went to my flat later in the night i call her and told her i want to hold her and she kept silent on phone so she said we will talk later i the hangup and send her that am surffering from vitamin you tjat we are going to have fun in my house today,i saw her coming back this morning and we spoke i told her she will be coming to my flat today she said ok as usual around 12.00pm today i wen to know in her flat she open and said she is not feeling too strong and are brother is at home that she can not leave him to stay alone i was like i will come back she said ok,i con say make i share am her to seek advise cus i wan sex that lady like hell........no insult i only need matured advise thanks[/quotefrom all you ve said...its obvious you are very immature...soorry to say..no advce for you

Jamesrock:
Please Guys , I Need You Advice Concerning A Lady In My School.....
She Was Having A Powerful Crush On Me , But I Did Not Notice Her... Because Of My Ignorance, she even seduced me and did all sort of things 2 attract me, she cries when am with other ladies bt i was ignorant because of my academics. She Went Ahead To Tell My Brother.Before I GOT To Know.
But Now She's Fed Up... Please How Can I Bring Her Back coz am single and fed up of bin single...

You can imagine...its cos u are fed up of being single...you now want her cos she looks like ur only option at the moment...please leave her alone and go find somethng to do with yourself...

The wickedness of man

I really wanna move on...because I nevr expectd this...he has wronged me buh I believe God knws evrything..d strength n grace to move on now is what I need...please you guys remember me in your prayers..thanks for your contributions

MistaHumble:


Then he probably is confused right now. Maybe the reality of marriage just dawned on him and he is scared to say he isn't prepared especially now that he can tell you are ready. Another question is have u seen his own family? Its possible he is scared the both families might not click

He is even more prepared...his family knows me n evn welcomes me open heartedly....

MistaHumble:


Awwww sweetheart I feel your pain. My advice is that you just keep calm. Seems you love the guy so much and giving him 3 years of your life isn't easy. One think you should properly consider is whether he was completely welcome by your family? He may have noticed something you probably didn't notice but its unfair he isn't man enough to say what the problem is.

Just keep trying to reach him sha and probably he will pour out his mind when he gets tired that you have refused to let go of him.

Just my opinion sha cus I no be saint ooo

He was very welcomed...evrerything went fine...the whole thing is suprising to me

donholy28:
Find out the main cause of d breakup....den report back to us

I have done that...according to him he is not living a true life..he is tired of living a false life...we are tqo different peopl. he doesnt love me...blah blah..ma prblm is why lead me on and pretend all this while if there was no hope.

Dear nairalanders

Now I see why gurls dnt like sticking wit a strugln guy...she sticks with u wen ders nfn..n wen u nw av a lil smfn....u tell ha u guys re two dfrnt pipu..n u cnt be with her...now tell me do u expect such a girl to stick with any strugln guy ever again?..some guys....smh

Andy790:
Put yourself in their shoes u see a well to do guy ready to marry u

And u see a young rich oil worker.

Keep the answer to yourself

Who likes suffering

The truth is evry rich oil worker or any rich comftbl guy you see out there is taken...he wasnt that rich...at one point in time he was broke with one pair of gean n there was a gurl that stood by him..now he is made evry gurl nw prefers him....it is well o

Its obvious something is not right between demola and your brothers wife...I ll advice you to confront the wife...respctfully tho..and if no changes still...tell your brother...

Thanks guys...your suggestions has helped a great deal...everything is sorted now..1 love

Tjakes:
1st May...any mate in d house?

1st may right here...we rock

dulux07:
Mayb u do it often n dont put it in d right way, notwitstandin, he shud b ready to listen 2u, thats y he is ur partner.
Anyweis u can try me, m a good listener

Tnx..lol

[quote author=ahsekeena post=36193200]
If u cannot confide in ur man,who will u now confide in?





But I'm wondering,if its just trivial issues.
Let me ask, what type of things do u talk to him about??[/quote
just normal issues...say may be I am trying to get a target at work..and its nt forth coming,and its weighing me down...I tend to wanna talk about it so as to feel better..dont know if you understand?

5minsmadness:
U people should leave op's language challenges alone, haba! You're all as bad as her boyfriend!

Op sorry about your predicament. You have to consider that your boo may not be all that into you or might be an impatient person. That said, no one likes someone who complains too much. For now, share your probs with your close family members.
Take care.

Thanks..i apreciate

Lol...hilarious

H

izaray:
This ur short hand writing is becoming to much o. One can't even comprehend what u are talking about easily!

I am sorry,i was trying to type fast because I was busy.i am sure you got the mesage I was trying to pass across...your sugestion would be appreciated..thanks

chomytex:
Op your English sucks!
Go back to school.

You dont have to make such comments..i asked for suggestion on something...yes I used short hand..but I am sure you understood waht I was sayn

I dnt tell him evrytn..d tin is evn aftr xplainjm tu him wat I am tryn to say...n he nw unsdstnds....e stl isnt of any help....sayn sory fr blastn at me is a no go area...d next tin he says is he has herd..does dt mean I cam nevr dscus smtn bodrn me wt him?

Gt

Yes I do...n its actually cute