IyaBasira,i am a man and i know quite well this happens everyday.Even to people you least expect.
Dont let this weigh you down before you pick the pieces of your life together.
All you need now is to go for counselling and make sure you dont care about what people say about you cos so many people have encountered worse things than this.Trust me, Its a minor thing just that your own secret has been leaked out.
Guys do it everyday so remove guys issue.Just have to take your time with ur friends cos they will use it against u and pray to have an understanding husband.Then,mind what you tell people about yourself,especially beware of guys at this time cos they will be acting as if they are persuading you but they will want to have their own ways at the same time.
ENOUGH IS FOR THE WISE.