She have asked me to advice my friend before, I know the type of person my best friend is, very stubborn and won't listen otherwise. I know any advice to him would be useless, and his wife leaves and comes back after begging. It is like they are used to their pattern and I don't like troubling or intruding in someone's personal life or painting my friend bad before others.
He has his life to live and I have mine.

cococandy:
You may never beat yourself wife but have you ever called your friend out on his behavior that your ex girlfriend was aware of?

If you relate with your friend like nothing happened every time he finishes a panel beater session on his wife, I would be wary of you too. You can tell folks by what they condone or silently support. However, if you’ve ever called your friend out on his behavior or maybe even had the conversation with your girlfriend about how you don’t approve of his behavior, she may not have left (assuming that’s really her reason).

Sorry for you heartbreak. best of luck in your next one

Just recently (last 2 weeks), my girlfriend broke up with me and gave no tangible reason, we have been planning to get married. I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.
Just yesterday evening, I asked her again, she said she broke up with me cause my best friend always beats his wife and I would also end up beating her when we get married. I don't know how she got to know my friend beats his wife, but does that mean I would also be hitting my wife when we get married. I have never been a violent person, I am so disappointed with her, we having been dating for long and she doesn't know who I am.