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My wife delivered twins boys early this year at 7 months but they died few days after their delivery in incubator mainly because they weigh 0.6 kg and 0.5kg and too small. This month again she delivered at 9 months but still the baby died few minutes after delivery and also weighing 0.6kg. What could be the cause and solution having of low weight babies and premature delivery.

@chaircover, i have separated with the other lady for long now and have moved on with my life but i doubt if she have anything in mind against me because even the day i took her back to her parents she confessed in the presence of her kinsmen that i am a good man and never treated her bad in anyway and that i really tried to make it work that all was her fault. Though she ask i should forgive but i couldn't because the feelings i had for her died due to her maltreatment's and with the spiritual problems she is having i believe that my life will be in danger continuing with her. And i remembered when we are courting those days she ones told me that her mother first gave birth to 7 boys without a female child and was worried before the ground mother now took her to a river in our community to performed some sacrifice and after the sacrifice the mother gave birth to her and her two younger sisters and the last girl among them is also having serious mental problems after considering those things i discovered that insisting on being with her might lead to my untimely death and since then God has really blessed me all the things i lost while in the relationship God restored them abundantly. Currently i am very happy with the woman i married she is a wife material but this is the only challenges we are facing now.

@poster I am so sorry for your loss and pray that you never have to bury another child again in your life.

I hope you dont mind me asking. Is this the same wife who you were referring to in this other thread https://www.nairaland.com/807612/marriage-wahala


Please before you go out all spiritual and going from place to place and some wicked people making money out of your situation, please go and get a sound medical opinion first. Are you carrying out good enough antenatal care? A very small baby should have been noticed before your wife put to bed. Are your dates correct? Are you sure the last baby was actually at term? as an example, it may have been possible that wife has an incompetent cervix or something else that is causing her to go into pre-term labour so please try and get to the bottom for this medically first.

May God be with you and your family.
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I have been married to my wife for one year plus now, she gave birth to twins boys early this year at 7 months premature and they died two days after their birth in the incubator, according to the doctor he said that since they are less than one kg that the chances of their survival is 30 %. She conceived again and delivered a baby boy at 9 months and the baby also died few minutes after delivery and also less than 1kg. Now the surprising thing there is that the twins that was delivered 7months premature are less than 1kg then why this one that is up to 9 months weigh the same 0.6kg just like the twins.

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MRbrownJAY: @OP
you have to be real about this issue:
- why didnt you propose marriage FIRST, instead of being careless and mounting her without protection?
- what is the opinion of the LADY in question?
- if you are really deeply in love and cant do without each other (and you have a job to support a young family) then the problem is solved.....marry the gal against her mothers wishes and be done with it all.

I proposed the normal way and also went for introduction which her refused even b4 they discovered that she is pregnant.

I am 32 while she is 23 so we are adults

ifyalways: How old are you and the girl?
I think you can take care of her while she stays with the mom and visits you.The mom might come around after the baby's arrival.

ifyalways: How old are you and the girl?
I think you can take care of her while she stays with the mom and visits you.The mom might come around after the baby's arrival.

i am 32 while she is 23

I am 32 while she is 23 so we are adults

I went for introduction to my girls family but the mother refused my proposals, reason because am a divorcee. I later discovered that the girl is already 5 weeks pregnant for me and yet the mum said over her dead body will i marry her daughter and that she will deliver the baby in their house. Their father is late and i ve tried to convince her elder brothers but discovered that the woman have poisoned their mind.
We are deeply in love and cant do without each other but the problem now is her family. My own family accepted and love her so much. Now she is afraid of loosing the baby because of the beating and wants to run out of the house, she has no place to run to and i don't think is rite for me to allow her move inn with me in my house. Wt should be my next action

I see reasons in what your parents is saying, I suggest you listen to your parents.

How could u laugh over such news, that’s a sign of wickedness and to worsen the whole thing u also went to work the following day showing that u are really mocking him. Will you go to work if it’s your own mum? Is obvious that the laughter is simply a way of showing your relief from his mum’s troubles. I strongly believe that you are mocking your husband for his mother’s death and it can cost your marriage. Though all your actions shows that u happy, but you would have pretended at that moment.
All you need is a change of mind and then prove to him that you meant no harm by going for the burial with him. Ask God to touch his mind.

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@chaircover, they are in my house in Abuja because according to my family they said is wrong to send a woman packing with pregnancy. I was the one taking care of her until she put to bed. Is a very serious spiritual problem

@chaircover, my problem is not even the mental problems because I know that God can deliver and heal her but the fact remains that the family is still into juju stuff because if they are good Christians we can join hands together and fight the problem I believe that nothing is too hard for our lord to do. Even when she is in her normal senses she still misbehaves she can do stupid things for more than ten times in a day and apologize ten times when she regain herself. The baby is just one month old now and I have been sending money for their upkeep.

I dated my wife for 8yrs b4 getting married to her, though we separated for 3yrs during courtship b4 we get married. I am in my early 30's while she is in her late 20's now. We married for 3 yrs without d fruit of the womb, we went to so many hospitals but al the test shows that we are ok. Early last yr she conceived and had a serious attack that affected her in d brain, I took her to so many hospitals but she wasn’t responding to treatments until we consulted some men of God who prayed for her and she got healed though she lost the pregnancy. Her immediate elder sister that is still single had a similar problem and was receiving treatments in d hospital also.
I decided to relocate her abroad to stay with me so I can have a close watch on her, all for her to come and start comparing me with friends, she complains that i shop for her in cheap shops and buys inferior things for her, she calls my female clients to warn them for snatching her husband, she slaps me sometimes when that spirit of madness visits her etc. I lost my job and the little business i was using to support my salary all my clients ran away, life became so miserable for me. I decided to send her back to Nigeria but she said over her dead body will she go to Nigeria and even threatening to call the police for me if I use force on her. But with the prayers of my friends and family members I succeeded in bringing her home. But before leaving abroad she conceived and have put to bed to a bouncing baby boy in Nigeria now.
Now the love is dead already because of what I have gone true and I don’t see any future being with this woman. Pls I need ur advice