Sure, you know that the correct quote is "the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom" but that's a bloody lie perpetuated by religions that know practically nothing about God. They say "God is love" but have no concept of what that means. So here's what it means:


1. If God is love, then God will not do hateful things. You can feel free and safe around God. There is absolutely no need to be afriad of God.


2. If God is love, then God will not kill you for blasphemy or insolence. Rather, you will be given a very long rope. And after you have crossed a lot of lines to finally reach the end of that rope, God will still not act out of spite or vengeance. Rather, God would do whatever is deemed necessary; like having to quarantine you because you've chosen to be a virus! Religions will be petty, humans will be Petty, but God [love] is NOT petty.


3. But if you have reached the end of that long rope, then you have real cause to be afriad of God. Because like an unstoppable train, so will God's judgement crush you. Therefore, only "enemies" of love have any reason to fear God.


4. Are you secretly an enemy of love? Because if you are afraid of God, that is the only explanation. You are doing things contrary to love and you know it deep down. So even though God is not judging you, you worry that you might one day face judgement. So you attend church or mosque as a way to appease God's potential anger. You do these religious things as a way to placate God, not please God. You are not motivated by the love of God, you are motivated by your fear of God.


5. Because you fear God, hatred and foolishness are not far from you. Why? Because God is love and wisdom. So by fearing God, you withdraw from love and wisdom. That's why "the fear of God is the beginning of foolishness"


6. But if you reconsider this fear you have and choose to reconcile with God, your motivations would immediately change. Rather than being religious out of fear, you will do it strictly for love. This will draw you closer to God. And naturally, you will become more like God; loving and wise.


So, the love of God is the beginning of wisdom!

Have you ever heard the names Emanuel Swedenborg or Bahaullah? How about Guatama Buddha, Abrushin, or Joseph Smith?


Chances are some of these names sound familiar while others don't. What you might not know is that every one of them had beautiful insights to share with you, with the world. Some of them even carry more truth about God than the Bible. Some will point you to the heart of God, others will teach you how society should be organized, etcetera. Sadly, all of them have the potential to mislead you. ALL OF THEM, INCLUDING THE POPULAR BIBLE AND QUR'AN.


That warning is not for you to become scared of these books. No, ask for wisdom and guidance as you read, but READ. LEARN. Don't be afraid. Let these teachers educate you on what God and life are really about, not just what you believe in society. If you ask for wisdom and guidance, no one can mislead you. They will only open your mind.


Right now your religion, be it Christianity or Islam, is blocking you from understanding God. Those two religions are notorious for invalidating others. Especially Christianity, so beware if you are a Christian. Ideally, there should be no religion at all in this world. Those names I mentioned are just like Albert Einstein or Arthur Schopenhauer. They were meant to share insights with you, to educate you, not start religions. But due to ignorance, almost all of them started one religion or another. So don't assume that you are meant to be loyal to any religion. No, you are not even supposed to be religious in the first place. Read, learn, and always ask for guidance. No religion has the truth, they only have insights to share, which you are meant to learn.

Child: mother, father, I think the Bible is odd. I want to learn more about Jesus but his story is so tiny. Instead I'm learning about Paul. It's like this is more about other people, not Jesus. Shouldn't we have his whole life story?


Adults: darling, this book was inspired by God. It is the truth. Each author was directed by God on what to write, so don't say such things.


If you have ever made any similar statements in defense of the Bible, you are a dent slowpoke, and you create frustrated atheists. That's why I tackle you specifically.


A sower came to plant good seeds. No sooner than he left, the belligerent humans choked many of those seeds by planting their own weeds. The sower warned before he left that they will do such, and that weed would grow among the seeds, and that it would be necessary to separate the two. But do you heed his warning, oh Christian? No, you preach and teach nonsense to each other, unaware that it is mostly weed and not the original seed planted by the sower. And when the wise among you try to point things out, you group-silence them. You outcast them. Unless they capitulate and sing your silly songs about God. Songs so self-contradictory even monkeys wouldn't sing along "he loves so much, that's why he sent his only son to die brutally, to appease his anger at us"??....what kind of pathetic God is this? You are bunch of wet sponges, period!


Christianity is one of the most beautiful things that happened to the modern world. I will not speak harshly at you if you weren't making the same mistakes the Jews made, the Chosen people, when they stopped using their brains and became closed-minded retards. You think Christianity is under attack, right? The Jews assume the same things: the world hates us because we stand with God! How wrong. Christianity is NOT under attack, it is being retired. Just like the Jews had their privileges given to the gentiles. A brighter light (the truth) is here and retiring the old light. So keep up or be left behind while atheists and agnostics embrace the truth. Did he not say he will return? But Bible said he will come in fancy clouds, right? The Jews also thought he would come as king of the world. Jesus punk'd them, came as a pauper. They are still butthurt till today.


I am dissapointed that you have these examples, his warnings, and yet you monkey things up. So, like the Jews, you've been punk'd! Like the Pharisees, you are lost. He has come among you like a thief in the night. The question is: can you recognize him? You are blind, deaf, and dumb because you are too busy quoting Bible and Book of Revelations and whatnot. As I said, a brighter light is here to retire the dull weak corrupted old light. If you have ears, hear. If you have questions, ask. The one thing you no longer have is excuse.

Kobojunkie:
Alienhunter, so what exactly is the reason behind this post of yours?

That is a foolish question. The post clearly ends with "if you have ears, hear"

So if you want to ask a specific question, you ask that. I have not written anything for trivial minds or passive comments.

Hello,

Here's a question: a half-educated person or a complete illetrate, who do you think is easier to educate?


If you picked the complete illetrate, you are correct. The half-educated person would be claiming I-already-know-whats-up instead of just learning. But the illetrate would be humble, making your work easier.


A Christian is just like that half-educated person. They have been exposed to Jesus Christ, the truth. They have been exposed to the Bible, the book from those that God officially chose to deal with. So, the Christian quotes the Bible, claims Jesus, and consider everything else wrong. If you hear people call Christians hypocrites, it's not just for pretending etcetera, it is your way of seeing life. As a legit Christian, you are automatically a hypocrite unless you betray the Christian way of seeing life. Notice that some Christains don't really reason like Christians or take the Bible too seriously? These are the golden exceptions that can be educated. As for everyone else, you will not believe that these statements apply to you as a Christian:

"Lukewarm....I will spit you out"
"He came among his own but they knew him not"
"Idol worshippers"
"They will say Lord, lord, and I will say get away from me, you workers of iniquity"

These things sound strange, but rest assured it's fact. If you are privileged to know God personally, you will be shocked that Christians are primarily THE enemies of God today. Not that they mean to be, but God's truth was corrupted long ago and practically turned upside down. God would easily make the corrections today if not for that half-educated attitude that prevents Christains from learnning. So, just like the Jews and Pharisees, Christians view corrections as lies from the devil and reject, rather than embrace the full truth. Do you see the twist, the problem? If the truth was not compromised, Christians would be fine. But the full truth has long been lost. You carry a book of half-truth mixed with toxic lies. That's why you are half-educated and often stand against God without realizing it.

Now what is an example of an illetrate? You see that man below, he is a proper juju man. He calls God Olodumare, a supreme being of the universe. He does not feel entitled to God, he feels like a distant subject of the almighty. He has a great deal of respect for Olodumare. If per chance Olodumare reached out to correct his ideology, he would feel so honored. He would listen, learn, and never antagonize the almighty. He would not murder a "Jesus Christ" figure. So in the end, he has a better chance with God than the Jews, Pharisees, Saducees, Atheists, and especially Christians who are half-educated and fighting off the corrections, the full truth. If you have ears, hear.

Next time you enter a fancy airplane or see one fly by, remember these heroes. Without their efforts, their failures, there would be no airplanes today.

Africans, Nigerians, please look beyond ordinary feeding, finance, travel, survival......look to the stars. Solutions (to all problems plaguing Nigeria) lie in that one factor.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Je8wxnoEkug

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9JAFULLBREED:

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Workch:
You are feeding jargons. What re you feeding?

Nonsense from the Bible? Joker

Hi. I understand how you feel about this stuff, especially once money is mentioned. I do not know this OP, I have zero affiliations with them, but I do know God, and it will be unfair of me to walk away without clarifying this general misconception. So please take a moment...

Whether or not you believe in God does not matter right now, let's just talk like two everyday people. Let's say you go to Thailand and decide to get laid. You see this pretty girl, nice boobs and butt. She bats her eyelashes at you, you're game. You get naked only to discover she has a penis. She is a ladyboy (they are plenty in Thailand) you freak out and run away. The next day you see another pretty girl, sexy features, smiling at you....you walk the other way. But, she was actually a cute girl. Do you see where I'm going?

Charlatans or scammers exist in all industries, not just religion. Sometimes you can't even tell the difference between a fake and original product. But do you stop patronizing EVERYTHING because fake exists?

Now to explain the God part: God does not print Fiat money, and humans are SUPPOSED to serve each other. A spiritual person is like a scienstist. He/she dedicates their life to serving people in one way, and those people (or the state) fund him/her to continue their work. No hustling, no charity case, just mutual service. Do you get the picture? Ignorance is why such people are left to fend for themselves in this world. Many of them fall and begin scamming gullible people.

Dear @seun and mods,

Congratulations on NOT reacting to this blunt stuff here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7070166/nigerian-more-than-bloody-slave

Although it would be even more honorable if a mod would move it to front page. Who else will flog sense into Nigerians if not Nigerians!


Truly, criticism is healthy when it is true. There's a movie, Django Unchained, where one of the characters played by Leonardo DiCaprio, accused black people of having three dimples of ignorance (just summarizing here). That "theory" was totally made up by Hollywood, yet it holds true in reality. To cut the long story short, can you guys introduce a new room titled Philosophy or Reason? Can you encourage people to think? Young Nigerians need more than party and romance and politics and wannabe-western intelligence. Wole Shoyinka, Chinua Achebe, Chimamanda, etc, these "icons" are useless Western-educated sellouts. Breed original African thinkers who'd become the engine that transforms Africa.

Dear @seun you can aim higher than just social comfort. You can instigate greatness in people.

truthCoder:


Can you summarize your point?

All these words and i have no clue of what you want to say.

I take back all I said to you. You are correct and wise. Enjoy your day.

truthCoder:


Voodoo is a form of religion that involves sorcery and black magic.

Magic is the application of beliefs, rituals or actions employed in the belief that they can subdue or manipulate natural or supernatural beings and forces.(Wikipedia).

In the past, people revered magic. Nowadays, the behind-the-scene workings of any magical sequence can be understood as they all involve tricks, sleight of hands and other skills learnt and practiced with time.

Magic has been the corner piece of religion.

Almost every religion has one form of magic or another.

To understand magic, you need to first understand the classifications of people within a religion. We have the tricksters and the tricked.

The tricksters know the secrets and rituals. They know the processes to recreate the tricks and they keep this knowledge a secret. We also have the tricked. This is the majority of the members of any religion. They are the sheep.

Fear is a currency spent in every religion. Mr A must do XYZ or ABC will happen to him. If he doesn't do the XYZ, the tricksters know how to ensure ABC happens to Mr A. Many means are employed.

No Voodoo can stand the test of logic. No spiritual magic can be replicated if all the tools of the tricksters are removed.

Voodoo or juju or black magic or sorcery are all tricks employed by the religious tricksters to keep people in perpetual fear.

They employ poisons, venoms, murder, arson and any tool to keep people in fear.

I always like the story of Moremi from Ife whose people were being ravaged in battle by a group of 'spirits'. These 'spirits' didn't look human and moremi decided to unravel the mystery so she allowed herself to be captured. At the next raid, she was taken by these invading spirits to their place. When they got there, she discovered that the spirits were actually humans who were dressed in raffia to look like spirits. So she escaped and went back to her people to tell them this secret. The next time the spirits attacked, the people of Ife were ready with fire. Suddenly, the spirits were afraid of fire as they didn't want to get burnt and ran away.

A recent comment from you brought me to your page. I liked the reasoning there. But, as with all intelligence on earth, you have made the inevitable blunder. Whether it is Jordan Peterson or a random Kevin Yue I'm admiring, they all fall into this trap; getting over their heads.

Let me give you a tip (because you have potential), intelligence is no different from wealth or political power. It can be developed. And if you aren't extremely vigilant, it will consume you the same way power corrupts. It will be your doom. Beware.

Now, to your general mindset about religions: you are like a train that was on track and then derailed because you assume too much. In this particular post, you try to explain magic away. Yet you clearly have no clue how real magic works. Wisdom is you NOT explaining what you do not understand, like God or the history of mankind. If you attempt it, your ignorance will stink like a skunk, as it does here. And when the wise attempt to explain what they do not fully understand, they always leave a caveat that says "I don't know, maybe I missed something" lest they misguide others. If you are reckless with intelligence, you abuse power.

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djon78:


As in eh

I won't lie, some of the greatest blessings I have gotten was when I wasn't that committed to God

But when I dey committed that's when things look rough
Praying, fasting etc



This made me realize God's grace. His grace comes to us when we are unworthy

But when we feel we are worthy, that our efforts as humans makes us worthy,that's when we struggle in life.

Ever since I simply rely on God's grace. I can never be worthy of any blessings He gives me. Only by His Mercy and Grace. Not by anything I do

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Fuckgodndjesus:
Bullshit she said God saved her but the same useless god couldn't save all his children that have been used for rituals I guess they weren't true Christians like her.

While I do not give a hoot about this post or the poster or any church or any religion for that matter, I am drawn to you.

I accidentally bumped into your profile while randomly googling stuff online. You used the words "cunt" "useless" etc to address God. And your username says it loudest. Listen, your beef with humanity, with religion, should never be extended to God. But who am I to lecture you? You are free to think and speak as you wish. Advice is only useful for people who have brains. Do you? I ask sincerely.

Religion is full of crap, and you only know religion, not God. Yet, no one will judge you for being uncouth. A word is enough.

SKhanmi:


I agree with your writeup except for this part, shows you're no different, brilliant and radical? Yes, but still brainwashed like others with no real grasp of history & probably suffering from an acute case of self hate. Nothing as worse as an European mind in an African body. It's a travesty.

Try and study more, maybe you'll discover how the current state of world affairs happened due to deliberate actions & the consequences that followed. While you're at it, keep a lookout on how it affected the psych of the population. Japan , SA and India are notable mentions.

Which way Africa by Basel Davidson is a great way to start, Smart ass.

I was tempted not to reply, but I couldn't resist your intellctual-wannabe response. Did you honestly consider my write-up "smartass, brilliant, radical"? Lol. Okay, radical maybe, but those other two terms better be sarcasm. I did not write anything remotely smart or researched, I was spitting venom. I made that clear, that I was insulting your entire lineage, perhaps with an end goal to rouse some dignity in you (if there's any left). But what is your response, a contest of intelligence? Why are you nitpicking? Who cares what about an historical reference if the point is clear? Oh wait, dweebs. Dweebs care. Typical.

What did I said again? Something about slaves not seeing the bigger picture? Ah yes, a truly intelligent person gets the bigger point of the write up, reflects on it and makes changes to their mindset if necessary. But you, your kind, you debate who is better between Tinubu and some cow. You feel smart, too, calling each other names and being unjustifiably rude. Very well, you're the clever intellectual here. I'm a historical noob. Read my write-up again, see if it makes any sense this time around.

I normally consider the entire human race as retarded, with a few individuals as exceptions. Yes, America and Europe and UK are full of ghetto humans. Even Oxford and Harvard education is trash. Earth is only relatively civilized, still far from true civilization. But you know how people call God king of kings and lord of lords? Nigeria is ghetto of ghettos and scum of scums. At least until you stop reasoning like bloody slaves. You will sit down there while some old folks play your destiny like nairabet. You think anyone will hand feedom to you? Yeah, typical slave! There are a few Nigerians who are like Toussaint Louverture or James Forten, but these do not get any support from anywhere. Oh and you'd think a kick in a balls like this should be on front pages, printed on newspapers, broadcast on radio. But alas, backwards mentality will see it as an insult or boycott it out of fear, trapping society in penury, misery, and mediocrity.

But this is not only a black problem. No, it is a human problem. There are people worse in mentality than blacks, the blacks just stand out because their skin absorbs too much sunlight- they can't even give ordinary sunlight back to the atmosphere, they absorb everything then get black from the selfishness. Black is beautiful my arse! No race is beautiful unless they radiate beauty. Thats why blacks look ugly, and whites look beautiful- it is about the heart! If Abraham Lincoln did not have support from fellow white people, the abolishing would not work. Just look at that- millions of whites ready to die for a bunch of slaves who cannot even reward their sacrifices. Now you, a modern Nigerian, would sit down there too terrified to liberate your own people, too stingy to support another person trying to do it, too selfish to work for the great good.

But when I looked around me, I saw fools!! These fools, young and old, wake up each day and exist. They live. I don't get it. They go to work and come back home, talk about the hardships, complain about the government, but keep on living. Again, I don't get it. Why are you not dead? Is it because you are working on some grand plan? No? You're just living, trying to survive each day. Trying to make lemonades. Trying to travel out of the country. Oh I get it, you are slaves, and I am not. That's why I cannot grasp your reasoning, and you cannot grasp mine. You think I am extreme, radical, excessive, etc. That is exactly why the slaves chose their survival or over freedom, or death. Look at them today, still eeking out a living, still complaining about their lot in life, still the ridicule of the world, still a bloody joke to the whites and to me, and to anyone like me. Yes, I'm a racist prick. Hug a transformer!

A wise bird once whispered in my ears: any country with terrible leaders has terrible citizens. I frowned. The bird was spot on. It read my mind and brought up old frustrations. Truly, in my years living in Nigeria, I was always pissed off. I was NOT OKAY. I wanted to kill somebody, to die, to do whatever it takes to take my country into a better state. I hated seeing people looking so miserable, so tired, but trying to survive the situation. I hated buying something in the market for ridiculously inflated prices, and the vendor says: ah, my broda, na so we see am o! I wanted to buy stapler and staple the the vendor's lips together for saying rubbish. I wanted to boycott all the filling stations, block all the roads, talk the police into cooperating for their own good, talk the military into civil disobedience.


I wanted to kidnap all the lame owners of radio stations and turn the radio into propaganda machines against the status quo. I wanted to cause intelligent unrest until Nigeria makes sense. I was not afraid that people may die, that I might be murdered, that society might turn upside down. I Thought: is society not already upside down?? Is this economic torture not already killing innocent people?? Infact, is it not killing everybody slowly?? Do Nigerians have any dignity home or abroad?? Do Nigerian kids have a dignified future anywhere?? So what the heck is there to be afriad of?? This is bondage. Home or abroad, it is still bondage. I want freedom, period!

Whether you have travelled or you're still in the process or you're forever grounded in Nigeria, this is for you. And will not spare any horses. Where do I even begin....

Okay, why not start with this very website. The unofficial official forum for Nigeria. It perfectly represents the Nigerian mentality: stagnant, afraid of change, and ready to silence changemakers. Yes, Nigerians do that. You withhold support and instead actively work against positive instigators because you worry about your interests- your kids, your business, your life. Look at this website- influencial, can cleverly galvanize society and cause real change, but too afraid to even upgrade it's user interface...too afraid to be fingered by the government, too afraid to lose its job, too afraid to make sacrifices. Oh wait I forgot, you are trying to preserve some culture, right? That's why you will not update the UI, right? Yes, that is the excuse most backwards societies give. They resist evolution. They cannot see any bigger pictures, only the immediate mediocre gains they are used to. The UI is not a problem, your general attitude just stinks from behind it.

The gender wars have been on for much longer than most people realize. Like, since antediluvian times. But that's history. Today, both sexes throw blames back and forth. Some diplomatic "sense-bringers" try to share blames equally. Futile. If an explosion was caused by a spark, do you blame the gas tanks or the matches? No, you don't blame anyone; you simply find the cause of the explosion and educate everybody. Then future matches will not cause future explosions around gas tanks, or the gas tanks will warn the matches before disaster strikes. Problem solved! Political correctness is not wisdom.


You see, when God recommended one man and woman in marriage, it was one unspoiled man and one unspoiled woman. That was the whole point of the virginity drama; being unspoiled, especially as a female. Why the emphasis on females? Because sexual recklessly scars them in deep ways, and because they hold all the power of society. Females are directly responsible for much of the world's problems. Ever heard the saying: with great power comes great responsibility? That's why emphasis are on females to be emotionally and mentally pure. But ofcourse, society does not get it. They ruin girls' sanity and purity in the name of false female power. So here's true female power:


When a human girl is born, she immediately begins training to be a good mother. That's why girls are into dolls. Along the way, enthusiastic young lads will try their luck with her. But the girl will "mother" the boy by lovingly putting him in his place, just as a real mother would. This helps to sharpen her skills and also tame the boy. He will extend the feelings he has with his mom to her; love, respect, admiration, etc. He will go from being enthusiastic about sex to being responsible with his feelings. That balance eventually leads to respectful harmonious relationships between males and females. So, the girl learns motherhood very early, and the guy learns fatherhood mostly by her influence. On the surface, you will see calm dominant males with their submissive female partners. But underneath, the female runs the show. The couple then transfer these qualities to their kids, on and on.


So, what goes wrong? Well, it is society's ignorance. A young girl has no idea why she has motherly instincts. Her parents have no idea too. No one helps her develop herself. When enthusiastic young lads show up, she has no mechanism ready to handle them. She soon falls for their antics. Sadly, she is spoiled physically and mentally. Her sexual energy scatters as if someone opened Pandora's box. She feels it, and her self esteem is destroyed. The lad also becomes confused. Really, he expected to be lovingly put in his place. But instead he's having sex. He tries other girls, same results. Then he loses respect for the female folk and himself. Unless he has a very good mother whose influence overpowers his dissapointment, or he has a very good father who understands/explains women to him early, he WILL sleep around. If he lacks confidence, he will find other ways to express. Also, he is irresponsible. Not that he drinks and smokes, but that he never learned fatherhood, period. Even if he provides for his family, even if he is a "good dad" by society's standards, he is a terrible father. And girls are a mystery to him.


Most guys quickly learn to have insurance against the weak females; don't fully commit to them, have backup chic, become rich, etc. Ofcourse it all backfires. They are digging sad pits. Even the rich guy is still not happy despite having babes on speed dial. He does not trust any of them. He says scornfully: dis bitches ain't loyal. The "bitches" reply: yes, because men are cheats! He agrees with them. Indeed he is a playboy and he knows it. He has no idea why though. He thinks it's natural. Animals do it. So he's embraced the "alpha male" role, banging chics from Benin to Bangkok. It's killing him. But who's to blame the human male. The females are the true power, they hold that responsibility. If they are clueless, society is doomed from top to bottom.

Responsible parents don't wait to be held accountable for anything. They simply take responsibility and spare the child that drama and awkwardness.


You know how older ladies started a campaign about how age is nothing but a number? Yes, likewise adults have no rights to trace any problems to the legit source and call a spade a spade. *Cough

revolt:
how many other societies overseen by men have stable power... do I start mrntiom... oh I forgot... ALL.
Nigerias is one of the failures of men... out of the many successes.

Dude, where are you? Reading this thread and seeing that most of the points I totally agree with were made by you. Interesting!

In other news: Kamala Harris will officially become the president of the United States, which is jackpot for feminists/Democrats. That was their plan. With Russia's Putin about to lose his influence, society will fall into the hands of women. From there, it will look fine on the surface but rot underneath. Great would be the collapse of society, either because China outsmarted the west or because the women at the helm made dumb decisions. Funny, I actually root for women, but I almost hate the typical Western woman attitude. They should never be allowed to even sniff powerful chairs.

TheGidRedpiller:
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Most of you thought it was just me and of course also thought i was taking to advantage of the engagements but as of late, there are more and more males coming out here to speak up and pour their hearts out so they don't point a gun to the forehead of their mothers and pull the trigger when they can't contain themselves anymore!!

IT IS SCARY!! I thought my situation was rear, many of the males who talk about these things actually send me mails thanking me for giving them the courage to share their stories, BECAUSE I POSTED FIRST!!

I recently talked to the one who posted very recently, Moz22, you all should know him because he actually hit front page like i did, after i finished talking to him, do you know what he said? "....PERFECT!!" i didn't even really expressed my points to him like i wanted to but he already related like i was living in his head the whole time!
Young Men Are Going Down IN TRAUMA!!

Still Typing...

Funny, some people read this and immediately conclude that whoever wrote it has issues. Well, of course they do. That's the whole point of his venting. But instead of judging, why not try understand his pain first. I do not yet know why he/they are angry at their mothers, but I am sure that there's a reason, and I would be willing to understand that reason first.


Generally speaking, why is this person angry? Probably because his life got messy at some point and he traced much of his emotional struggles back to his mother. Is this possible? Absolutely, a boy child can be severely scarred by his mom just as a girl child can be scarred by her Dad. And if society scolds the angry boy for being angry, you can also scold all the abused girls for being mostly dysfunctional women. Is that not victim shaming?


You see, society is pathologically biased towards the male folk. It does not even acknowledge their real pain, talk less of address it.

Now , to the op:

As I said, I do not know your personal beef with your mother. There could be a thousand reasons, and it might even be deeper than what you believe on the surface. I do not hate my mother; quite the contrary. But I admit that she has given me enough reasons to hate her. Much of that was due to her selfishness, insensitivity, and poor judgement. But in her defense, she has gone through a lot in life before becoming who she is. So I cut her some slack. I do not judge her by her actions/bias/reasoning, I simply set boundaries so that she cannot keep harming me with those things. A lot of mothers have directly caused the downfall of their sons (career choices, love life, and overall happiness) while thinking that they want the best for you. A lot of them are extremely selfish and illogical, and would rather jeopardize your well-being for their own satisfaction. Of course, none of this is intentional. If such a mother could understand what she really did, what she caused, I assure you she will break down in tears. So instead of hating and punishing her for her weaknesses, try a more loving approach like talking to her as a friend. Go back to the roots of your anger and address the matters together. Sadly, many mothers will ruin that effort with their I-am-your-mother egos. But still try. If she ruins your efforts, then move on to boundaries. You can distance yourself and demote her from that "mother" position in your heart. Make her just another regular chic in your life. Yes, that is you taking the power away from her; she can no longer hurt you. But DO NOT DISRESPECT YOUR MOTHER.

A great responsibility was given to women since the beginning to time. To this day, majority of them have no clue what it is. They feel like the weaker sex, act all insecure, and cause almost all the problems in the world. Of course, they blame men for the problems. Only a few remain unspoiled and wise. These ones properly represent the divine female of this universe. And if you knew who that is, you will maintain maximum respect for all women regardless. Even if a clueless lady/mother decides to be a pig, you will refuse to get into their mud.