I have a great phobia for long courtship, if I can make an excuse for you I will say you are hoping you have a relationship because of the distance between you. But come to think of it does it mean you were apart these 9 years and you never gave another man a chance Please don't get me wrong I don't mean sleeping around but i mean being a good friend to some other nice guy out there. I don't want you to feel bad but girl friend I don't believe in putting my eggs in one basket. Its not late if you will agree with me since you have not tied the knots, pull yourself together girl and get a life.
If you are the person pushing for the wedding to take place I will suggest you should hold on, allow him to take the lead in the whole preparation now and use that to know how serious he has ever being in that relationship. If you will agree with me allow him to live out the way he wants don't try to stop him because i believe that if a guy wants to be committed in a relationship you don't need a soothsayer to tell you.

But I have come to realise one thing, that most times the guy in question will do every possible thing to show a lady that he is no longer interested but the lady instead of opening her eyes wide enough to see or ask questions to be cleared rather chooses to stay put hoping that the guy will change because she has spent so much time in there. I tell you whoever has been fortunate enough to have a break up after a long relationship should take it as a period of training to learn more about male and female behaviour and be better equipped for settling down.

Girl friend I don't mean to bore you with my epistle but I feel i should throw more light on the issue at hand, VERY LONG COURTSHIP does not normally end in marriage because both parties always get bored with each other most especially when they are sleeping with each other. Please you need to pray hard and seriously too before choosing a life partner no matter how long you have been together for God's guidiance because I believe He has a better plan for you and all His children.

All the best girl but I suggest you Leave that guy someone who will cherish you more is around the corner.

Wills my dear,

Instead of you to say thank you to Dekie for the correction given to you, OLODO , I now realised how you managed to have stayed in all the major cities of Nigeria.

Thanks Techie please help and educate them on the realities of life.

@ Toplass

I Agree with U my dear.

My dear Wills.I read ur piece and wonder what part of this planet u live in.Do u work?cuz if u do,and especially in a place like lagos,then you would know that surviving day-in day-out in itself is a very big risk.At this stage i can only say that proper investigations be carried out to ascertain the cause of death, and if  necessary safety measures were put in place by NB,if not then they should bear the consequences.

Back to my point,making a living is a very big RISK,do u know what it means to leave ur home at 5am every working day?well, ask lagosians, and then for how much?not to mention having ur car break down on the third mainland bridge at night.have u eva been in a "molue"My dear i never heard a company pay for the result of such encounters.

Do u know how many people competed and lost to get on the Search?well,they carried their bags and went home.

The young man in question had his eyes on a whooping 5million + a brand new car etc for a 3 weeks challenge,i bet u,he considered the RISK, but he knew the difference winning or simply participating will make.if u doubt this,ask Timi the Idol. i dont work for NB,I dont have friends or family who work there either so dont think i'm being sentimental.

The simple truth is that this is a REALITY SHOW and in real life people die my brother,so let us Mourn and move on.This is Life.

Anybody that has lost 'Liver' should go home,


Abeg who knows when the TV show will resume,we are waiting,

Want to get a nigerian guy to stop calling you? say after me 'send me recharge card'