Somebody will comment his own opinion jeje, then one unfortunate soul will come and attack him. Why won’t we be cussing each other?

People should learn to reply without insulting especially when the comment you’re responding to is not an insult.

Ayotemide:


Irani WO leleyi nso?

You would say all these if your relative died in that avoidable death abi.

Now you’re just being irrational.

Every structure has a maximum load it can carry. If it is loaded with more than that it will fail/collapse.

That is all the guy said. I guess you didn’t understand that’s why you lashed out at him.

Example 1: No matter how sturdy your dining table at home is, it cannot carry the weight of an elephant. It doesn’t mean the table wasn’t well made. It just means the table was not made to carry that amount of load.

You’re thinking too hard. The fact that she is interested in you is a good sign. It means you don’t have to seek to control her. Where is the joy in controlling a lover anyway? Some people may object though.

You are enough for her. Seek to improve yourself, for yourself. That alone is attractive to her. Do not compete with her. You would end being obnoxious and may lose her at the end. “Hold your side” and you will be fine.

If you are one of those guys who believe a man must always be richer than his babe, then you have no business dating her. Let her go cos your ego will get in the way, eventually.

ADRIAN88:
Trying so hard to be Beyoncé.

Hello hater. Perhaps I should abase myself to humour you with a reply.

There is nothing wrong with her trying to be like Beyoncé, even though that is not the case at all.

Beyoncé is an Icon. Besides, the very same Beyoncé knows and values Tiwa enough to have featured her on her most recent, soon-to-be bestselling album of all time.

Who are you? And who is trying to be like you? Your guess is as good as mine. Nobody. Not even the lowliest. That’s right.

Hustle, so you can express criticism that would make important people quake.

Now swerve.

czarina:
It's still brown. Just a darker shade.

Black is a laptop charger, Black is charcoal, Black is a Bagco bag, Black is your pair of "black shoes", black is a sleek black Benz, Black is a black suit, Black is the back of that pot used on open fires.




This is not black. This is brown.

If they don’t get it after all this, they’d never get it. Lol.

donbachi:
Even if my wife catch me untop..i go just pull.."wetin i dey do here,how i take reach here and who una be"..i form like sey d other woman charm me..i go even ask my wife,who she herself be?

“wetin I dey do here”

Ah! You are a pro.

darfay:
We should respect her religion

There are other devout Muslims wearing the proper uniform. If she felt the mandatory service conflicted with the tenets of her faith, she should have opted out.

The uniform will not change. The NYSC was not created to disrespect her religion. She should respect her country and dress properly.

Livefreeordieha:
u deserve all the best that life can offer and in my joy to read what u wrote I decree goodness and uncommon favour shall never depart from u in Jesus name, Amen..

Wow. Amen and thanks. I’m glad you resonate with this on such a fundamental level. I appreciate your kind words.

chiagozien:
Yoruba revolution,let see how it goes,

NO be yoruba people again.




If you are an Igbo man dont join them in their so called revolution,

remember 1966 coup how they tag it igbo coup.if something bad happen on the process these same yorubas will tag it igbo revolution.

Also Remember that to the northerns and most yorubas,the only people against this government is Igbo.
Go to sahara reporter facebook page and read yoruba muslims comments then you will understand what am
saying.


Some of them have
already start denying sowore even when nothing have happen,telling you that he is ijaw man from ondo.

Read what you wrote. Are you not ashamed?

Some of you come online to post bigotry as if you don’t have any friend from other ethnic groups. Maybe you schooled in your home state and have worked there all this while but it’s impossible for you not to have met anyone from another tribe that could be a friend. Well, unless you were raised to be a diehard bigot. Not implausible from what you’ve written though.

GrammarNazi1:


...crave.

I like this guy. One bottle of beer for you.

If it is established that she lied with malicious intent, she should spend a few years in jail to get a taste of the life she set the man up for.

Unfortunately this isn’t the case. Rape is a crime but false rape allegations isn’t. It’s regarded as a civil offence. The worst the man (victim) can do is sue her for defamation. Even then, people will bully the victim into forgiving the liar or asking for an apology.

Funny that we can criminalise tax evasion but not false rape allegations.

There is a world of difference between protest and revolution.

What is worrisome is that a contender for the presidency is spearheading this revolution. There is no country in this world that would receive a threat (a plan in this case) to revolt and do nothing.

Not true.

What that means is you have a 1/4 chance of having an AA baby, every time your wife gets pregnant. Same chance with SS. But you have a slightly higher chance (2 in 4) of having an AS baby for every pregnancy.

My advice? Break up. Managing SS is not easy or cheap. Medical procedures to alter the genes are experimental and not cheap as well.

Abort mission.

khiaa:


Stupid is a description of you. You wear it well.

Sweetheart, your middle name is stupid. Scroll up to see your unfortunate post.

You need no other validation.

freethinker01:

Why on earth would I hustle because I want a girl or some girls to enjoy my money?
That's the most fvcked up shiit I've heard all day, in fact, this ruined my day.

I am sorry it ruined your day, man. I have only settled for the unfortunate reality that patriarchy has conditioned guys to be providers for their love interests. It is such an unfair notion, but we live in this world.

khiaa:


Ignorant (me) means not knowing but can learn.
Stupidity (you) means not knowing but to dumb to learn.

Looks like you’re stupîd by your own definition.

khiaa:


There is nothing sad about ignorance, it only means a person doesn't know something but can always learn, you on the other hand are stupid, now that's sad.

Ignorance per se is not sad but in your case, it is really tragic. Why? ‘Cause you tried to be savage about something you knew next to nothing about.

Like I said earlier, you should travel more. Use the internet for reasonable purposes like learning how big and diverse this world is.

You shouldn’t be so proud to show the world how ignorant you are.

Chi59:


"Your point being?" is a question
"That's a stupid point" is an insult.

I created this thread to deal with the issues concerning what females need in a relationship.
He raised the issue of security and I wasn't exactly getting his point so I asked to know.

You, my friend have no point. A taste of my medicine? Bollocks. Take several seats, please.

Do not attempt to derail this thread any further.

Where do I even start from?

Questions can be insults. Questions can be rude. But you know what? You’re right.

Ryan03:
wow! just wow! do we still have your type in this forum? where were you hiding? abet follow back

Following back straight!

Ryan03:
we have babes who are not materialistic but you just have to assist her in some things. a friend of mine that have a good working class babe just lost her because he never gives her anything. she don't ask either but last week, she asked for 8k to make hair and my guy said he can't give it to her cause it is too much. his reason was that his salary is 50, how can she demand for such amount for hair? this is a very loyal babe, ask for nothing, even buy you stuffs. the babe just lock up, when he told me, I told him he was wrong o

8K out of 50k salary. Your guy probably did some quick maths and thought 8k was too much to spare at the time. I would have paid it anyway, since it was the first time.

You see, this universal culture of patriarchy conditions Ladies to be dependent and guys to be “providers”. Guys should take care of their babes, guys should pamper their babes. Patriarchy. That’s our reality today.

Man’s got to hustle hard to level up.

The things we’ve done in our youth ehn.

Only God can save us.

Chi59:


I just modified my post. Yes, my post was curt, brisk but not rude.
Why do some of you on this platform feel insulted by everything? If you're that old and higher than the rest, why don't you simply deactivate your account?

Lol. Do you even know the meaning of “Curt”?

Look here darling, I’m not in the mood for any brawl. You were rude and he gave you a taste of your own medicine and somehow you found it hard to swallow. That’s your problem.

And why do you think I’m older or “higher” (whatever that means) than the rest? The rest what? Perhaps you observed that I don’t respond like a number of juveniles who entertain you here. Perhaps you should not be too quick to give terse replies. Perhaps you should be open minded.

Chi59:


Rude? There was a reason I created this thread. He mentioned security. And I'm like "how do you mean" and I'm rude?

You did not say “how do you mean?”. You said:

Chi59:


Your point being?

This reply is curt, at best.

Temmywrites:


Lol... I'm feeling you my guy

Thank you.

MrBrownJay1:


Do you have English comprehension issues?

This is unfair. You could have let her off easy even though she was rude.

You raised excellent points. Many times, women need intangible things in relationships. Things they didn’t know they needed, until someone with those qualities walked right into their lives.

Some beautiful comments here. I love threads like this cos we get to discuss helpful issues. I would like to contribute but I am putting a twist on it.

Sometimes, cases like this one are not about choosing the wrong career or form of schooling. Sometimes it’s sheer laziness on the part of those kids.

I believe every little child is pliable. You can mould them into what you desire. And yes, parents have a big say in the careers of their children.

My dad was a very successful and respected Professional in his field before he retired, but he still insists he doesn’t feel fulfilled and that he should have studied another course, because he has such an easy flair in it (he tried his hands at the basics and wowed us all). I have no doubt he would have been successful in that course as well, and you know why? He has an excellent work ethic.

Regardless of the chosen field, every child must be encouraged to work hard (esp. mentally) and sleep less. There is a reason your successful bosses look like tireless machines, who only want you to work, work and work, like they do. That’s how they got to the top. “That’s how star do.”

Elon Musk said in an interview that sometimes he worked 80 hour weeks! That’s crazy! But that’s passion too. I’m not going to do that to myself anyway- at least not in my field. That’s going to take a huge toll on every member of the team.

One of the most difficult fields of study is music (composing for and playing instruments). To become a legend, you need a lot more than just talent. In fact, talent only helps you knock on the door. Hard and smart work gets you in. Most (if not all) of the “greats” spent long hours practicing relevant exercises, honing their skills. That is work ethic. You might argue that Davido and Wizkid (who are singers, by the way) don’t go through all of that but if you knew the hours they put in gruelling, strategic work, you’d salute them.

If a kid is lazy, she would most likely fail in ANY field.

Well, I shouldn’t really blame many people in Naija especially those in Lagos for not being among the top skilled innovators in the world. “Go slow” is really debilitating. They just want to take a bath and sleep when they get home after the mad traffic. Hardly any time for personal development.