DonnaCorleone:


Awww, sweetheart For your sake I hope he's for real. That'll mean there's hope out there

Be happy. I wish both of you everlasting love.

Amen and I pray you find yours soon. God bless you

DonnaCorleone:


Yeah, please stop overthinking & go with the current. Even if he turns out to be a loser, I'm sure you can & will survive.

I hope there's more of him wherever heaven he fell from

sure . Can't stop thanking you

DonnaCorleone:


My dear, stop looking for trouble where there is none & just accept happiness for what it is. If you've been hurt in the past, maybe this is karma's way of repaying you back for the pain you endured. Don't they say men are not all the same? Maybe he's the living proof to that urban legend Sounds like you've found the ever elusive Prince Charming, so don't screw this up by creating drama out of thin air. Just enjoy & be happy.

What could he possibly ask that you cannot afford to give him? A kidney? Sex? What? I just don't get you or your fears.

Very many thanks to you my sister. You really spoke well. My ugly experience with guys in the past make me wonder that there could be someone different

DonnaCorleone:
This is how you recognize people who've never held on to quality & are used to being treated like trash.

He's nice. So what exactly is your issue now?

my fear is that will he not ask for something I can't afford later? The way he's nice scare me. I love him so dearly

firstking01:
You are wellcome dear, btw, where in ph are you cos you seem farmiliar?

Hmmmm! Really? Ada George

RZArecta:
is the level of alcohol intake okay with you ? (i.e. those type of guys who will level a crate of beer at Casablanca) I don't see why you shouldn't date him especially if he has something doing (job or private business) during the course of the relationship you'll know him well enough to decide if he's what you want in life

his level of alcohol is ohkay and hardly hang out in those places you mention. He's presently searching for a job, it's my earnest prayer he find one soon

firstking01:
Sweery, still givit time, with time his true colour will surfice...you knw some guys can go any length to get inbetween those your froshy laps;P...just be very careful and givit sometime, truth is, there's always an elasticity in every extention...weather his intentions are genuine or not, it must show with time.

many thanks

ErnieSmallzz:
he is too nice and too good 4 u?

OK you know what Introduce me to him, and i promise you that you are gonna hear bou our Wedding bells very soon

, no

ndujekwu:
Provoke him and see how he reacts. At that point, u can make ur judgement about love

Hmmmmm. Like wat level o provocation?

RZArecta:
That is why relationships/courtship was invented so you can study a person's (potential spouse) character and see if it's something you can potentially live the rest of your life with. You've seen the good side and you're satisfied (?) what of the bad side ? Does he drink alcohol too much ? Does he smoke, womanize, beat ? Is he dirty ? If there are some "bad" things you can endure our see nothing wrong with then you're good to go.

Ps everybody has a bad side, on my own I can't stand a girl who's dirty or lies or has no fashionable style but that's just me

thanks for your advise. He doesn't womanize but he tak alcohol. He has never for once lay hi hands on me. He seem neat too

BlueEyeBalls:
you don't know what u have till its gone... Ey there dey confuse urself

You know guys initially can be nice and later can change. I took him to be among those but he kept prooving me wrong. Is it bad to seek advise as regard that?

BlueEyeBalls:
I guess u are reading my comment expecting a very good advice.... Read along Pls...













You are a fool for letting the devil make u doubt such a guy, it's a girl like you that changed me into what I am today!


No provoke me oooooo

teejaypee:
Hmmm, as a guy, if you are nice, the ladies would complain! . . You're bad, they would say you're just like the rest or Nag. .
Girls please what do you really want?

hmmmmmm

tritt:
Are you sure you know what you want??

He seem to be all I need in a man

Olalan:
You have what many ladies wish to have, please try your best to reciprocate the love, care and respect he has shown you.

Thank you Bro

LordIsaac:
I hope you aren't his fantasy figure...for if reality sets in when you change, as you're not perfect, you'll surely see the other side of him!

I seem not to get you

Hello Nairalanders,

I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief.

I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls.

Mod please help me move to FP