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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Is It Possible To Mary A Girl That Has Already Gone Out With Your Best Friend by anisite(m): 5:10pm On Jul 14, 2009
a girl that been in relationship with my best friend is after me know for marriage, please what should l do?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / I Want To Marry A Virgin,please Where Can I Find One? by anisite(m): 5:04pm On Jul 14, 2009
dear friends,


i want to marry a girl that has never been tampered by any man,pls!!!!!!! help me where can i possibly get through. sad sad
Dating And Meet-up Zone / I Want To Marry A Virgin,please Where Can I Find One? by anisite(m): 5:00pm On Jul 14, 2009
dear friends,


i want to marry a girl that has never been tempered by any man,pls!!!!!!! help me where can i possibly get through. sad sad
Business / Fastest Place To Sell Domain Name? by anisite(m): 3:09pm On Jul 06, 2009
please where for now is the fastest place to sell domain name.
Literature / Where To Get Romance Books by anisite(m): 3:05pm On Jul 06, 2009
IF YOU WANT TO WRITE ROMANCE BOOKS, I SUGGEST YOU CONSULT http://the-worldofromance..com/, IT MAY CONTAINS WHAT YOU WANT.
Romance / How To Show A Guy That You Like Him by anisite(m): 3:01pm On Jul 06, 2009
GUIDELINES:

1. Smile every time he looks your way. Flash him an inviting glance. Eye contact is great. Or, depending on the guy, it may be more effective to blush and roll your eyes. This generally works for shy guys. Don't stare at him too long or you might freak him out.

2. Call him and ask about the homework when you really just want him to talk to you but don't do it constantly.

3. Practice your gaze in the mirror. This way, you can perfect a confident, positive look of interest. Rehearsing also helps you avoid lovey-dovey doe eyes. Hold eye contact with your reflection for a full minute if you can. This will get you comfy keeping your eyes on your crush when the two of you finally chat. Don’t stare, glaze over or forget to blink!

4. Be way casual. Don’t fix your eyes on the guy from a distance like a tiger hunting down dinner. Pretend you just noticed him right before you reach him, then catch his gaze and flash a smile as you pass. Check out his reaction: Does he hold your gaze and smile back? If so, good. Repeat this process a couple of times, until one of you is bold enough to strike up a conversation. Try practicing what you are going to say before you confront him; that way there won't be any awkward silences. Note: shy guys (this will usually be you). Shy guys will very seldom make the first move.

5. If you are talking to him, looking down and smiling so that he sees your smile lets him know you enjoy talking to him. Even better, a little later state: "I really like spending time with you" Look for signs to see if he likes you too. If he does, wait for him to make the big move, but try to strike up a conversation. Get him used to the idea of having you around. Make him comfortable around you. If things sway a little off course, crack a joke or end the conversation. NEVER try to play hard to get: some guys won't understand that you are playing, and will think that you're not interested.

6. Strike up conversations when the timing's right. Tune in carefully to what your crush has to say. Guys love girls who listen well—it makes them feel interesting, which in turn makes them feel good about themselves, which in turn makes them feel good about you for making them feel good about themselves! Got it? Cool. Compliment the listening with a compliment. While he’s telling you about that giant trout he caught at the lake last summer, take in all the details, and then say, “Whoa! You must be a really amazing fisherman! I’ve never had a chance to go fishing myself, but I’ve always wanted to try it.” Bingo! He’ll start talking a mile a minute—he’s gonna want to teach you everything! Next thing you know, you’ll be out on a lake in a canoe with your cutie.

7. Express appreciation for qualities that he happens to possess and interests that he happens to have (and mean it!). Be careful, though: Don’t act even remotely stalkerish. For example, never attend his games by yourself—it’ll look weird. Just go with your crew, have a great time and, afterward, very casually pass him by—once—smile, and say, “Hey, that no-look pass you made was impressive!” A genuine pat on the back for a job well done scores major points.

8. Flirt. Whether it's laughing at his jokes, teasing him gently, or touching his arm, a little bit of playfulness never hurts.

9. Invite him out. It doesn't have to be as straightforward as asking him out on a one-on-one date. If you're going to the movies with a group, for example, ask him to come along. Use group activities to your advantage. In addition to bowling nights and mall trips, suggest your group throw a bash for your bud who has a birthday coming up. You be in charge of the invite list, and make sure his invitation is the first one to fly into the mailbox. Better yet, ask him and a bunch of other guys to help you and the girls pull this party off. A day of painting “Happy Birthday” murals and stringing up streamers can be bonding in a big way. Be sure to give him props for his excellent ideas.

10. Find out if he has a special someone already. You can beat around the bush a little:
* What'd you do last night?
* Do you hang out with different people, or do you pretty much stick with the same crowd?
* Who do you usually end up spending the most time with?

11. Avoid doing all of the above with other guys.

12. Leave it be. Once you think you've got your message across, don't push it any further, but don't back off, either. The ball is in his court now.

13. Test his reaction to the idea of you and him. Don't come right out with it and blurt out, "I LOVE YOU!" Do it subtly. A good suggestion would be to say, "I had this weird dream last night where you and I were a couple." If he laughs or looks weirded out, laugh along and say, "Yeah, I know!" If he blushes or smiles, say something like, "But would that seem too weird?" If he truly likes you, he should reply with something along the lines of, "I don't think so." This is a good sign.(NOTE:He may just laugh along because he thinks you don't like him.)

14. Try and joke a lot with him. This is very good. If you catch him staring at you in a joking way, stare back,

15. Be yourself. If he doesn't like you for yourself, he doesn't like you, but don't worry, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

16. Remember to have your own life. Try not to get super clingy; some guys might like that, but it might be for all the wrong reasons.

17. If nothing else works, just straight out say "i like you." smile a little, and then turn away (so you don't make him feel embarrassed!.


Tips

* Start small and work your way up gradually, being attentive to how he responds every time you take it up a notch. You're better off taking your time rather than coming on too strong at once.
* Don't give him mixed signals! It will just confuse him. If he wants you, it will come clear to you eventually.
* Remember, guys like to feel like the 'man.' Boost his ego with a genuine compliment.
* If he doesn't get the hint you are saying, then simply tell him you like him, but don't come on too hard.
* Don't force him into becoming your boyfriend. It's just as hard for a guy to say "no" as it is for a girl.
* Be playful with him.


Warnings

* Just because you've let him know that you like him doesn't mean you've given him permission to put the moves on you faster than you'd prefer. Don't let any guy use the argument that you lead him on.
* Being mean is NOT a good way to let him know you're interested. This is just the perception from the media. For you, it may seem like a way to get him to notice you, but it'll just end up with him thinking you hate him.
* DO NOT flirt too much. If you're going to flirt, flirt mildly. If you don't, guys will think you're too much of a flirt and start making mean cracks about you. You don't want this.
* Remember that you are not required to have the same interests and hobbies as your guy. Guys can enjoy things that seem strange to you, don't pretend that you enjoy them too. However do be supportive of the things that make him happy. (eg: Differing tastes in music)

Things You'll Need

* Confidence
* Good hygiene
* A winning personality
* Your smile
* Trust in your self
* Be kind to him and his friends

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Rap Battles / The Best Way To Enhance Voice Power by anisite(m): 2:54pm On Jul 06, 2009
please who can help me,i want to enhance my voice.
Romance / How To Be The Most Romantic Boyfriend by anisite(m): 1:47pm On Jul 06, 2009
Steps

1. Send flowers to her office (for no reason at all!). Flowers anywhere are good!
2. Just a card is fine! Women love cards. Make one yourself
3. Put your arm around her waist when you walk; don't do the casual "arm around her shoulder". Alternatively, hold her hand.
4. Make love to her. Have music playing, lights dimmed, rose petals, and lingerie.
5. Give her little gifts or surprises. Little things mean the most.
6. Play with her hair, but don't be annoying.
7. Put your arms around her waist when you are standing behind her.
8. Sleep with her when you can.
9. Don't just kiss her on the lips; Her cheeks, forehead, shoulders, neck, arms, stomach, and chin are great, too!
10. Make eye contact with her as much as possible.
11. Tell her she is beautiful, not hot. Most girls would rather be called beautiful.
12. Plan a perfect "date". Something other than the cliche Dinner and movie.
13. Tell her you love her (but only if you really do). Write her love notes, too.
14. Be sensitive to her needs.
15. Make her feel special around her friends and other people.
16. Make her birthday special.
17. Plan something big for Valentine's Day.
18. Make her feel like she is the most important thing in the world to you.
19. Give her a massage for no reason at all and without her having to ask!
20. A romantic kiss would be throwing her back in your arms in a lying position(her) you standing and kiss her!
21. Always listen to her as much as you can, even though it is about girl stuff.
22. Always pay attention to her. A little ignorance will make her feel upset or even hurt her.
23. Always make sure you hold her at least once a day! Make her feel she is the most important person to you.


[edit] Tips

* Don't be too serious. Girls love a guy with a sense of humor.
* Remember little things she says in conversations with you and bring them up later. She'll be flattered that you would remember.
* Lie on her thighs for a while and kiss her.


[edit] Warnings

* Know your limits; take it slow. some girls are not ready for kissing or other intimate activities.
* Know the type of girl you are dating; some girls, specially tomboy ones, hate love notes or DJ radio announcements, thinking that you just want to make them fall in love with you in order to bed them. This could ruin your relationship.
* Never ignore her, for she will leave you before you can say, "but wait. Don't go!"

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Health / What Kind Of Drug Can One Take For Him To Be Healthy by anisite(m): 12:35pm On Jul 06, 2009
i need help, i want somebody to help me and tell me the kind drug that can increase my appetite.
Romance / Please Help,how Can I Know The Right Girl,for Relationship by anisite(m): 12:23pm On Jul 06, 2009
i am afraid, i don't know if i can still trust any girl for now. i enter into a relationship with this particular girl and it was so promising, but afterward she began to answer suspected call and will lie to me even when the truth is clear.

please is this what relationship is all about,cos she is the first girl in my life?
Business / You Can Prepare Fish Nutrition Yourself,it's Easy by anisite(m): 11:34am On Jul 06, 2009
Preparing Your Own Fish Feeds

Introduction

Most fish farmers and ornamental fish hobbyists buy the bulk of their feed from commercial manufacturers. However, small quantities of specialized feeds are often needed for experimental purposes, feeding difficult-to-maintain aquarium fishes, larval or small juvenile fishes, brood fish conditioning, or administering medication to sick fish. In particular, small ornamental fish farms with an assortment of fish require small amounts of various diets with particular ingredients. It is not cost effective for commercial manufacturers to produce very small quantities of specialized feeds. Most feed mills will only produce custom formulations in quantities of more than one ton and medicated feeds are usually sold in 50-pound bags. Small fish farmers, hobbyists, and laboratory technicians are, therefore, left with the option of buying large quantities of expensive feed, which often goes to waste. Small quantities of fish feed can be made quite easily in the laboratory, classroom or at home, with common ingredients and simple kitchen or laboratory equipment. This paper presents examples of:

1) Experimental and practical fish feed blends or formulas which are nutrient balanced and adaptable to particular conditions;

2) The formulation and preparation of a semi-purified ornamental African cichlid fish diet that can be used in the laboratory or when small quantities of feed are needed;

3) The preparation of a gelatin-based diet that is often used to administer medicines or other chemicals. Background information on nutrition, feedstuffs and feed formulations are presented with emphasis primarily on the feeding of ornamental “aquarium” fishes.
FOR MORE INFO :http://preparingyourfishfeed..com/

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