hmmm

ennon92: may thunder of my ancestors fire ur slippery tongue.

amadioha fire your nyansh.oloshi!

jadelyn007: If u r all those tins u describe(good character,virgin,intelligent,fun to with and beautiful) u will find a serious man of ur choice bt d only little Ish is that its less likely that he will b a virgin.that shouldn't b a problem ryt?

well i know virgin men are very scarce so as long as hes not slept with the entire female population,i guess i can always make exceptions if hes such a good man

tony ayo: Hey guys, this chick is messing with your heads. This is an exact msg from a page i'm following on FB, the chick just copied and pasted it here. Why hasn't she replied any of ur comments?

Any girl with such qualities exists only in my dream.

I did not copy and paste anything from fb.Believe what you will

Love_Decay: OP .. if ur speaking the truth . Am not saying there are'nt many physically/morrally attractive virgin girls. It's just that most guys are really scared of good girls. especially if a girl is good looking and has standards.

Guys are more interested in sex or free sex if possible and the more 'curvy' you are the more uncontrollable their libido's.

Some posters say u show too much skin. WTF - so girls cant dress attractive or put on short skirts and not be seen as hoes. ( this mentally is actually sickening ) . When i see a girl is tight/revealing clothes i find it funny - my sis a fashion critic and an art and history major (1st class) so these issue's are just not a big thing for me.

Remember in the old days women were very naked . And there was nothing like rape and virgins were in huge numbers infact every girl was to be considered a virgin until proven otherwise.

Today, men see an attractive girl and no matter how she dresses the say no she cant be a virgin or a descent girl. So, how do you expect me to approach you and jst chill around you - while observing your actions to get first hand information on wether you are or are not what you say or seem to be.

I truly feel underappreciated women/girls pain in such issue's - many of them eventually get a boyfriend in the 'just sex group' so that they can feel among. It's really sickening and worst of all - the guys end up with the crumbs cos we all just want to get some. And hardly think of marraige or settling down when we have wasted of intelligent high quality 'sperm' on silly adventures. Only to marry and start having have witted children and blame our women for our dillema.

My sister - just hand in ..... am sure some 'virgin' watching from afar... since most of them are shy anyway and very security conscious in my opinion - i hang out with a few. Funny enough - they are usually the one's with the most steady job, strong family ties ... etc.

Most of the virgins are not fashion conscious - so the probably dress weird but you can change them 'in a way' i suppose.

Good guys full ground - them just they fear to say hi

thanks for that,youve raised up my hopes

AlbinoNinja: I don't call people using their name either, so if I do, it usually means something is up - an extreme emotion from either end of the spectrum

I get you

patrickdarlins: depends on d kind of voice wen call my name oo....and d face tooo....i no mind slap u if u cal my name from ur ugly mouth wit ur ugly face oo...lols....some voice dey fine pass face sha....

hahaha PATRICK!!!!

Seems most people tend to have bigger balls when sitting behind a computer/phone screen but if you actually met another nairalander in reality, how would you behave. Men would you approach the females and women, would you be as bold as some of you are on here?

I don't drink,

I don't smoke,

I don't go out,

I am still a virgin,

I have never kissed,

I don't ask for money,

I don't play around with guys,

I am beautiful and trustworthy,

I am very kind,

I am very adorable and curvy

Is this all worth it and is my prince charming waiting for me somewhere in this world who is also a virgin and will appreciate me for keeping myself pure ? or am I doing this for nothing?

Most men only approach me for sex

As for me, I hardly call people by their name. But if I do, the guys think im being romantic towards them Why is this so?

we gals don like as appear dasprate

I am going tru dis problem 2.abeg una help me 2 o.d bobo no jus look ma side .even if na jazz u get abeg direct me,tenzz vewi much

I understand your fear dear. Nigerian men are PIGS!!! Disgusting little creatures mschewww. Abeg no date dem o, dem go use you throw way

2goodbobo: Tell him already. Is better to be open than to die in silence.

yes i know this, but i dont want it to affect his relationship with his gf

OMO IBO: Lmao @ ' I want to go but he won't let me'.

Bollocks!

Threadstarter, donate your mound of venus to this guy already.

what is mound of venus?

alutacontinua:

How would you go and tell him that kind of tin
U're not ready to do the right thing.
All you need to do is withdraw gradually....instead of spending 5 hours with him in a day, reduce it to 4 and den 3 and 21/2....he wld nt even notice you're gone. You might be lucky enough to get over the feelings before you even end the friendship completely. But telling him you wanna end u guys' friendship is a NO-NO.

i understand what your saying, but i had no choice, he always accuse me of withdrawing so i just tell him i want to end we friendship why is it a no-no?

Kingsteve: Listen to this advice very well.
Tell him once more, about your intentions...that is; breaking up the friendship.
If he asks you why, or refuses to let go, just grab him and kiss him.

After kissing him, tell him that is the reason why you don't want to be around him any more, cos you have feelings for him.
If he still insists, then open your legs for him, and fvck him senseless.
Life could be unfair sometimes, I guess this Situation is one of those cases where life could be a tad complicated and unfair!

It's best to deal with your problems, than running away from it.
One way or the other, this situation must come to an end, the question is, how does it end...good or bad?

loool if only i was the kind of lady that had no morals

Richfella:

Very funny. U be Moses?

There's no way you'll ANNOUNCE to an acquaintance that he must 'let my people go' and he wouldn't ask why.

haha
Can you give me a suitable lie for a reason then?
Im really bad at lying

alutacontinua: ^ ^ ^ ^
Did you announce to him that you want to stop being his friend?

yes i did

Its gotten worse
He refuses to let me go and I really don't want to tell him the reason i must go

3ace:

"he keeps accusing me of pushing him away"

He might have started having feelings for you too considering the above statement in quote. Maybe he's just shy to let you know because he already has a girlfriend. But girl, like someone has advised, you have got to do what you gotta do by keeping your distance if you don't want to get in between them. That is the only way out. Really, can a male and female who are not related be close without having a romantic affair?

Thank you, i guess thats what i'll do

baralatie: Young lady ds is wat u said:
1.u knw ds ur guy over a period of tim
2.he is a confidant
3.he tried fixng u n a relatnshp
if u want 2 sav urself d agony.don't 'want' him.leave him and hold on2 Jesus Christ,ur bible and ur studies.u'l 4gt him sharp!

its easier said than done

Temismith: Sisi op, u sed u are just happy wen ''u are around him''...... Dat is ''inFAKEtuation'' lust''not ''LOVE'' biko, keep distance, drastically reduce d amount at which u guys talk and be together with each

I thought lust is when you want to have sex with someone? i dont think i lust over him? but yes im trying my hardest to keep my distance but he keeps accusing me of pushing him away

Dygeasy: Its good they don't know about your feelings. Someone would have advised you to stay away from the guy but I'd rather you look elsewhere. If its so impossible, I'd ask you a question; Are you always contented with what you have?

If yes, say yes to that guy that has been pestering you all the while. It can't be that bad, you have your own admirers and suitors. Don't you?

Pysam: Do you have your own boyfriend then launch deep into your own business maybe it ll help cos if you tell the guy things ll never be the same again.if you re sympathetic about breaking his relationship then don't tell him.find a way to kill the feeling by transferring your energy to something else. And its better that way

Im usually a contented person, I recently broke up with my boyfriend and Im not looking to get into a relationship anytime soon, my friend has been here for me the whole time, he even tried introducing me to one of his friends to help me get over the break up to no avail. Im helpless

True2myself24: Tell him the truth. If he's a good guy he'll understand and respect you for that. At least give him some space so you don't cause him to cheat. And you never know how long his relationship with his girlfriend will last.

I thought of doing this but like others have said, I don't want to start putting thoughts into his head, he seems to really love his girlfriend

World war III: Get rid of the girl! You can do it girl!

I probably can, but i don't want to because if i managed to, whose to say the same thing wont happen to me?

alutacontinua: You're on a reeaaallllyyyyy long thing. I don't think you should tell him, cos consciously or unconsciously, he'll come for you, thereby jeopardizing his relationship. So, I think you should start thinking of how to get rid of that feeling.

Ive treid everything but to no avail, I dont want to jeopardize his relationship thats why im looking for the best way to end our friendship

Atheist:-D:
Life.... smh. Why oh why must things be so complicated. People always want what someone else has. Once he leaves his gf for you then you dont want him after all and then dump him.

You better leave him alone and keep your distance. Dont give him any explanation... it will only encourage him.

Are you saying I should just stop talking to him without explaining why? Thats a bit harsh don't you think?

190: Why don't u just sleep with him

You might loose interest after sleeping with him u know

I dont throw myself on men

HARDDON: sorry to ask op, isnt this just s simple lost that should wear off?

what exactly do you love about him?
his look? wallet? personality ?

if you can place your hands on that stuff, den the prob would be half solved

Honestly, I don't know what it is, I guess im just really happy whenever im around him

Ok basically as the topic says,this is my plight but I want us to stop being friends because i cant handle the feelings anymore so please someone help me,how can I stop being friends with this person without hurting them.
PS: they dont know of my feelings, at least i dont think so